Preface: What does it mean to stay by someone's side? Is it never being apart, day or night, or two hearts bound together through life and death?
Yellow sands fill the sky, and the green willows beyond Chang'an are nowhere to be seen.
The royal court lies in darkness, and no music drifts from the Prince of Chu's manor.
In the annals of history, as long as you are there, so am I.
Even if I wake in the dead of night to find only moonlight, white as snow, beside me,
outside the palace walls, a graceful shadow in dark robes will always hold a lantern to light the road ahead.
Within the palace walls, silken snow-white veils shimmer as someone guards a heart, pure and cold, for a lifetime.
Do not say that frail hands cannot disperse the shifting sands of the Western Regions,
nor that a slender, solitary figure cannot bear the weight of the royal court's towering eaves.
Just look:
Even though Xijun is gone, there is still Jieyou.
On the boundless road ahead, Feng Liao will not abandon her.
Love makes it hard to stay together, but longing makes us cherish each other all the more.
All this, in Snow on the Pillow.
PS: Princess Jieyou and her maid Feng Liao were famous historical partners in the Western Regions, making great contributions to the stability of the Han dynasty's western territories. Unfortunately, the histories devote the most attention to Zhang Qian's mission to the Western Regions, while sparing very little ink for the fifty years Princess Jieyou and Feng Liao spent there. This story is about Jieyou and Feng Liao, but a novel is still just a novel and is entirely fictional. Any resemblance is purely coincidental.
If you can't accept the historical fact that Princess Jieyou married three kings of the Wusun, please don't read this.
Theme: Stay together for a lifetime, never part and never give up.
Princess Jieyou went to the Huns, and Princess Wencheng went to Far Tibet. But later generations will only remember the contributions of the Wu and Tang sects of the Han Dynasty. When it comes to marriage, no matter whether it is in conversation or history, there are only a few words. Now, we can only look back on those years from these few words. The emperor's orders are hard to disobey, and once the edict is written, it is hard to change it. Their fate is in the hands of the emperor, not in theirs alone. I know that they all love the people and are willing to shoulder the responsibilities of the country and the importance of the royal family. But I really can't imagine and can't bear to imagine the hardships they suffered, being separated from what they love and living with what they hate. Who knows how hard it was for them, how difficult it was, but only a few strokes in the history books and a few praises from future generations. But now I am also grateful to have this history, and having their names engraved on them forever is the only consolation in the misfortune. If women could make meritorious deeds, if they could establish careers, if they could choose, I think the outcome would be different. Even if you die on the battlefield, it is thousands of times better than being alone, marrying far away, living under someone else's roof, and being manipulated by others. If they really have an afterlife, they only wish they could have the right to choose themselves.
Before reading this article, I didn't know much about the historical facts about Feng Liao and Princess You. Then I saw a sentence in the introduction of this article: "Qing Shi wrote a marriage certificate, and engraved your name and my name together." How much courage, deep will, courage, and deep emotion must be needed to say this sentence? Use green history as a marriage certificate to record your and my names into the annals of history.
Marriage is a hurdle that every royal family member who implements this policy has to deal with. With the supreme glory added, the heavy burden of the relationship between the dynasty and foreigners will be placed on a weak woman, and what this woman will gain in return may be decades of peace, stability, and national harmony. The entire dynasty and even the two nations will benefit from the economic development brought about by peace, but who can see the blood and tears hidden behind these noble-born women?
Princess Jieyou, as the daughter of a guilty minister, was jealous of the emperor since she was a child. She finally embarked on the fate of getting married, and began her life of living a tragic but hard life to support herself as a princess of Han Dynasty. When Chuchu learned the bad news, she was panicked. After all, she shed tears in front of her sister Liao. Would the bitter cold in the Western Regions easily swallow up this delicate flower that grew in the Chu land? Feng Liao, who has been secretly committed to her since she was a child, replied, I will be by your side, always. Then, thousands of miles away, in a foreign country, with purple terraces and deserts, lonely shadows at dusk, Feng Liao was willing to be a maid and went with her to the hell-like Wusun. He watched her get married to Jun Xumi and accompanied her through the days outside the city. During the seven wonderful years, she held a lantern and waited outside the palace, then held a royal carriage, chatted with ministers, and traveled to various places. She really held up the sky for Jieyou, and she also deserved to be the beacon that would always be there in Jieyou's heart.
