When Lin Daiyu Meets Hua Qi

Many JMs read the previous article and felt that Zhang Yan understood Gu Xichao so well, worked hard for him, and sacrificed for him, but Gu chose Yingchun just because his father didn't like it, which was inexplicably worthy. But I think it's understandable and this was the normal choice of that era. In that era, the most important thing was a well-matched family, the orders of parents, and the words of a matchmaker. The love between young people was just the icing on the cake. The vast majority of marriages were blind marriages. At best, after your parents selected a partner for you, they let you meet each other from a distance and know who the other person was. (My dad's grandfather and grandma got married like this. It wasn't until three days before the wedding that he saw what the bride looked like when he followed the elders to deliver gifts). If it's better, you can send letters to each other after you get engaged, or you can come and get familiar with each other during the New Year, which means that the parents really love their children. As in novels and TV shows, it is basically impossible for the parents to meet frequently to teach each other privately without knowing it. To put it bluntly, it is just fine, but if it is not discovered, the girl's reputation will basically be ruined. (This is based on the background of the Red Mansion era. If you insist on talking about the enlightenment before the Tang Dynasty, then I have nothing to say) And we feel that Zhang Yan made the wrong choice because we followed the main line of Daiyu in the book and looked at this relationship from the perspective of modern women. But even in modern times, you don't just give, and the other party must accept it. On the other hand, if Gu has developed feelings for her, and then Zhang's father withdraws, it proves that the feelings are not serious enough that she has to do it. Then even if they are together in the future, after the trace of love retreats, sooner or later, because of the family This causes countless troubles (more on this later); if he has no love between a man and a woman at all, but has to marry Zhang Yan because she likes her, that is not called love between two people, but Zhang Yan taking advantage of her kindness in return, and the nature of the feelings Zhang Yan has given will change. Let's talk about why Zhang's father strongly opposes it, and why they may not necessarily be happy if they really get together. Let's talk about Hua Lin first. Many JMs are probably dissatisfied because they think Hua Lin can succeed, but why Zhang and Gu can't. But there is the most essential difference between Hua Lin and Hua Manlou. Although Hua Manlou is white, his family has a great business and he is not alone. After Daiyu marries, the quality of life will not decline. If it were Lu Xiaofeng, and whether Lin's father would agree or not, I guess he would rather write a note asking the emperor to take more care of his daughter after his death than marry Daiyu to Lu Xiaofeng. (Actually, there is another problem here. The Hua family should theoretically be a merchant. Daiyu married into a very, very low-income family. It will actually have an impact on future generations such as imperial examinations. However, because of the author's mixed background and the fact that the Lin family has already registered with the emperor, there should be good looks, so let's ignore this for now) Another point is that although Ren Zhe was suppressed in the plot, it is an established fact that Daiyu was kidnapped. If Lin's father really wants to marry her to a well-matched official family, someone who is interested will be able to find out, and he will definitely be used to make a fuss. It can also be seen from the text that before Daiyu was kidnapped, Lin's father actually thanked the Hua family for their help but basically did not consider the Hua family. Until after Daiyu was kidnapped, on the one hand, he did receive the full help of the Hua family. On the other hand, the two young people fell in love during the rescue process. On the last hand, there was indeed a flaw in Daiyu's marriage. In the space where he could operate, the Hua family basically became the best choice. Let's talk about the couple Zhang and Gu. Is Gu Xichao really white or a lowly one? Don't let it end just because you think he's handsome because of his film and television image. Marriage is not about treating guests to a meal, it's about trivial matters. As readers, we can know that Gu's talent will not let him down. Being buried, he will become famous in the future, but Zhang's father doesn't know the plot. From his perspective as a father, his daughter, who was raised with a lot of love, will marry a poor man with nothing. Although he has some literary talent, are there few people with literary talent? In the imperial examination held every three years, only those with literary talent are selected. It would be better to pick a son-in-law from a better family than this one who is still a lowly citizen! Don't say just give more dowry. In ancient times, if you were not a door-to-door son-in-law, generally speaking, a woman's dowry could not be touched lightly and had to be passed on to her children. Therefore, when some wives died without giving birth to children, the woman's family would come to collect the dowry, because they would not give it to the descendants of the man's family who were not related to the girl, and they were not doing charity. In ancient times, when a woman used her dowry for a man to work, it was usually as a last resort. At this time, the man would often promise to transfer the money and double the dowry money added by his wife. If he kept using his wife's money, the man would be looked down upon. Everyone will say, but Gu will definitely make his wife live a good life based on his ability in the future, and Zhang Yan will probably have to endure hardships at the beginning when she gets married. Again, this is what we know from God's perspective. As a character in the story, all Zhang's father can think of is that his daughter will suffer hardship when she gets married, so he will have to work for his son-in-law. In this way, even if Gu becomes more capable in the future, Zhang's father will always feel in his heart that this son-in-law has the current family fortune through his own support. With Gu's character, it's okay for a short time, but over time he will definitely become resentful. His original feelings for Zhang Yan may turn into hatred, and it's impossible for him to end up on the wrong path like the original. Is this kind of thing rare in reality? So it's better to stop and let Gu keep Zhang Yan's kindness in his heart. Maybe in the future, when the Zhang family encounters difficulties, he can help out because of this good fate. As for Yingchun, Gu Xichao is actually not a good match based on their current status. But the Jia family is already empty. Yingchun was born as a concubine after all, and she probably won't be able to bring much dowry when she gets married (think about the original novel). She might be raided in a few years, and in the end she might lose her title to save her life. It is possible that Jia Lian will lose his official position first and then see if he can make a comeback in a few years. At that time, Gu Xichao should be on the rise, and he would most likely work with Lin's father to save the family of the first family and a few descendants of the second family; then help them get some real estate, and return to his hometown to become an ordinary rich man. Moreover, Yingchun is a patient person. She can accompany Gu Shou to be poor in the beginning, but after he gets better, she will not become arrogant and cause trouble to Gu. This pair of them will probably be a couple who will be in love for a long time. Moreover, all the girls in the Jia family are actually very thoughtful. She lived a dull life in Yingchun because she knew that her parents would not make the decision for her. No matter how strong she was, she could not change her own destiny, so she had already given up on herself. If there are good choices and development, how can a girl who is good at chess live in a bad life? Finally, I would like to mention in a low voice, I think Liu Xianglian can match Tanchun [Hey!

