You by My Side [Body Swap]

I really can't resist the kind of healing and interesting articles that have nothing to do with emotional lines. The last time I felt interesting and healing was "Reverse Growth" by Chengnan Huakai, which also dealt with the theme of soul transformation. My wife's writing style is really amazing. For the first time, I feel that it's good for a cheating man to change his mind. But the title of the novel is a bit weird. "With You on My Pillow" sounds like a pretentious literature about a spoiled wife. Haha, I suggest changing the name to "After exchanging souls with my wife, I tore my own mother apart and kicked my own father to give birth to a baby for my wife" doge( At first, I really felt that the male protagonist was particularly annoying and unforgivable. He was a scumbag who belittled his wife, cheated mentally, was arrogant and selfish. I really wanted him to be hung with a rope at the door of his company. But after using his wife's body to experience the treatment she suffered, everything became interesting. First of all, he discovered his own His biological mother is a two-faced person. She is a lowly person in front of him, and she is really a vicious mother-in-law in front of his wife. He was tortured to death by his own mother, and then he was rejected by his in-laws, ostracized by (the heroine's) friends, and was suppressed when looking for a job. People who watched it felt very sorry for the heroine's previous experience, but The male protagonist often makes her laugh without feeling distressed for a long time. The female protagonist has been resigned to the previous encounters. She has been disciplined by her family and society since she was a child to be an obedient, temperless, and swallowing person. Her mother-in-law dares to point fingers at her, and her former husband is indifferent and ignored her painful situation. However, the male protagonist has been since childhood. Being "used" by this society, he will not be patient, will not be humble, will fight for anything, and will immediately refute if he doesn't like it. He is not a heroine, and will not always be used to these people. His own mother can't stand it, so she directly scolds her, and she gets into trouble when she is suppressed at work. It's really funny. The characters created by the author of this article are very three-dimensional. Whether it is the male protagonist, the female protagonist, or the evil mother-in-law of the male protagonist's biological mother, they have their own advantages and disadvantages. In other novels, a man who cheats and is so selfish is probably an absolute evil person, but in this novel, we can see the bright spots in the male protagonist, the determination and growth of the male protagonist to change, and the love the male protagonist has for the female protagonist. This article is about the transformation of souls and the adaptation of two people to their identities. It is really just right. Both people have experienced a series of psychological changes, and the emotional transition is also very natural. The male protagonist penetrated into the female protagonist's body. He felt very annoying and inconvenient at first, and even deceived the female protagonist's feelings in order to get them back. Then he also understood the previous difficulties of the female protagonist, and understood the situation of women in this society. What's a little funny is that he adapted to his identity quite quickly, and even felt that he was even more "little woman" than the female protagonist. When the male protagonist was himself, his true identity was discovered by his goddess, and even the goddess disliked him, but when he was a woman, he had a special drive and a charm that refused to admit defeat, which was quite surprising. If we all went through the process of hating the male protagonist to liking it, then we can say that we like the female protagonist more and more. The character arc of this character is particularly full. At first we thought the female protagonist was cowardly and too soft, but later we discovered that her abilities, talents and strong side were actually restrained by her previous female body. What is shown to us is a person with a charming soul. When she presents female characteristics as a man, those unique qualities of women that we usually ignore will be particularly highlighted. She wears the body of the male protagonist and does not forget to exercise, because she was very envious of the male protagonist's healthy body. Coupled with her good aesthetics, unique restrained and calm temperament, her excellent skills and flexible mind in the work field, this male body and soul can be said to have been perfectly managed by her. From experiencing the confusion of the other person's identity at the beginning to enjoying the convenience brought by the other person's identity, the female protagonist can pursue her dream, and the male protagonist can release his vulnerability and softness. Sometimes I really think it would be good for the two of them to keep changing like this. The male protagonist insists on giving birth to the child, which really makes me laugh. The male protagonist: "I am pregnant, and your body is pregnant." The female protagonist: "... If you want to give birth to me, I won't give birth anyway. I am busy at work, so don't make trouble." The male protagonist: "I will give birth to the baby, hum." Hahaha. In fact, at this time, the male protagonist has not yet realized the suffering that a woman will go through to give birth to a child. Like many men, he has never thought of empathizing with women before. For him, carrying on the family line and having children are extremely easy and can be done verbally. After he was pregnant for ten months and gave birth, he realized that carrying on the family line is not an easy task at all. All the blessings and fruits are enjoyed by men, and all the suffering and hardships are borne by women. Just like what is said in "To Kill a Mockingbird": "You can never truly understand a person unless you walk around in his shoes and consider issues from his perspective. But When you walk through his path, you find it difficult to even pass by. Sometimes what you see is not the truth, and what you understand is just the tip of the iceberg floating on the water." After the male protagonist experienced the suffering of women, he seemed to gradually become a woman and truly sympathized with women. When the child was born, he even had the same maternal love as other women. This was very shocking to me at the time. At first, the male protagonist thought that he had everything, including wealth, status, job, the love of a woman and the protection of his mother. He thought that the female protagonist was just an accessory that relied on him. But when he looked at it from the female protagonist's perspective, he realized how pathetic his past arrogant and arrogant self was. The wealth he accumulated in the work field was all thanks to his old age. With the support of his father-in-law, his promotion relied on the ability of the heroine in his body. His friends were all close friends and would not care about his life. He thought that the woman who admired him was disdainful and contemptuous of him. His parents sucked blood from him. The father who he thought he loved had actually cheated on her a long time ago. The mother who he thought was kind actually made things difficult for his daughter-in-law. He even began to envy the heroine. He envied the heroine for having a mother who truly cared about her and loved her. He envied her sincere and touching friendship with her friends. He envied the friendly mutual help between women and did not make friends with wine and meat. He envied her that she had always been loved by the neighbors. Only then did he realize that the things his wife, who seemed to have nothing, had were what he really couldn't reach. Only then did he realize that the insignificance and plainness he originally thought were the things he truly enjoyed. I think the magic touch of this novel lies not in the brilliance and charm of each other after they exchanged identities, but in the fact that they can still return to their true nature after having the convenience brought by the other's identity. If they occupy the other's identity and do not want to change back, they have fundamentally denied the rationality of their original gender, denied their past selves, denied the many possibilities that women can also have, and denied the weakness that men can also have. If they are unwilling to change, this is the real stereotype and a failure. The author's handling is really good. This article can also be read as a cool article. One of the settings for their soul exchange is that there is a clock on the wall showing a number. As long as the number reaches 100, they can return to their own bodies. At first, they all thought that the condition for the number to rise was that their love for each other reached 100 points. But when it almost reached 100 for the first time, the heroine learned the truth about the cheating of the hero, and the score instantly returned to zero. But when I looked back later, I realized that the condition for the number to rise was not to love each other. I think it is to understand oneself and each other. Whenever the male protagonist understands the female protagonist and feels sorry for the female protagonist, the score will rise. When the male protagonist complains about the heroine's past experience, when he blames his own mother and father-in-law, the score will rise. When he works hard to reach 99 points, the score will return to zero as soon as the heroine returns home. That moment is really refreshing (*^▽^*) Finally, I would like to praise the author's writing style. The author has a strong narrative style. There is no wording or pretentiousness. He goes straight to the theme. It is smooth and smooth. The idea is profound but the writing is not lofty or impetuous. The writing is also very humorous. I am often amused by the contrast between the protagonists. The author can write very well whether it is a long dialogue or a long paragraph of psychological description. The psychological and emotional changes are described very naturally. The article is worth reading.

