I Couldn't Win You Over, Now You're Sorry [Showbiz]

Great! The most amazing thing is that in the end, there is no common "the heroine gets a better man to fight back the pain of being let down", nor is there any strong denial that Qingqing and her ex-husband once loved sincerely and passionately. In the end, Qingqing completed the transformation alone. Because of her strong and calm heart, she was able to face the past, present and future calmly. This is really the best crematorium story I have ever read!

The general is so heroic that the road goes straight.

Thanks to the author's creation, I feel healed. This article was a surprise to me, and it gave me the joy of panning for gold. I finished reading it in one sitting today and had many feelings. I feel that the author is a real person, and some of the plots and character logic in the story are simply reproductions of things around me; and the way the author tells the story is so natural, his writing is capable, and full of emotions. The use of poetry and the plot are like a finishing touch. It is very comfortable to read as a whole. It can be said that it is the best book experience among the novels I have read recently. The characters and plots in the story moved me the most. I once naively believed in the beauty of the world, but something happened around me that shattered my naive illusion. These things are more similar to the experiences of the hero and heroine in the story. A family that was originally united and worked hard, is thriving, with flowers blooming and the fire cooking, people are controlled by greed, and finally break the cracks in the family with their own hands. The change happened, and when I think about it at first, I feel like the earth is shattering, but when I look closely, it is silent. Desire has changed this family and laid the root of weakness. When encountering the cold current from the outside world, the career decline will also be sudden. The tree falls and the hozenes disperse. In the end, it is still the original people who carry it together. I feel quite unsatisfied about this, I question kindness, I am disappointed with human nature, and I begin to believe that good people can be bullied. I wonder why some people can have no regrets and say impatiently, "I was wrong, I was wrong, okay? What more do you want from me, force me to death?", And find all kinds of reasons for their actions: tradition, metaphysics, destiny, but they do not allow the people who have been actually hurt to express their pain and accusations of his behavior. The slightest mention of it is like a cat with exploded hair, saying "Okay, okay". I also found that once you want to maintain the relationship, care about his emotions, feel sorry for his pressure, and endure your own unhappiness, he will turn around and show his face. You have repeatedly stated that you will not meet with third parties, do not want to have a relationship with a third party, and forget about your demands for being strangers. After all the misfortunes in life, I finally realized the reality and cruelty of human nature, and had deep doubts about myself. I doubt whether the kindness I inherited is equivalent to stupidity in the eyes of others. I wonder whether I should succumb to his sophistical logic of "seeing the overall situation and playing big chess." I wonder whether the background of the world is originally dark, and the white color is just self-deception. But I'm just not convinced. After reading this article, I feel healed and I can tell myself with confidence that if I don't cry for my feelings, then no one will fight for my interests. Being kind is not wrong, I just don't want to become as disgusting and unworthy as him. Desire, money, and power can devour a person's humanity, reduce feelings to a naked calculation of interests, make the weak the object of desire, and people become commodities. This kind of unhealthy atmosphere and interpersonal relationships has great harm to the personality, whether it is those who rely on money and power to harm others, those who are harmed, or even those who rely on money and power to materialize themselves as troublemakers. Those with good intentions can still struggle to keep their human appearance, but those who rely on wealth have become slaves of wealth, with a hateful appearance and no freedom. I had mixed emotions when reading this article, which reflected the things around me. As the story developed, I kept looking back on my growth trajectory, and asked my heart about what I faced, what I was afraid of, and what I wanted. It is really interesting to see later, especially in the extra autobiography, how Ling Yue and Rong Yi describe their relationship. Just like the previous article, they almost have interchanged situations. At first, Qingqing ostrich deceived herself with her feelings, while Rong Yi was alienated by money, wine and sex, thinking that everything could be judged by profit, pushing every inch, and pushing her nose to the face; but in the end, Qing Qing faced the cruelty of reality, kept fighting, and concluded that social relationships were more important, while Rong Yi finally realized the value of true love after going through highs and lows, and ended up trapped in an emotional illusion. The banter of this drama is so funny. But I can't help but feel worried in my heart: Could love be an illusion of the weak in the relationship, and interests are always calculated by the strong? Will equal relationships fall into this two-faced charade once they are out of balance? Having said so much, I really want to thank the author for writing this article, it is very helpful.

This is an article that made me cry constantly and make my heart palpitate, but I stayed up late to finish it. There are many plots that resonate wonderfully with reality. The sense of security brought by "trust" in marriage is the source of many bonds that are difficult to break away. No one can be sure that the next one will be better than this one, especially when this one reaches the so-called average to some extent, you will always compromise for various reasons. So I was happy from the bottom of my heart when Qingqing got divorced. She really made the decision after careful consideration. She will usher in a better life, which is what I have been looking forward to...

Realistic love and marriage have been put on the throne of fantasy because of the layers of filters and halos put on them by too many literary and artistic works. I really like what the heroine said about people who reach middle age and find that life is more about social relationships than family relationships. The tug and pull of divorce revealed the faces of both parties, which were more hideous and ugly than calm and relieved. I remember when I was a child, I witnessed a divorce case involving a relative. The tug and pull of love and hate for many years has turned and turned again and again, scaring me to the point of "staying away" from the marriage relationship. In this way, Qingqing's growth in the marriage relationship is based on reality and is better than reality. After all, she is kind enough, pure and talented, and can break away from the cowardice of the past, stand on her own in the new world and embrace greater achievements. Who can not say that this is another kind of "fairy tale". That would be a great ending.

There are too many fairy tales in the novel. It is not easy to see one that is close to reality. Love is something that cannot be explained. Outsiders say that they just stand and talk without pain. How can they empathize with each other? Girls' love is often based on memories, It feels like self-deception, but men know it clearly, but they are so confident that they have to destroy our fantasies and expectations bit by bit. Just like the heroine said, I am willing to be an ostrich stuck in the sand, why do you want to pull me out! If one's sincerity is trampled on, it is because one's own timidity and cowardice have given others a chance. If possible, who doesn't want to have someone to rely on? The reality is that the mountain will fall if one relies on it; if one relies on water, the water will dry up. How can you grow without heartache? Enriching yourself and making yourself stronger are the fundamentals. Be a kind, affectionate and righteous person, raise your own bottom line, don't sink, don't lower your standards, you don't deserve anyone who feels sorry for you!

I really don't like reunions, but most people write like this. I feel that the author is very logical, very understanding of psychology, loves women very much, and has a heart.

Yes, Qingqing, you are an amazing woman. You have a more generous mind and more strength than those who are immersed in small love and personal gains and losses. You can endure what ordinary people cannot, and leave room for nostalgia. I think this is not a shortcoming. When you break through the obstacles, you will find these down-to-earth resources for your success. As a kind-hearted person, you will choose to be accommodating to both of you in times of crisis. You will not owe each other anything and have a clear conscience. Likewise, only you who are kind can stand firm in the ever-changing situation, and can make the public believe in your character amidst all kinds of speculation and conspiracy theories. Be kind and virtuous, step out of the shadow of the small family, and enter the battlefield everywhere.

After reading "Sa Hua", I feel a little disappointed, but I admire Qingqing from the bottom of my heart. She is really a hero, a heroine who has come out of her own cowardice and climbed to the top indifferently.

I ended the chase at night, and it's very sad. It's really sad. Sometimes I really feel that love and marriage all depend on conscience and luck in the end. Why can boys separate love and sex?