In fact, when I was reading the article, I kept thinking, what is real abuse? Are they separated by the sky, parted by life and death, forgotten about the world, or are they in the same bed and in different dreams? Abuse seems to have its own way of abuse, but the tears I shed while reading this article were actually shed because of the abuse? I don't think so.
This article is indeed very sad, because of the irresistible sense of fate. The identity of the guilty minister's daughter was the beginning of Liu Jieyou's tragic fate, and the identity of the princess was a shackle that she could not escape. The secret fight between Wusun of the Huns and Mrs. Zuo added several heavy bricks to Jieyou's tragedy. No matter how hard she and Feng Liao tried to escape in the desert, just because she was a Han princess, and because of her and Feng Liao's magnanimity and talent, they would eventually return to where they should be, just for the sake of maintaining peaceful exchanges between the two countries. She couldn't escape the big wedding with Jun Xumi on the grassland; she saw that Feng Liao's life and death were unknown, and she had to commit herself to Weng Guimi, she couldn't escape; in order to survive and wait for Feng Liao's return, she had to succumb to her destiny, give birth to children for Weng Xumi, and at the same time endure Ni Mi's ensuing revenge and torture. She couldn't escape any of these humiliations. This tragic sense of fate tore apart the cruel reality behind the peace between the two countries at that time, and revealed a bloody and heartbreaking reality behind the marriage of the princess. It was really so depressing that I couldn't breathe.
But this article is very warm, warm in the unconservative, wholehearted trust, and lifelong friendship between Feng Liao and Jieyou. The childhood sweethearts' emotions, secret promises, and heartbeats are the unspoken secrets between them. For this friendship, Feng Liao asked herself to be the princess's maid, just to accompany the person she puts at the top of her heart. As long as I live, no one can hurt you. Feng Liao rarely mentioned the word love, but her emotion was deeper than anyone else's. This companionship had long gone beyond what the thin word love could measure. She is gentle and comforts Jieyou to be strong, because she is much stronger than herself when she is strong; she is witty, planning for Jieyou's situation and planning with integrity; she is tenacious, as long as she is alive, no matter where she is, she will always come back to Jieyou, instructing Mo Yan to carry a lantern to send a message, struggling to survive on the cliff, returning to the Han Dynasty thousands of miles away, and kneeling down to ask for help. Just because she remembered that Jieyou couldn't see her light and she would be scared to be alone, so no matter how far away she was, she would rush back to Jieyou, just to light a bright lamp and always warm her heart.
And what about relieving worries? Faced with the tragic fate of her husband, Feng Liao's light had already been ignited in her heart and became the only motivation to support her survival. Faced with Jun Xumi's forced marriage, she struggled hard; in order for herself and Feng Liao to live well, she forced herself to serve Weng Guimi; in order to get the news about Feng Liao, she knelt down like a princess and Mo Yan; in order to see Feng Liao alive again, she endured Ni Mi's crazy torture on her every day. She went through the pain and torture necessary for growth, just to get the pleasure of being together with Feng Liao for a moment, and then she had to continue to endure the hopeless humiliation of separation. But the joy of this moment and the sincerity that could not be stopped even though they were two places apart were enough to warm her heart and became her memory that could never be erased over the years.
