Conqueror: The most revered aunt in all the land does whatever I say. My father, whose power holds sway over the court, also obeys my every command. All my brothers and sisters bow their heads to me. That is what it means to be a conqueror.
King: I defy the emperor above and mock the princes and nobles below. That is what it means to be a king.
Flower: At a banquet in Chang'an, I outshine every noble young lady. That is what it means to be a flower.
The only thing that doesn't go my way is that I've fallen for my sworn enemy.
How should I humiliate him?