Reborn as the Parasitic Vine Everyone Hates

2020.3.23 After taking a break for a while, I finally finished reading it. I really like Qin Shu's outlook on life. She leads a positive and sunny life and can face it bravely no matter what difficulties she encounters. The awareness of female independence throughout the text, as well as some popular science knowledge of the author in the essay, are very practical and interesting, and I learned a lot. I hope the author can write better works and I will support him!

I read it in one go, it's great! This title misled me. At that time, I read An Ning's book and liked it very much. But when I saw this new book and the name, I thought it was really about a heroine like Cuscuta, so I never read it. I accidentally saw it yesterday and realized it wasn't! That's great, I only like such smart and independent heroines! !

The author is really conscientious. On the surface, it seems to be a routine slap-in-the-face article, but in fact, it is very sharp in writing about the problems that exist in the current society and that many people turn a blind eye to. At present, the society is full of praises from the top, and the public cares about the lower body of celebrities or their faces, as if they are living under the beauty filter of the news broadcast, so they don't have to face sky-high housing prices, high unemployment, social aging and other issues. However, in this article, the author tears away the filters and bubbles and exposes some real and ugly scars. He is undoubtedly very courageous. Perhaps the painful reality will make many people feel that it is not "enjoyable" enough. This may be the reason why the author's article did not perform as well as her other article by Su Shuang. But no matter how much you watch Mary Suvin escape reality, it can't change the society's malice towards women. If everyone doesn't face it or pay attention to it, then the situation will only get worse. Don't wait until one day when we are forced to wrap our feet again, and then regret our initial numbness and inaction, just like those people in the Qing Dynasty who secluded themselves from the country for hundreds of years, and also dreamed of the big dream of going to heaven for hundreds of years. Once the dream is shattered, the mountains and rivers are broken. Think of those martyrs Qiu Jin. They used their own blood to prove that revolution (harmony) is not just a matter for men. Women also have advanced ideas, outstanding contributions, and the courage to sacrifice. This gave women in New China the status of women holding up half the sky. So why can't we continue our efforts to make our next generation less accepting of society's malice and discrimination against women? I believe that in the current society, there are certainly women who have been enslaved and brainwashed, who are greedy for pleasure and are willing to be men's canaries or rbqs, just like there were many traitors during the Anti-Japanese War, but most of them are self-reliant and self-reliant women who long for equality and independence rather than a life of dependence on others. Finally, I hope that girls will not look down on stay-at-home mothers. Whether they are "inside" or "outside", the social division of labor is just different. There is no distinction between high and low. What is humble is never the social division of labor of stay-at-home mothers, but the humble ones who can only rely on men to survive. . . Sigh In fact, to take good care of family members and allow children to grow up healthily and have fully developed personalities requires not only hard work, but also a strong ability to guide children and become a bright light for them. And many so-called housewives are actually just nannies. They rely on others for a living, so how can they teach their children to be independent? They are weak and submissive and have no dignity in front of their husbands. How can they teach their children to respect themselves and love themselves? They are timid and afraid of trouble and will only ask others for help. How can they teach their children to have the courage to assume social responsibilities? They obey their husbands in everything and act as their husbands' yes-men. How can they let their children have their own thoughts? In their lives, their self-worth is defined by being proud of marrying a rich man and being proud of having a son. How can they help their children establish a normal outlook on life and values? Therefore, I hope that girls will not be stigmatized as housewives or anything else, which will affect our judgment of others or our own life choices. A person is determined by his essence, not by whether he is a full-time woman or a working woman. We are already in a weak position, so we need more unity, rather than looking down on each other internally. Whether working women look down on housewives, or housewives look down on working women, it's ridiculous. We are all women, right? I also hope that women who are faced with the choice between family and career can choose the side that they want in their hearts and that they are suitable for, instead of being kidnapped by public opinion and forced to choose the side that is "approved by public opinion". If your dream is to be a professional elite, don't waste your talents at home, and ignore the nonsense that says you are pitiful if you have no one to support you; if your dream is to have a warm family, work hard to build your ideal home, use the happiness of the whole family, and slap those who say you are a freeloader in the face. I hope that one day, people will not be given different expectations and face different treatment because of external factors such as nationality, height, skin color, gender, age, etc. That is true equality. Amway Momoe Yamaguchi has something in common with the heroine in the author's article. In Japan in the 1970s, as an illegitimate daughter, she chose to use the law to sever the relationship between her father and daughter when she was entangled and blackmailed by her biological father after becoming famous; after the entertainment media spread rumors that she had sex in the office, she chose to sue those who spread the rumors and confront her in court to prove her innocence; after being praised When she was a representative of women in the new era, she was not kidnapped by anyone. She wanted to have a beautiful family more than singing, so she chose to marry her lover Tomokazu Miura. When she was accused of not pursuing being a housewife, Momoe's response was that she did not think that housewives were useless and worthless. I secretly think that there may indeed be many humble housewives in Japan, but there are definitely no Momoe among them. Because when she was a superstar in the entertainment industry, she never felt that she was superior to others and dictated to others; when she was a stay-at-home mother in the family, she never felt that she was inferior and humiliated others. She has always been neither humble nor arrogant, choosing to do what she wants to do and realize her own value, that's all. I am complaining about Akina Nakamori here. I know she is pitiful when she is hurt by a scumbag, and I sympathize with her. Maybe many men will like this kind of soft girl who is pitiful and easily hurt, and there will also be women who have a strong resonance with being hurt by scumbags. But what I admire the most is a strong woman like Bai Hui. When faced with scumbags, she chooses to fight back hard and let them receive the punishment they deserve, instead of crying to win the sympathy of the public and trying to use public opinion to condemn the scumbags' conscience. Because the reason why scumbags are called scumbags is because they have no conscience in the first place23333 If Momoe were transported back in time to the time when Akina Nakamori was deceived and dumped, she would definitely choose to use legal means to protect her rights and interests, strive to get back the property she had been cheated on, and then collect evidence to expose the bad deeds of the scumbag, let him get out of the entertainment industry, and then live a peaceful life. To be calm and self-possessed in the face of life's kindness, to fight back strongly in the face of life's malice, to be a powerful female warrior when facing enemies, and to be a gentle family and friend in front of one's own people. These are the qualities that a truly mature woman should have.

Why hasn't the author stopped writing in the past two years?

I have read another book by this author, it's great!

I clicked in accidentally and saw the comments saying that the three views are righteous, so I finished reading it in one go! It's really great, support! !

I am talking to my friends. The author is great. He has very positive views. He shoulders the social mission, corrects bad habits and establishes a value system! ! !

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Girls deserve all the beauty in the world

A very enjoyable article, but what is even more valuable about this article is that the author conveys the thoughts through the heroine, encouraging or motivating every girl to be an independent and self-reliant person! Really like this article so much