It's an angst story, and I'm warning you in advance: it's angsty, with major landmines. Readers who can only handle sweet little stories should stay away.
Realistic style. The top and bottom have both been around the gay scene for seven or eight, maybe ten years. Don't ask me whether they've had previous partners.
The most satisfying thing about this book at the end is that Gong thinks that he is so proactive because he loves him in his heart. In fact, he is trying to maintain his current "home" and keep his place of refuge. After reading it, I have decided that I don't love Gong anymore. People who have cheated on their minds are not worth it.
When I watched it a few years ago, I was confused about who loved whom and who loved whom. Now after watching it, I watched Farewell My Concubine, Gong is the Fake Overlord, and Shou is the real Concubine. Both Zhuo and the model Shou are affectionate and kind to them, including waiting for Gong to work hard for his career. In fact, Gong is a man who exudes the smell of Deng at all times from youth to middle age. The word Deng makes it clear to him.
If Gong and Shou had broken up naturally after a quarrel and a cold war, and now they are reunited, I think this would be a good and realistic story. But at the beginning, Gong was cold-blooded and violent with his mistress for a year and a half + mentally cheating on her. Zha Gong was really growing cold and tired of Shou's feelings. He also really admired the mistress and felt that drinking with others and cheating was the right way to climb up. If it were true, a person like Zha Gong would not be able to do this during a period of cold violence and violence towards Shou. If you can't enjoy the ambiguity with the mistress, you can't stop touching the mistress after breaking up with Shou, and you will even forget about Shou soon. However, Zha Gong and the mistress cannot last long. After Zha Gong's career encounters bigger problems and the mistress becomes useless, Zha Gong will abandon the mistress and find someone useful to his career. After many years, when Zha finally climbs to a high place, when he meets Shou again, he may be reminded of some memories of the innocent love in the past, but there will be no shortage of people around Zha, and it is impossible for Shou to be with Zha again.
Therefore, the most unrealistic thing about the author is that Zha actually stayed chastity for Shou after he was tired of Shou and cheated on her mistress, and after the breakup, his indifference and disgust towards Shou suddenly turned into a yearning for Shou. I believe that many years later, after Zha becomes famous, he may miss his original innocent love, but when he abandons Shou, he cannot be indifferent to the beautiful woman who comes to him and is helpful to his career.
Gong was the one who kept hinting to himself that Shou had unresolved feelings for him. He couldn't accept that a relationship that he was so unhappy with was already a passing thing with the other party. Fortunately, his self-suggestion gave him a strong confidence, otherwise it would be in vain for Shen's mother to assist without Gong's mobility. What I want at this stage is not unforgettable love, I just want a home with someone to accompany me. The conditions are just right and it doesn't take too much effort to maintain. I just hope that if something happens to Shou in the future, Shou won't have to worry about it. Gong doesn't need Shou to really love him. If the superficial skills are done well, Gong can self-suggest that Shou loves him to the extent that he can't help himself. Perfect.
It's the other way around, right? Gong is brainwashing himself over and over again to believe it...
In the end, this is purely a spiritual victory method. No one can really let go of what Gong has done. But the fact that Shou can still be with him shows that his feelings for him will never go back to the past. Shou feels that Gong is easy to coax, which explains the problem. There will no longer be pure love, but this does not prevent Shou from achieving happiness. It is the end of reality.
Novel or novel, in reality I really want to say something about not picking up your boyfriend in the trash can...
I read this article around 18 years ago. I have reviewed it no less than 5 times over the years, and I have a different feeling every time. At first, I was actually very angry. I felt sorry for the relationship between Zhuo and Chen, and felt that Gong was a scumbag. Later, when I watched it again, I hated Gong's self-righteousness, and I felt aggrieved when I saw Shou and him being together again in the end. Watching it now 6 years later, I suddenly felt very calm and understood Chen's thoughts. It can be said that Chen has really let go of the past betrayal, hurt and love, and it is precisely because of letting go that they can get back together again. Because it doesn't matter, and Gong and Gong's family just meet his current emotional needs. Compared with ordinary novels about the entanglement of love and hate, the reality is that time will erase many things. You once thought that love and pain were so great, but suddenly you think about it, and you realize that everything is just a passing cloud. The ending is just like many families of men and women. They are not only formed by the factors of liking, but more by the combination of reality, responsibility, psychological comfort, etc.
After reading the last chapter, the deepest feeling is that Gong is so confident that he hardly looks like a normal person. . .
A great article! My wife is great! Let me make a confession first.
