Song of Changgan

It's so sad, because it was so sad that I had to stop for a long time before I could continue reading this story. Compared with the regret that the love story collapsed, I felt more of an almost empathetic sadness and fear. After a long struggle, the process of having Ah Fan's feet bound was like an eagle's torture. Her feet were eventually worn off. Only by breaking her feet like a tough green bamboo could she surrender. From a modern point of view, once the eye of gender is opened, it cannot be closed again. It's not that Ah Pan can't be a housewife, she just doesn't want to. In fact, it was good enough in this dynasty, with loving parents by her side, a husband who didn't give up on her, a mother-in-law who wasn't tormenting, and a well-off family, but none of these could make her deceive herself into closing her eyes. This kind of life of a small citizen could be lived, but except that Wushan was not a cloud, and she had experienced high mountains and flowing water, how could she continue to live it? The literati wrote, "The pearl sheds tears when returning to the king, wishing we could meet again when we were not married." It is clearly an expression of ambition, and the story of "Pipa, Don't Hug" is also a poem to express ambition. For Ah Fan, "Pipa, Don't Hug," is not only about the love between children, but also her intellectual ambition. However, the times can tolerate a man starting over with such a story, but they cannot allow her to make another choice. If there is a chance to change something, when studying "The Book of Songs", don't learn from Guan Guan Jujiu, but learn from "Women's arrogance cannot be explained." I feel a little too much and think a little too far. I hope the author will not dislike it 555

According to the mainstream perception of society, a female 985 college student is very compatible with a boy who has not graduated from a higher vocational college. As long as the boy loves her and makes money, they are a match made in heaven. I've seen three pairs of these. The first couple are of opposite genders. The female boss is a self-employed girl. She graduated from high school and found a master's degree from a well-known university. She has been hiding her academic qualifications. I think she cares about it, otherwise she would not hide it. Her knowledge and knowledge are higher than those of ordinary college students, so they have been married for nine years without revealing their secrets, but this has always been a thorn in her side. In the second couple, the girl's original family was very traumatized, so she was very attached to this person who was kind to her. This guy worked as a courier, had not graduated from a vocational college, and had a low sense of morality. When the girl was in school, he went out to watch movies and have dinner with the girl on a blind date, and even gave her lipstick and perfume. After being caught cheating, they broke up. Even though they had been separated for two years, the boy still called and sent red envelopes and gifts. He kept in touch despite all the trouble. The third couple, who had just graduated and already had a one-year-old son, were married at an early age. The man could only respond to her ideas. He earned a lot of money as a chef, but basic communication was all about the son's family affairs. She went to a junior college at home and was not very energetic at all. She advised me to live like her, and I was full of words. I am content to live such a life by flattery, but in fact it is a negative impact on my spirit. I am a stupid person. I can't explain why I am opposed to such a combination. I just feel that there will be no common language in such a life. I have experienced what true spiritual compatibility looks like, even though we are destined to be together. I don't want my husband and I to talk about the moon and sixpence, and how valuable the dreams that Clander would rather wander around and refute from the world are, but he has never read Maugham's works, and even spurns and mocks the dream chaser who seems to me to be noble.

Hey, so Ah Fan ended up with Xiao Yi? Xiao Yi wouldn't call another woman by Ah Fan's maiden name. This would be too cruel.

There is a silver vase at the bottom of the well, and the silver vase is about to be tied up with a silk rope. Grind the jade hairpin on the stone, and the jade hairpin will be folded in the center. What can you do if the bottle sinks and the hairpin breaks? It seems that I am leaving you now. I recall that when I was a girl at home, people spoke and behaved differently. Chanjuan has autumn cicada wings on her temples, twinkling over the distant mountains. Laughing and accompanying the play in the back garden, I didn't know you at this time. My concubine is playing with green plum blossoms against a short wall, and you are riding a white horse next to a weeping poplar tree. They immediately looked at each other from afar, and their hearts broke as soon as they saw Zhijun. I know you are broken-hearted and share your words. You guide the pines and cypresses on the mountain. Feeling you, the pines and cypresses turn into my heart, and my two servant girls chase you away. After five or six years of staying at Jun's house, the adults of the Jun family often spoke. If she is hired, she will be a wife and a concubine, and she cannot bear to be worshiped by the master. Finally, I realized that your home was uninhabitable, so I had no choice but to go out and have nowhere to go. Are there no parents in the high hall? There is also family love in my hometown. I didn't get the news even if I came late, and I feel so sad and ashamed that I can't go home today. A day's kindness to the king can lead to a hundred years of misunderstanding. I would like to send this message to you, a stupid little girl, be careful not to leave your body to others!