What surprised me the most about this article, but also made me cry, was a male character, Mo Xan. At first, he was arrogant and wanted Feng Liao to agree with him that Wusun's men were geniuses. But after experiencing Feng Liao's silent protection and seeing Feng Liao's affection for the princess, his intelligence and magnanimity, he was changed. He is the man who understands Feng Liao best in this article besides relieving his worries. He knows that Feng Liao is proud and beautiful, and that power can destroy others. Therefore, he asks to marry and protect Feng Liao, silently accompanies him, and gives Feng Liao endless respect. Even before he died, he thought that the next life was too far away and just wanted to wait for Feng Liao again, which made people extremely sad.
Years passed, decades passed by in a blink of an eye, Jieyou had children again, and some white hair was added to their heads. The fresh peaches in Pengcheng, and the stunning "White Snow" dance during the seven years of happy time have long become long-lasting memories in the hearts of Feng Liao and Jieyou. Fortunately, in the end of the story, Jieyou finally came to an end, and he was able to see the landscape of Han Dynasty that he had not seen for decades. When he opened his eyes, he could see Feng Liao lying beside him, which was considered as a lifetime of deep love.
What is the heaviest thing about a relationship? After her partner leaves, she cannot physically accompany her. Instead, she continues to complete the things she cares about most for her partner, taking care of her underage children and grandchildren. Feng Liao went on missions to various countries to spread Han culture, and Princess Jieyou worked diligently to stabilize Wusun's political situation. Qing Shi wrote a marriage certificate and shared a happy life with you. They really did it, and this deep love of staying with them despite all kinds of humiliation and torture also moved me in my heart and burst into tears.
A very profound article. Coming from this impetuous era, this is an article that is "full of surprises", but it is also a true literary work.
I have read almost all the big articles, except for this one, which I have never dared to read because I heard about it. Recently, I went to the Prosecution Court and mentioned "Qing Shi's Marriage Book" in it, so I decided to read it. Unexpectedly, although the historical facts are really rough and difficult, I always felt warm in the whole text. It is sweeter than sadistic. Probably because from the beginning to the end, these two people have always been absolutely sure of each other and their relationship, and never doubted it. Compared with some abuses such as misunderstandings, betrayals, etc. Between two people, this story is very sweet. I hope that the submerged history can be picked up and seen by more future generations. Thank you for being this pearl picker and letting us know about these two amazing women, Jie You and Feng Liao, and a love that is better than thousands of oaths.
Sorry, I don't know whether it's a be or a he. The three words "have to" are really the biggest abuse point of this article.
I can't tell whether it's he or be. The process was brutal, but the ending is pretty he, the kind of he that makes people burst into tears.
It's been over a year since I finished writing, so it seems a little inappropriate to write a long review, but after reading it, I really want to express some of my thoughts.
In the process of reading the article, in addition to reading the small green characters of Chang Ningjun, I also read the comments of Wen Zhujun, and found that there were many people who shouted abuse. Maybe it's because I have a weird physique. Just like I didn't find Teacher Mu's "Weak Water" to be abusive at all back then, after reading "Snow on the Pillow" in its entirety, I didn't find it particularly abusive.
There are eight sufferings in life: birth, old age, illness, death, separation from love, meeting of resentments and hatred, not being able to get what you want, and the five yin being strong. Which one is the most painful? Everyone's answer will probably be different. For example, my answer at this moment is consistent with the result I made in this article that the two people explained in this article did not torture me. The answer is probably the situation that everyone has encountered that goes against your expectations.
When I first started writing this article, I wrote a long review and talked about marriage. In ancient times, European countries also entered into marriages. Marriage was a form of diplomacy. Today's diplomatic methods include throwing money at people, beating them with sticks, and some are not diplomatic at all. I am studying firecrackers at home and blow one up from time to time to let you know by the sound that I am ruthless. In your country as well as ours, the method of marriage has withdrawn from the stage of history, but it does not mean that women's status is higher than the marriage period and there is no need for marriage. Now they can use money to support it and "serious negotiations" with words. Jieyou was born in a declining clan, in an era when marriage was still a means of diplomacy, and in an era when there was no money or force for strong diplomacy, which was her fate. Are the people on the border who died tragically at the hands of the Huns and the people in the Central Plains struggling to live under exorbitant taxes and miscellaneous taxes miserable? Sometimes, we can't choose our destiny, but we can never accept the suffering of fate and strive to earn some sweetness. She and Xijun had different fates in Wusun. She had Feng Liao and the sweetness she earned through hard work. The real cruelty is the pain of fate that no one can help and has no ability to refuse.