This is the most unusual article I have ever seen about chasing a wife in a crematorium. Finally, Shou no longer waits for attack. Who said that you will definitely not find anyone to love you if you are in a gap period?
This is also a very realistic and helpless article. Because the probability of a perfect love that is loyal, smooth, and grows old together for a lifetime is harder than winning a double color ball.
Gong is not a perfect lover. He is arrogant, utilitarian, immature and stable when he was young, and not tolerant enough for his younger lovers. As a result, he cannot understand why he is so sensitive and troubled, and he only feels that he does not understand him. Long-distance relationship, lack of security, distrust, fear of being abandoned, seeing differences between each other, being provoked by an ambiguous partner, not being able to help and not being worthy, etc. At a young age, I was loved simply and enthusiastically, but I also struggled to save myself from conflicts and quarrels, because we were no longer on the same channel, and I didn't compromise on love and thought it was okay to give up on love. (The act of breaking up with cold violence and cruelty is no worse than cheating)
As for Gong Er, this kind of person is also very scary. Because it was him who gave, who was the first to flirt with you, who gave you all the care and love. When you were captured and trapped in this moment, he turned around and loved others again, even if the separation was forced by fate. It turns out that love that lasts until death is very, very rare and cannot withstand the test of fate and reality. Not to mention being gay.
But is it really too much to ask for a relationship of unwavering love for each other?
Although every relationship is taken seriously and sincerely devoted, it still ends up being injured and tragically over and over again. From expressing your sincerity to closing your heart tightly, you can navigate the love scene with ease. He couldn't tell whether it was the cheating partner who insisted on breaking up, or the fact that they were destined to be separated, which made him sadder. Because the more you love, the more you get hurt.
If it hadn't been for the double blow of falling out of love, his mother's abandonment, and the warmth of his mother, I probably wouldn't have looked back. But even if they are reunited, they have experienced so much, loved, hated, and relieved, and the vigorous love at the beginning will never be regained. Compared to love, home, a sense of security, and the warmth to heal him are probably what Shou wants last. But a mature person who has sincerely repented and has a stable career may be able to give him something he could not receive before - love and security. It probably takes a lot of sincere companionship and slow melting to get back a little bit of that lovely lover who lets go of guarding, trusts and relies on you. To what extent old feelings are rekindled, narcissistic loyal dog Gong, come on.
This probably tells us that we don't know how to cherish until we lose it. No matter how much you love, there is nothing you can't let go of. If you move forward, time will give you the answer. You may feel sad and helpless, but you have to move forward, right?
The most satisfying thing about this book at the end is that Gong thinks that he is so proactive because he loves him in his heart. In fact, he is trying to maintain his current "home" and keep his place of refuge. After reading it, I have decided that I don't love Gong anymore. People who have cheated on their minds are not worth it.
When I watched it a few years ago, I was confused about who loved whom and who loved whom. Now after watching it, I watched Farewell My Concubine, Gong is the Fake Overlord, and Shou is the real Concubine. Both Zhuo and the model Shou are affectionate and kind to them, including waiting for Gong to work hard for his career. In fact, Gong is a man who exudes the smell of Deng at all times from youth to middle age. The word Deng makes it clear to him.
If Gong and Shou had broken up naturally after a quarrel and a cold war, and now they are reunited, I think this would be a good and realistic story. But at the beginning, Gong was cold-blooded and violent with his mistress for a year and a half + mentally cheating on her. Zha Gong was really growing cold and tired of Shou's feelings. He also really admired the mistress and felt that drinking with others and cheating was the right way to climb up. If it were true, a person like Zha Gong would not be able to do this during a period of cold violence and violence towards Shou. If you can't enjoy the ambiguity with the mistress, you can't stop touching the mistress after breaking up with Shou, and you will even forget about Shou soon. However, Zha Gong and the mistress cannot last long. After Zha Gong's career encounters bigger problems and the mistress becomes useless, Zha Gong will abandon the mistress and find someone useful to his career. After many years, when Zha finally climbs to a high place, when he meets Shou again, he may be reminded of some memories of the innocent love in the past, but there will be no shortage of people around Zha, and it is impossible for Shou to be with Zha again. Therefore, the most unrealistic thing about the author is that Zha actually stayed chastity for Shou after he was tired of Shou and cheated on her mistress, and after the breakup, his indifference and disgust towards Shou suddenly turned into a yearning for Shou. I believe that many years later, after Zha becomes famous, he may miss his original innocent love, but when he abandons Shou, he cannot be indifferent to the beautiful woman who comes to him and is helpful to his career.
