Tying the Knot (Sharing a Bed, Dreaming Different Dreams), Revised Edition

I've read a lot of cheating stories, but this is the first time I want to think about what kind of garbage male protagonist this is. I won't comment on the heroine, she can only describe it as cowardly. It doesn't matter whether we leave or not, one pot comes with one lid, no matter how cheap it is, it will be the same as scum. If people who click in can see the comment area, trust me, don't read it!

The author doesn't write the ending, I will. During this period, Zhou Ran refused to agree to the divorce. In the court, the judge said that the reasons I mentioned were not enough evidence for divorce. I knew I had to cut the knot quickly and not let my feelings be swayed by someone who had hurt me. During this period, I moved to a community house with three bedrooms and one living room a few hundred meters away from my job. Single women who live alone must pay attention to their personal safety. During my vacation, I went to the dog market and selected 2 dogs to accompany me and protect me. At the company, we occasionally have a few frivolous discussions because of what happened between me and my boss last time. But that's not enough for me to pay attention to them. I have to pick myself up now and work hard. Buy a house of your own and travel around when you get old. What kind of man, mistress, don't want any nagging from your parents? Live a good life and be happy every day, this is the right thing to do. I go to bed early and get up early every day. My complexion and energy make me a different person. When I get home early from get off work, two security guards at home jump into my arms and their tails are almost broken, and they are still moaning. My mood was healed and good all day at work. Although Zhou Ran called me from time to time, I said a few words casually and perfunctorily, why didn't I block him? Because I knew that for him, blocking him would not have any effect on him, but would be more troublesome. My father said he understood my separation and supported my move. My mother still hopes that Zhou Ran and I will get back together. She has always said that men are like this. You are already old now and you can no longer find a good man like Zhou Ran. Besides, you have been in a relationship for seven years. He can help you regardless of his social status or money. I do not agree with your divorce. If you want a divorce, we will sever the relationship. I don't want to care about your messy things in the future. Later, I thought carefully about what my mother said. In fact, there is some truth to it. Maybe everyone has different ideas. My idea is very simple. Work smoothly, get a raise, walk my dog ​​every day, and occasionally travel. None of those messy things bother me. It's simply not too fun. Five months have passed and my two little security guards have grown up. Watching them grow up day by day, all eyes are on me. When I'm in a bad mood, he comes to comfort me and keep me company. I was really warmed by the two silly dogs. Two years of separation have come. Even if Zhou Ran doesn't want a divorce, there's no point in making excuses. After leaving the Civil Affairs Bureau, my first thought was that I had finally obtained the divorce certificate and would never have to see this person again. I couldn't hold back the joy in my heart. I glanced at Zhou Ran who was standing next to me. He is still the same person, only more haggard and not as energetic as when he was with me. I think maybe he just likes to act, deliberately showing that he is sad and not doing well. Allowing myself to feel sorry for him, trying to make me change my mind. But these are just his superficial skills. He is a successful man with a lot of money. There is no shortage of outstanding women around me. I know how much I weigh and cannot control such a man, so I should leave as soon as possible while I am still young to enjoy my single life. I think I will have nothing to do with this person in the future anyway. His affairs and how he lives are none of my business. As a couple, there are some things I must make clear. I suddenly became serious and looked at Zhou Ran. Zhou Ran, I have been married to you for seven years, and I have worked hard with you to build a business from scratch for so many years. Aborted 2 children. Now that we are divorced, I will not give in to my property and the house. I don't want it if it is not mine. Zhou Ran was a little surprised when he heard what I said. But Zhou Ran still has some conscience. After returning home, I asked a lawyer to draft the division of property and the disposal of the house. We bought several properties in the seven years we were married, and Zhou Ran transferred them all to me. He only wanted the property we got married in. As for the property, the divorce compensation of 300 million plus 35% of the company's shares can be paid when dividends are distributed every year. I'm not a hypocritical person either. It was given to me like this, so of course I took it. Live a good life, if you don't spend money you'd be a fool. The work continues. My life has been busy too. Year after year, I am now 33. In the workplace, I am stuck at an age that I am neither above nor below. Maybe I will be laid off in a few years when new people come to the company. So I'm going to resign. Start your own small business. Be your own little boss. I submitted my resignation to my boss. Although my boss feels sorry for me, I can also feel that my boss always wants to get closer to me. But because of what happened last time, I learned that people's words can be scary. I can't let someone who treats me well get into this kind of situation. Leaving is also a new beginning. Resigned. I have learned to drive and bought a car in the past few years. I have been busy these past few years. Now that I have resigned and have a good rest, I will travel around with my two security guards. Dali, Lijiang, Yunnan, western Sichuan, and Tibet have always been places I want to travel. (To be continued, I will update when I have time)

Demining, the specific reasons have been written by other people in long reviews. In short, it is a story about the male protagonist cheating on the girl and the female protagonist forgiving him forcibly. If this is considered reality, then I have nothing to say. In short, if you give me a 20-year-old female college student born in the 2000s who is depressed, is the reality really so terrifying and painful? Then I am decisively afraid of marriage. . It's 22:00 now. I've been depressed about this novel for a day. I couldn't bear it after seeing half of the male protagonist cheating on his wife. I just kept reading until the ending because of my obsessive-compulsive disorder. . I really can't stand it anymore. Let's clear the air for other sisters. .