I grew up in a land of fish and rice. I have never seen the vast Gobi desert or the sky full of yellow sand. Maybe if I occasionally travel and pass by, I will be amazed by the savagery and magnificence of nature, but I don't have the courage to stay and live there. From the Han Dynasty to Wusun, the deterioration of the geographical environment alone is a great hardship. The savage nomads who were slaves to Wusun and their backward customs and culture were another big pain. I have been away from my hometown for many years, and I have long considered my place of work to be my hometown. But when I hear the familiar local accents and the familiar hometown delicacies, the long-lost soul of my hometown returns in a trance. The food and clothing of the Han family, the willow trees of the Han family, and the nostalgia left in my memory remind me of the hardship of living in a foreign land. Jieyou is accompanied by Feng Liao, who loves the pain of separation, leaving only the pain of separation from his hometown. If so, Jieyou and Feng Liao escaped smoothly and settled in Loulan? Is it still painful to leave your hometown? It can be seen that their abuse is not the pain of separation.
When Chang Ningjun was about to write this story, based on history, I was mentally prepared for Jieyou's commitment to serve as the third king of Wusun, and I accepted it calmly. Most people find it cruel, and it happens to be here. What if you can't stay in love and abuse each other? Or do I love you but you don't love me for being abusive? The whole text, which made my nose sore, is all about the inner monologue of the right general and the last parting. The greatest suffering in my heart is the suffering of not getting what I want. Of all the things in the world, it's fine if you don't love anything, but if you have something you love, you can't get it, and your heart is full of love and happiness, it's like a carrot hanging in front of a donkey's nose. I've reached the end of the world, and it still makes me salivate hanging in front of it. The most painful thing about not being able to ask for something is not not being able to ask for it, but the pain of having to ask for it despite not being able to get it. The loss and sadness of not being able to ask for something has smashed the heart that has become empty because of loving it into an abyss. What General You loves, what General You wants, cannot come true in this life, and will not be allowed in the next life. After three lives, I will not give it any extravagant hope. The despair lies not in Feng Liao's refusal, but in Feng Liao's refusal, but I still want to ask for it, and I still have a heart that can't help myself. There must be someone who understands the sweetness and pain of secret love, but this is far from the pain and suffering of the sharp knife wrapped in honey that cuts out the heart one by one.
It's unclear how many people are obsessed with Bingqing Yujie's body. I don't have this obsession. I can understand that some people don't care about the issue of physical chastity, but they just think that possession of the body and mind is the most perfect possession. It is like having a beloved thing taken away by others and cannot be tolerated. The first pain of Jieyou and Feng Liao is that they love each other but cannot completely possess each other. The Han family cannot tolerate it, and Wusun cannot tolerate it either. This is the great pain of every unblessed comrade in the feudal era, including modern times. The general environment is like this, and the knife of reality is held high. This is a universal sense of abuse, not just for them. You can't protect Jieyou from being possessed by barbaric men, you can't protect each other from dangers. Abuse is to accept the humiliation and love that a loved one has to surrender to a barbarian but can't save and replace it. Doesn't it actually have much to do with the purity of the body? So when they have reached an agreement on what should be done and what should not be done, what kind of abuse does Jieyou have if she gives birth to a few children? If the love between two people lasts for a long time, how can it last day and night?
The hearts of the two have never been separated or far away. They are always each other's beacon and the person at the top of each other's heart. They have been hand in hand with each other for a lifetime. They have been together through the ups and downs of life. They are never lonely or alone. Seventy years are rare in life, and having each other for such a long time makes my heart warm. Life is so long, so why bother seizing only the day and night, and fighting for that lifetime of entanglement can make this life worth living. Don't you think it's a great abuse for you to be single and not even have a girlfriend?