When I first read this article, I thought it could be summed up in one sentence: a bamboo horse cannot withstand the fall of heaven. After thinking about it carefully, I realized that it was a bit general. The sincerity never lies, but the sincerity can change rapidly. It's true that the heroine changed her mind, and it's true that the hero did something wrong, but both of them seemed to have reasons for doing something wrong. Breaking away from the superficial understanding and considering it from a higher dimension, childhood sweethearts are a bit like junior high school students and high school students falling in love early. They established an inseparable friendship early before their three views were perfected. But to put it bluntly, this friendship is precious or cheap. I admired the male protagonist very much. He was loyal and infatuated, and would stick to his true feelings for the rest of his life. But then I looked down on him. He did not have the courage of a man to look directly at the problem, and this lack of courage made him use the wrong method to retain the female protagonist. I hated the heroine at first. I hate people who trample on other people's hearts, regardless of whether they are male or female, whether they are the protagonist or not. But after reading the novel, I gradually came to understand her. After all, everyone has the right to choose and everyone has the power to change. The change of sincerity can only prove one thing. From the beginning, it became so sincere that it was not true. At that time, mistakenly thinking that love was true was just a limited choice in a small geographical area and a small human world. Clumsy writing cannot express my thoughts. If it offends everyone, it will be treated as a joke. People often ask me why I don't have a boyfriend and why I don't plan to get married. Some people also ask me why I like reading romance novels so much and why I hate sadistic novels so much. In fact, I think they all have the same answer. I hate sadistic literature because it hides real love under the bitter taste of sadism. I like romance because it expresses true love under the aura of love. I refuse to fall in love and get married because there is no true love in the third dimension. I am grateful that I was able to meet such a true article written by the author at my age, which made me fall in love again (bushi [caigou]). The existence of an author like Dada in Jinjiang is the only reason why I am struggling in the sea of ​​books like Shi. Thank you for the high-quality works brought by high-quality authors 😚

I have basically read these books written by the author Da Da. They are really well written and have great intentions. I hope everything goes well for Da Da Three Dimensions. Yongle's article is also very well written. I will continue to follow it. Come on Da Da!

The baby marriage arranged by several adults ruined the heroine's life

He can lead thieves to self-immolation. Ah Fan is also a man of integrity.

The writing is already very good, you have to work hard to get out of it!

After reading it, I found the author's writing to be very good. I really like the author's realistic and restrained writing style. When I read it, I always felt that it was a little bit like an old childhood sweetheart article that I liked a lot. It refers to the different endings of life with similar backgrounds under different identities and encounters. That article was more romantic and dreamy, while this one is more realistic and ruthless. Back to the article, things like childhood sweethearts seem to be romantic and fateful, but in fact, many times they just become a cover and obstacle for a person to truly know another person or another life. Time, the friendship between parents, and mutual affection are all filters that can cause people to unconsciously ignore what they really need in their hearts to grasp and cater to things and requirements that seem to be okay at the moment. But of course, it's not that Ah Fan didn't recognize Zhang Yi clearly, and she definitely knew what she really wanted. She just had no choice. What hurt and tortured her was the entire system of eating women. Her parents, Zhang Yi's parents, were not innocent. Women not having the power and opportunity to choose is the most painful tragedy. When it comes to the relationship issue, I have never felt that Ah Fan has "changed her heart". She has never talked about Zhang Yi changing her heart. She cares most about Zhang Yi, who is basically a childhood playmate and the friendship between the two families, but her view of Zhang Yi is nothing more than that (Zhang Yi has always felt this, but he can't explain it, and he won't change it if he doesn't want to know more), and Xiao Yi's appearance was like opening a hole in Ah Fan's cramped living space with only two doors, allowing her to breathe a little. Even without Xiao Yi, there would be something else that attracted Ah Fan far more than Zhang Yi. Just like when he went to Beijing to say goodbye to Zhang Yi, Ah Fan was more surprised by the rarely seen scenery outside the car window than was sad to say goodbye. This speaks volumes. As for Zhang Yi and Xiao Yi, it's true that there are few male characters with such a big gap. Maybe this is the difference between studying and not studying hhhh, but I personally think it may be more due to background and circumstances. Zhang Yi's life is so smooth. As a man, he is already born with privileges, and he is in a family where he can get what he wants. You have experienced setbacks and hardships, and your life will be smooth if you follow the wishes of your parents. You don't need to think too much. Compared with Xiao Yi, who needs to take his sister to earn a living, study hard to change his destiny and laugh at the situation of a poor boy, he can be said to be living in a greenhouse. And how can a person who has received a lot of dividends from the system understand Ah Fan's unspeakable pain as a woman? Of course it's impossible, so when you find something unsatisfactory and you can't figure it out and can't find a solution, you will feel that there is something wrong that should meet social standards but has not been done. As long as it is corrected, you can get back on the right path. The above are all my personal reading experiences. There may be many things that are far from what the author wrote, but they are indeed what I see from my perspective. Although there are still many thought-provoking details that are not mentioned, all in all it is a very serious and good article. And I have been a person who has said goodbye to my best friend, so I was very touched when I saw that the author said goodbye to his best friend as a childhood sweetheart. No matter what, I hope the author will continue to create good works, shine brightly in this life, and be the best version of himself