The name is great, but just call me Yu Chu

It's like reading a story about a wound being torn open and slowly healing. After reading it in one sitting, I hope that each of us can have the courage to start over, always know ourselves, understand ourselves and love ourselves. The most important person in this world should take good care of ourselves. I hope that everything will go well for Yu Xiao and Yu Chuchu in their world.

It perfectly overlaps my recent thoughts and pain [poor] Thank you Xiaocao, although I still don't know my position, but I will find it slowly [poor] I will put this article on the home page of my literary novel notes, and use the story of Xiaoxiao to alert myself and encourage myself. I encourage myself [poor] I am very lucky to have met Xiaoxiao, which made up for some of my other painful incomprehensions, and made me firm up some of my previous thoughts. I have benefited a lot, and will continue to move forward with what I found from Xiaoxiao [poor] Completed Spreading Flowers [Spreading Flowers]

It's a pity that I won't watch the wedding LV that I should watch most. . . . . . .

I cried several times while reading it. My wife said in the article that girls have to go through many thresholds in their lives, and if they fail to pass one, they will fall back. It feels very sad and alarming. May we all recognize clearly and cross every threshold.

Family members, everyone knows what a man's basic profile is like. Don't place your hopes on a man who will change for you or turn around for you.

The emotional changes are well written. I feel sorry for the heroine and she struggles to blossom. The male protagonist is so lucky, he meets all good people, which makes people jealous.

I really don't understand, seeing as you've been writing books for so many years

It's supposed to be a comedy, it's supposed to be a little upbeat, but it just feels sad. What exactly is marriage and what does it bring to women?