Passersby, in Passing

After reading the whole story, I feel sorry for the heroine. I don't know why so many people say that she is coquettish and pretentious. The hero takes the initiative in all interactions with the hero. The heroine seems cool and cold, ready to leave at any time, but is always manipulated by the hero. The hero is chauvinistic and always aloof. He often comes home late after marriage. He always goes on business trips at short notice. We have been together for so many years. I didn't know that the heroine suffers from menstrual cramps. During the New Year, he accompanied the second heroine to watch the snow and caught a cold. The second heroine also committed suicide by the hero. The female lead was hospitalized after giving birth. She went to the rooftop and saw the male lead leaning on the second female lead, with his hand around her waist. The male lead also said that they were innocent. He wore lipstick on his body when going out to socialize, and carried the smell of female perfume. He did not take the initiative to explain to the female lead. The author did not explain later. Readers also believed the male lead's words. On New Year's Eve, he and his sister-in-law had a lively chat. Neither the male lead's brother nor the female lead could get in the conversation (another side story states that the male lead likes his sister-in-law). The relationship between the heroine and the heroine's ex-boyfriend is often sarcastic. She looks down on the heroine's work. She always wants the heroine to give in to him and cannot escape his control. Just like the heroine said, he treats her like a pet. When she is happy, she teases her, and when she is unhappy, she throws it away. When she is interested, she starts teasing her again as if nothing happened. Every time they quarrel, the heroine gets sulky and goes back to take care of the hero. It is also inexplicable to chase his wife at the crematorium. During the divorce, the hero seems to have been greatly wronged. She looks like she doesn't want to look back, so she starts chasing his wife in the next chapter. The heroine is stunned and always rolls into bed with the hero half-heartedly. It's a bit pyromaniacal. The most speechless thing is that the heroine's ex-boyfriend, boss, best friend, and mother all think that the heroine is ungrateful. She feels that no one thinks from the heroine's point of view. The heroine's mother also said, "He is just a bit more handsome and has more money, which makes you distrust him so much." What a classic It is similar to the sentence that he just made a mistake that all men make. The heroine deliberately ran out for training because she misunderstood that the hero wanted to get married. She didn't run far away and couldn't be strong. The hero blamed the heroine for not trusting him and ridiculed the heroine. The heroine began to reflect. However, the hero just didn't give the heroine a sense of security.

I really like this book. Although the male and female protagonists are very awkward, they are very interesting. It's interesting to watch them bicker. I really don't understand the people who criticize the female protagonist. How can the breakdown of the marriage be the fault of one person? One detail is that Anruo's colleague in the company wanted to jump off a building. She advised her not to take men as everything. She had a good friend who had grown up and committed suicide by jumping off a building for a man. But the man was not sad at all and his life was very happy. Only his parents were suffering. I think Anruo's lack of emotional security had something to do with this. It's not the heroine's fault that the first marriage broke up. She was awkward, but the hero really didn't pay much attention to the marriage. He knew that the heroine was insecure and didn't think about changing it. It was obvious that both of them had problems, but it was too much to scold the heroine and put all the fault on her. The heroine also cared about the hero. He was sick and tried her best to take care of him. When he said he wanted to eat fish ball soup, she got off work early to make it for him. There were many small actions like this that showed that she cared about the abruptness of their marriage. At that time, they had no solid emotional foundation. These two people were also awkward, which led to the breakdown of their marriage. It was only after they separated that they saw the goodness of each other. Because it was described from the perspective of the heroine, many things are one-sided. It is really biased to say that the heroine is sick and unworthy of the hero. Finally, I really like this book. The details are plain and true, and it is worth carefully reading the awkward taste of these two couples. They are not perfect people, but they are both cute.

After reading it, I realized that Anruo was a little bit pretentious, but Xiaocheng actually enjoyed it. If Anruo was obedient and submissive to her, he would definitely not be interested anymore. This is how the two of them get along, and both of them love each other so much that they can't express their feelings. Moreover, the problems between them have always been easily resolved, and the knot is clear in the ending, so Xiao Cheng is more attentive and An Ruo is more honest occasionally. So I think they are really well matched. Thank you to the author for really depicting a group of very real people and a bunch of imperfect but interesting emotions. I like it so much. According to the author, she did not have an outline framework, but actually wrote step by step. This feeling is so wonderful. It really feels like the character has a soul and is choosing his own life. I think this is also a sense of fate.

Actually, although it is said that Cheng Shaochen has no feelings for Zi Yan, I still think his behavior is very bad. The heroine went to the rooftop and saw the two of them hugging each other. It is definitely not fake. I wonder what pure male-female relationship would hug each other, so I think the male protagonist is a bit scumbag. The heroine is okay. She didn't have anything to do with her ex-boyfriend. Alas, this is what stuck after watching the ending.

I read this book for the first time probably in 2016, and then read it several times! I saw some comments saying that Cheng Shaochen likes Qin Ziyan. I'm just,,,,, speechless. Piao Axi mentioned a movie in the middle, starring Audrey Hepburn, "Dragon and Phoenix", search for the plot yourself. Probably Piao Axi wanted to make the story of "Passengers in a Hurry" a twist, so she arranged for Qin Ziyan to like Cheng Shaoqing. I guess this is Piao Axi's bad taste, hehehehe. In short, I very, very much disagree that Cheng Shaochen likes Qin Ziyan. [The following are all conjectures of someone from Donkey] Cheng Shaochen's mood when facing Qin Ziyan was probably: Ah! What a pitiful thing she has been through. But I, Cheng Shaochen, am cold-blooded, and I will not love her just because I pity her. So let Qin Ziyan take pity on him!

I finished reading it some time ago. I really like reading this kind of pyrotechnics. It is a classic indeed.

Compared to almost 20 years ago, it was very advanced. I like some of the views on love and men in the article. For example, "Men are like clothes. Although you occasionally buy unexpected clothes, you will always be attracted to the same ones over and over again." The shortcomings of the male and female protagonists are really real. There are always some unpleasant things to endure in love, and it is very real. For example, here, the love history of the male protagonist cannot be studied in detail, and the relationship between the male protagonist and the second female protagonist, even if there is nothing real, is very strange.

I have to reread this article every now and then, it's such a classic

This is my favorite romance novel! A classic among classics!!!

I watched it again, why do I care so much about these two awkward people?