Finally, I would like to say something: With the pattern of Jieyou Feng Liao, with their diplomatic achievements in the history of youth, with the manipulation of absolute elite women, and the slapping of big men in the face, how can the women of Piapia use the petty cruelty of love to grieve their years in Wusun? Maybe they felt sad, indignant and cherished about their fate at the beginning of their marriage, but they supported each other and wrote their fate in Wusun with great colors. This is the key point, and I believe it is also Chang Ning's original intention.
They can be together forever
History is too heavy, and it is precisely the helplessness that brings out the preciousness of this feeling.
The pain and hatred of Jieyou, who can not understand each other, the impure and more helpless heartache!
Princess Jieyou went to the Huns, and Princess Wencheng went to Far Tibet. But later generations will only remember the contributions of the Wu and Tang sects of the Han Dynasty. When it comes to marriage, no matter whether it is in conversation or history, there are only a few words. Now, we can only look back on those years from these few words. The emperor's orders are hard to disobey, and once the edict is written, it is hard to change it. Their fate is in the hands of the emperor, not in theirs alone. I know that they all love the people and are willing to shoulder the responsibilities of the country and the importance of the royal family. But I really can't imagine and can't bear to imagine the hardships they suffered, being separated from what they love and living with what they hate. Who knows how hard it was for them, how difficult it was, but only a few strokes in the history books and a few praises from future generations. But now I am also grateful to have this history, and having their names engraved on them forever is the only consolation in the misfortune. If women could make meritorious deeds, if they could establish careers, if they could choose, I think the outcome would be different. Even if you die on the battlefield, it is thousands of times better than being alone, marrying far away, living under someone else's roof, and being manipulated by others. If they really have an afterlife, they only wish they could have the right to choose themselves.
Before reading this article, I didn't know much about the historical facts about Feng Liao and Princess You. Then I saw a sentence in the introduction of this article: "Qing Shi wrote a marriage certificate, and engraved your name and my name together." How much courage, deep will, courage, and deep emotion must be needed to say this sentence? Use green history as a marriage certificate to record your and my names into the annals of history. Marriage is a hurdle that every royal family member who implements this policy has to deal with. With the supreme glory added, the heavy burden of the relationship between the dynasty and foreigners will be placed on a weak woman, and what this woman will gain in return may be decades of peace, stability, and national harmony. The entire dynasty and even the two nations will benefit from the economic development brought about by peace, but who can see the blood and tears hidden behind these noble-born women? Princess Jieyou, as the daughter of a guilty minister, was jealous of the emperor since she was a child. She finally embarked on the fate of getting married, and began her life of living a tragic but hard life to support herself as a princess of Han Dynasty. When Chuchu learned the bad news, she was panicked. After all, she shed tears in front of her sister Liao. Would the bitter cold in the Western Regions easily swallow up this delicate flower that grew in the Chu land? Feng Liao, who has been secretly committed to her since she was a child, replied, I will be by your side, always. Then, thousands of miles away, in a foreign country, with purple terraces and deserts, lonely shadows at dusk, Feng Liao was willing to be a maid and went with her to the hell-like Wusun. He watched her get married to Jun Xumi and accompanied her through the days outside the city. During the seven wonderful years, she held a lantern and waited outside the palace, then held a royal carriage, chatted with ministers, and traveled to various places. She really held up the sky for Jieyou, and she also deserved to be the beacon that would always be there in Jieyou's heart. In fact, when I was reading the article, I kept thinking, what is real abuse? Are they separated by the sky, parted by life and death, forgotten about the world, or are they in the same bed and in different dreams? Abuse seems to have its own way of abuse, but the tears I shed while reading this article were actually shed because of the abuse? I don't think so. This article is indeed very sad, because of