Gong was the one who kept hinting to himself that Shou had unresolved feelings for him. He couldn't accept that a relationship that he was so unhappy with was already a passing thing with the other party. Fortunately, his self-suggestion gave him a strong confidence, otherwise it would be in vain for Shen's mother to assist without Gong's mobility. What I want at this stage is not unforgettable love, I just want a home with someone to accompany me. The conditions are just right and it doesn't take too much effort to maintain. I just hope that if something happens to Shou in the future, Shou won't have to worry about it. Gong doesn't need Shou to really love him. If the superficial skills are done well, Gong can self-suggest that Shou loves him to the extent that he can't help himself. Perfect.
It's the other way around, right? Gong is brainwashing himself over and over again to believe it...
In the end, this is purely a spiritual victory method. No one can really let go of what Gong has done. But the fact that Shou can still be with him shows that his feelings for him will never go back to the past. Shou feels that Gong is easy to coax, which explains the problem. There will no longer be pure love, but this does not prevent Shou from achieving happiness. It is the end of reality.
Novel or novel, in reality I really want to say something about not picking up your boyfriend in the trash can...
I read this article around 18 years ago. I have reviewed it no less than 5 times over the years, and I have a different feeling every time. At first, I was actually very angry. I felt sorry for the relationship between Zhuo and Chen, and felt that Gong was a scumbag. Later, when I watched it again, I hated Gong's self-righteousness, and I felt aggrieved when I saw Shou and him being together again in the end. Watching it now 6 years later, I suddenly felt very calm and understood Chen's thoughts. It can be said that Chen has really let go of the past betrayal, hurt and love, and it is precisely because of letting go that they can get back together again. Because it doesn't matter, and Gong and Gong's family just meet his current emotional needs. Compared with ordinary novels about the entanglement of love and hate, the reality is that time will erase many things. You once thought that love and pain were so great, but suddenly you think about it, and you realize that everything is just a passing cloud. The ending is just like many families of men and women. They are not only formed by the factors of liking, but more by the combination of reality, responsibility, psychological comfort, etc.
After reading the last chapter, the deepest feeling is that Gong is so confident that he hardly looks like a normal person. . .
A great article! My wife is great! Let me make a confession first. This is the most unusual article I have ever seen about chasing a wife in a crematorium. Finally, Shou no longer waits for attack. Who said that you will definitely not find anyone to love you if you are in a gap period? This is also a very realistic and helpless article. Because the probability of a perfect love that is loyal, smooth, and grows old together for a lifetime is harder than winning a double color ball. Gong is not a perfect lover. He is arrogant, utilitarian, immature and stable when he was young, and not tolerant enough for his younger lovers. As a result, he cannot understand why he is so sensitive and troubled, and he only feels that he does not understand him. Long-distance relationship, lack of security, distrust, fear of being abandoned, seeing differences between each other, being provoked by an ambiguous partner, not being able to help and not being worthy, etc. At a young age, I was loved simply and enthusiastically, but I also struggled to save myself from conflicts and quarrels, because we were no longer on the same channel, and I didn't compromise on love and thought it was okay to give up on love. (The act of breaking up with cold violence and cruelty is no worse than cheating) As for Gong Er, this kind of person is also very scary. Because it was him who gave, who was the first to flirt with you, who gave you all the care and love. When you were captured and trapped in this moment, he turned around and loved others again, even if the separation was forced by fate. It turns out that love that lasts until death is very, very rare and cannot withstand the test of fate and reality. Not to mention being gay. But is it really too much to ask for a relationship of unwavering love for each other? Although every relationship is taken seriously and sincerely devoted, it still ends up being injured and tragically over and over again. From expressing your sincerity to closing your heart tightly, you can navigate the love scene with ease. He couldn't tell whether it was the cheating partner who insisted on breaking up, or the fact that they were destined to be separated, which made him sadder. Because the more you love, the more you get hurt. If it hadn't been for the double blow of falling out of love, his mother's abandonment, and the warmth of his mother, I probably wouldn't have looked back. But even if they are reunited, they have experienced so much, loved, hated, and relieved, and the vigorous love at the beginning will never be regained. Compared to love, home, a sense of security, and the warmth to heal him are probably what Shou wants last. But a mature person who has sincerely repented and has a stable career may be able to give him something he could not receive before - love and security. It probably takes a lot of sincere companionship and slow melting to get back a little bit of that lovely lover who lets go of guarding, trusts and relies on you. To what extent old feelings are rekindled, narcissistic loyal dog Gong, come on. This probably tells us that we don't know how to cherish until we lose it. No matter how much you love, there is nothing you can't let go of. If you move forward, time will give you the answer. You may feel sad and helpless, but you have to move forward, right?