The Guests in Attendance

Read it. The starting point of this article may be that we clearly know that this relationship will not continue. It just so happened that I was currently in my graduation season, and suddenly felt this way. But I didn't fall in love first, and then I felt that the distance would be tiring. Although the two people in the article are still in love, I actually don't understand why it ended without any problem. After all, Matsuda and Meibao are such good people. I think they have the courage to sacrifice for the people they love. Meibao can get married and have children for her parents, but can't have a long-distance relationship for Matsuda, which makes me a little confused. After all, going to Japan is not complicated, and having a long-distance relationship in a foreign country is about the same difficulty as a long-distance relationship between the North and the South. But thinking about it later, it was just because I thought this was the second dimension. I subconsciously thought that there was no pressure like the third dimension, parents' urging and lack of understanding of marriage, and strange looks from colleagues. It's just that these things don't exist in the second dimension. That's why I felt that the separation between the two people was very abrupt. So if you don't understand this article, maybe it's a good thing. It at least means you haven't been crushed by the pressure of reality. I hope everyone can love and hate as they please, and thank the author again for his output. Very tasty knife that makes me spin left and right

When you are young, you cannot meet someone who is too stunning, for fear that they will be unforgettable for the rest of your life. This is the perfect word to describe Matsuda. First of all, I would like to thank Zaozao for presenting the story of picking up girls and Jinpei in front of us in this heartwarming yet extremely charming story (I can no longer describe this feeling in words.) For her sister, Matsuda broke into her world unexpectedly like an accident from God. On an ordinary day, a story belonging to the two of them began. She clearly knew her heartbeat and what was between her and Matsuda. After retreating, she finally fell in under Matsuda's blunt attack and began a short but unforgettable happy life. It's no different from every moment in every day, but Matsuda's presence gives it a different flavor. Even if we don't sit anywhere and just stay together quietly, I think my sister's heart will be peaceful and happy. It's a pity that the two people, no matter how deeply in love with each other, finally said goodbye, just like fireworks, and then disappeared. However, one was reluctant to leave, mixed with sourness, and the other was waiting for him, wrapped in the juice of protection. Even so, they could not shake their love for each other. The tenderness in Matsuda's eyes when he read the wedding speech, and the longing and sadness hidden in the dark after he stopped, all touched our hearts. Not to mention repairing the wedding dress, just closing the curtains in the delivery room and shooing away others was enough to show what a good person he was. My sister probably knew in her heart that it was impossible not to regret missing such a good person. It's a pity that there is no if between them. When Matsuda got off the bus and looked at the airport with people coming and going, what was he thinking? Will he have other encounters with others in the future? Or will he come to the child's full moon party in the future? The heartbeat of the twenty-year-old still existed when he met his sister at the age of forty, but he learned to hide it in every detail in his own way. If we don't meet each other again in the future, Jinpei will look at the familiar ceiling one night when he wakes up, thinking that his beloved girl once lay beside him, and his eyes will also unconsciously flash with nostalgia. Jinping Ai is his beloved sister, so I'm afraid he may live alone in the future. After all, it feels like it's difficult for him to like other girls based on his personality. Maybe one day. On an ordinary and sunny day, the little girl with Tweetings was pushed onto him by the crowd. He subconsciously looked at the panicked little girl on his lap, who was grabbing the corner of his clothes and refusing to let go no matter what. Jinpei bent down and picked her up, his movements clumsy but securely protecting the child's back. He took out the candy from his arms and handed it to the little girl. The little girl immediately smiled and kissed him. Jinpei was still not used to such straightforward expressions. The tips of his ears turned red and the corners of his eyes hidden under his sunglasses curled up silently. He was unexpectedly stunned when he saw the amulet in the little girl's pocket. Just like what he and she asked for back then. Suddenly, a strange yet familiar voice came to his ears. In the little girl's eager reply, he seemed to see the girl from back then running towards him. Although he was a little hesitant, it was better than the light shining in her eyes. "Long time no see, Ping Ping." I miss you my love. It's just a preset imagination. It seems that some words don't convey the meaning. Don't mind it early [crying]

This ending is actually very idealistic. In fact, the heroine will only have a harder time than in the article. In reality, the pressure of her parents, the criticism of secular morality, and her husband's self-esteem will only make the heroine fall deeper into hell.

I never expected that the most fortunate thing after reading it would be that I made a firm choice to remain unmarried and have no children and received support from my whole family. While crying, I once again strengthened my resolve to remain unmarried and have no children.

It's so sad. For my parents to go against my wishes and face a future I don't want. I should never go down this road. It's too painful to think about it. It's too painful.

Why. I suddenly felt sour and angry. Why do you have to get your children married and have children for your own peace of mind? Why should you lose your life just for their peace of mind? Although this is very realistic. But I still couldn't control my reason - I felt sad, so sad. In other words, I always feel that maybe I will follow in this footsteps in the future and become a member of the secular mainstream. I'm so scared

It's so sad. In reality, there are always so many alternatives. There are always things that cannot be done both ways. After making a choice, no matter how sad or regretful you are, you can only go on. The joys, sorrows, love and hate in the two-dimensional world are so grand, and darkness and light conflict and struggle fiercely. In the third dimension, people may have tried their best just to maintain the status quo of life, and are trapped by trivial and fragmented pressure. The future is unknown. Life can be seen at a glance, step by step, and follow the rules, and there is no room for too much romance and ideals. All the characters I like are my hopes and fantasies, my unattainable extravagances. Determined and passionate, brave and sincere, he rushed to the grand fireworks on the Ferris wheel and was willing to face death for the public benefit. Sure enough it was still uncomfortable. . . The article is written here, but there will be a long, long time after this. And for the rest of my life, when time passes, years settle, and across a long distance, we can only be treated as friends, and there is no reason to be closer to each other. How do you go through the countless days and nights in the life of two words? How can you suppress the overflowing thoughts and stop thinking about the person who gave you all the respect and love you hoped for? How can you pretend that you no longer miss him and talk about the other person and the past as if nothing happened. Suddenly I thought of this sentence, "Afraid of being asked, swallow your tears and pretend to be happy." From now on, you will have completely different lives with no intersection, and he will be a passer-by and an outsider after all.

I came here from a tweet from Xiaohongshu Jimei. I only read the extra and cried a lot. I used to work in a hospital, and my obstetrics and gynecology husband played games at the door. My mother-in-law forced me to decide on the mother's diet after childbirth. An old paraplegic was controlled by his second wife. His property was controlled by his wife. Male psychopaths followed you in the early hours of the night shift. There are also people's subconscious social concepts. It is really depressing and terrifying.

God... I really feel it. It's entirely because of your parents that you choose to marry someone you don't love. You say you have to ruthlessly follow your own wishes, but it's actually very difficult to think about your parents. The relationship between Chinese people and their parents is really awkward. It's impossible to say that you don't care at all. The last sentence of the episode is really heartbreaking. Watching him disappear from your life like this... Intersect and then separate.

The ending is too realistic for a novel, but not too bad for reality. You won't meet such a stunning Matsuda, and you may not be lucky enough to meet a "sir" who is compatible with you, but you will definitely meet parents who will not be alone regardless of your wishes in order to give you support for the rest of your life. Fathers who know you don't want to but will still desperately urge you to get married. Mother, "When will you grow up?", "I will feel at ease when you get married", "If we don't get married now, what will you do when we get old?", "My biggest wish now is to see you get married"... The author writes very well, so I don't have the courage to read this article a second time.