There are big problems with this article. What should be written is not written, and what should not be expressed is written too much. It is a pity. If I were the author, I would not write the process this way even if the ending was the same. The male protagonist is selfish and hypocritical, while the female protagonist is cowardly and pretentious. They have this kind of character from beginning to end. At the stage of marriage and change, neither of them has grown up. One continues to be selfish and the other continues to be a snail spokesperson... It's a pity that Li cannon fodder. The article reveals an absolutely pessimistic view of marriage, and love, this article has nothing to do with love. I don't agree with the ending of this article. Li He is a better choice for the heroine. Zhou Ran in the article is a scumbag who loves himself more than anything else. His final return is just that he has had enough fun at this stage and feels that it is good for his wife to keep silent. She is easier to fool than a lover, so it is better not to change. That's what the description in the article means. If you don't explain, you won't give up, you won't take the initiative, a player who takes a break - the choice of a man who can't play. Then the heroine is highly cooperative, and she compromises when she sees the slope. Is there any combination of extreme insecurity? ! They must have been unhappy before, but in the future? There is no sign of happiness; divorce does not guarantee that you will be happy in the future, but if you don't get divorced and live a life of contentment, you will definitely not be happy, and it will also increase the chance of cancer and other diseases, such as breast cancer. According to statistics, those first wives who have been betrayed are much more likely to suffer from depression and breast cancer than women with normal married lives, just as mistresses are more likely to suffer from premature aging and cervical cancer. . . I don't feel too sad about an author's temporary deviation from his expression of three views. I just feel chilled that there are still so many people cheering for people like Zhou Ran - if the requirements for a partner are already so low, then the dignity and independence of women are nonsense! You must know that there is still a good man in this article, isn't that Li He a good man? I can't tell how much Lin Xiaowei loves Zhou Ran. Isn't it just a habit? Is depression affecting your judgment? In fact, postpartum depression is really a good plot, which can well shape the changes in the heroine's character. Unfortunately, it is not developed at all in the article, and it also worsens Zhou Ran's status as a scumbag - if your wife is sick, you will have an affair, and the woman who is yours will not dare to get sick! Zhou Ran never realized his responsibility when his wife fell ill, and the various descriptions are intolerable to readers! Therefore, it makes sense to say that the divorce rate indicates the degree of civilization of a society---I see from this that many people would rather live a life of letting their husbands "do everything" than dare to divorce, just because no one can guarantee that their lives will not be worse in the future! This logic is actually a serious regression of social values ​​- no love, no loyalty, only superficial integrity. How sad and ridiculous!

I think it's unrealistic for such a promiscuous man to die from apricot disease.

Wow, many long reviews from 11 years ago are still outdated now. It turns out that there were already so many awakened people in 2011.

So, this is the story of a cheating man who was finally forgiven by his wife. No matter how determined the heroine is in wanting to get divorced during the process, it still doesn't matter. Oops, I advise the heroine to ask the hero to submit health check-up reports every month in the future. Even wearing a condom may not prevent diseases. Girl, you are risking your life for love. Come, drink to the strong man~~~~~~~! !

I couldn't stand it in the middle and I jumped to the end. If I don't talk about anything else, let me ask: What was the reason why the man cheated on her in the first place? I don't understand how a man who cheats not just once or twice can be so persistent in such a broken and hypocritical marriage? Even if you are nostalgic, you will get tired of being asked for divorce again and again by the heroine, right? I really didn't see that he loved her so much. Like role play? Or was he soul-pierced? When the female protagonist filed for divorce, the male protagonist became an NPC who only said he would not divorce, but at the end I still didn't know his reason for not getting divorced. Then there is the heroine. The author's journey to divorce is actually a bit far-fetched. She is actually using divorce as a reason to vent her anger. She can't figure out such a couple. Maybe it's true that a man cheats on a woman and wants to divorce her, but the divorce makes the marriage happier, but it's definitely not this kind of character. Alas, it can only be said that the author wrote it badly, and the plot and characters of the story were beyond her control. However, a book can still be published like this. The tolerance of publishers and readers has spoiled writers, so it is no wonder that such a product is produced.

I just want to say that scumbags have been a perfect match since ancient times. When the heroine got older, Li Buxuan, who really liked her and felt pity for her, turned around and picked up the hero who rolled over the stool and swallowed it. You don't love Li so you feel sorry that he can't choose him? This is a naive and unrealistic idea. As long as you don't feel aggrieved, it is many times better to make do with it than to feel aggrieved. There are also a group of people who blame the female protagonist for not communicating well with the male protagonist and acting pretentious, causing the male protagonist to feel lonely and go to the toilet. I just want to say that my head was pinched by the door panel, and that's not what happened.

I would like to say that the author's writing style in this novel is still equally good, the writing is very delicate, and the characters are quite fleshed out. Except for the ending, this novel is a very realistic novel, but for the ending, I want to say that the author really failed at writing. In real life, such a couple, with no children to tie them down, is bound to get divorced. If this novel ended with the two getting divorced, I think it would be a perfect novel. But the author continued to write the two people together, which was a real failure. I would like to say that the only flaw of this novel is the ending, which is a bad ending. I think Ah Piao's first two novels are okay. This one has a bad ending. Alas, what a pity. Author, I would like to ask, is it necessary to write about both and in this book? Sometimes peace is more popular than discord. There is no need to reconcile the hero and heroine of this book.