If anything happens in the third dimension or something else happens, can you please post an announcement to let me know?

There should not be such a couple, Yingchun is pitiful, but when it comes to the Jia family, this marriage is not beautiful. Originally, it was because Lin Ruhai was about to die that he got married to Hua Dai, but now he connects his apprentice to the Jia family. Isn't this a recipe for anger? The aristocratic family had to be cleansed. How could the yellow couch allow others to snore and sleep? When the time comes for liquidation, the Lin and Gu families cannot escape...

I originally thought that Zhang Yanhui and Gu Xichao were a couple, but I didn't feel it was a pity. First of all, Gu Xichao had no romantic feelings for her. Secondly, her father was not satisfied with Gu Xichao's life experience. It was really difficult for the two of them to be together. If they really get married, given Gu Xichao's character, if her father keeps looking at Gu Xichao from a fixed perspective, it may end in tragedy... (Didn't Gu Xichao also think about it in her heart in the article, to the effect that even if there is something, it will disappear after her father warns her) If I really want to regret something, I just regret that Zhang Yan did not get her wish to marry her sweetheart, an unrequited love that ended in vain, isn't that always the case in the world? Too many fates play tricks on people, and love is deep and shallow. Not everything can go as planned... I just pity her girlish feelings. I'm afraid she won't be able to meet anyone who can make her so tempted in the years to come. It's impossible, unless that son of the Xu family can

In fact, I think it's okay that Miss Zhang Yan and Gu Xichao are not together. After all, the family factors behind them have to be taken into consideration. In addition, I still prefer the Yingchun girls and hope they will be well.

Gu Xichao had an official match, the prime minister's daughter Fu Wanqing. Fu Wanqing was abandoned by her lover because her father and Liumen were sworn enemies, and she married Gu Xichao out of frustration. Of course she was tempted, otherwise she wouldn't have married Gu Xichao, a street performer. In order to show off his ability and to be able to match Fu Wanqing, Gu Xichao betrayed his friends, and later everyone deserted him. He was expelled from high school and his military status was unknown. He wrote the military book "Seven Strategies" and submitted it to the powerful, but no one appreciated it. For someone like Hua Man Lou who doesn't have an official mate, anyone can be a fan mate. It's actually weird to have a cp like Gu Xichao. (I think Xiao Yuda not only wants to change the fate of the tragic woman, but also the fate of men like Gu Xichao. Chung Han-liang's performance is so charming.) In fact, if you want to play the role of a rich man with both civil and military talents and a lowly family background, Fu Wanqing does not need to change. Like Zhang Yan, Fu Wanqing's father is the villain.

I came here for the main CP because the deputy CP left...

Then isn't this going to tie up the Jia family to death...

Suddenly I got a refund to solve v, so I won't be fooled anymore, right?

Is there still more or not? Don't let it go for another two years.