the irresistible sense of fate. The identity of the guilty minister's daughter was the beginning of Liu Jieyou's tragic fate, and the identity of the princess was a shackle that she could not escape. The secret fight between Wusun of the Huns and Mrs. Zuo added several heavy bricks to Jieyou's tragedy. No matter how hard she and Feng Liao tried to escape in the desert, just because she was a Han princess, and because of her and Feng Liao's magnanimity and talent, they would eventually return to where they should be, just for the sake of maintaining peaceful exchanges between the two countries. She couldn't escape the big wedding with Jun Xumi on the grassland; she saw that Feng Liao's life and death were unknown, and she had to commit herself to Weng Guimi, she couldn't escape; in order to survive and wait for Feng Liao's return, she had to succumb to her destiny, give birth to children for Weng Xumi, and at the same time endure Ni Mi's ensuing revenge and torture. She couldn't escape any of these humiliations. This tragic sense of fate tore apart the cruel reality behind the peace between the two countries at that time, and revealed a bloody and heartbreaking reality behind the marriage of the princess. It was really so depressing that I couldn't breathe. But this article is very warm, warm in the unconservative, wholehearted trust, and lifelong friendship between Feng Liao and Jieyou. The childhood sweethearts' emotions, secret promises, and heartbeats are the unspoken secrets between them. For this friendship, Feng Liao asked herself to be the princess's maid, just to accompany the person she puts at the top of her heart. As long as I live, no one can hurt you. Feng Liao rarely mentioned the word love, but her emotion was deeper than anyone else's. This companionship had long gone beyond what the thin word love could measure. She is gentle and comforts Jieyou to be strong, because she is much stronger than herself when she is strong; she is witty, planning for Jieyou's situation and planning with integrity; she is tenacious, as long as she is alive, no matter where she is, she will always come back to Jieyou, instructing Mo Yan to carry a lantern to send a message, struggling to survive on the cliff, returning to the Han Dynasty thousands of miles away, and kneeling down to ask for help. Just because she remembered that Jieyou couldn't see her light and she would be scared to be alone, so no matter how far away she was, she would rush back to Jieyou, just to light a bright lamp and always warm her heart. And what about relieving worries? Faced with the tragic fate of her husband, Feng Liao's light had already been ignited in her heart and became the only motivation to support her survival. Faced with Jun Xumi's forced marriage, she struggled hard; in order for herself and Feng Liao to live well, she forced herself to serve Weng Guimi; in order to get the news about Feng Liao, she knelt down like a princess and Mo Yan; in order to see Feng Liao alive again, she endured Ni Mi's crazy torture on her every day. She went through the pain and torture necessary for growth, just to get the pleasure of being together with Feng Liao for a moment, and then she had to continue to endure the hopeless humiliation of separation. But the joy of this moment and the sincerity that could not be stopped even though they were two places apart were enough to warm her heart and became her memory that could never be erased over the years. What surprised me the most about this article, but also made me cry, was a male character, Mo Xan. At first, he was arrogant and wanted Feng Liao to agree with him that Wusun's men were geniuses. But after experiencing Feng Liao's silent protection and seeing Feng Liao's affection for the princess, his intelligence and magnanimity, he was changed. He is the man who understands Feng Liao best in this article besides relieving his worries. He knows that Feng Liao is proud and beautiful, and that power can destroy others. Therefore, he asks to marry and protect Feng Liao, silently accompanies him, and gives Feng Liao endless respect. Even before he died, he thought that the next life was too far away and just wanted to wait for Feng Liao again, which made people extremely sad. Years passed, decades passed by in a blink of an eye, Jieyou had children again, and some white hair was added to their heads. The fresh peaches in Pengcheng, and the stunning "White Snow" dance during the seven years of happy time have long become long-lasting memories in the hearts of Feng Liao and Jieyou. Fortunately, in the end of the story, Jieyou finally came to an end, and he was able to see the landscape of Han Dynasty that he had not seen for decades. When he opened his eyes, he could see Feng Liao lying beside him, which was considered as a lifetime of deep love. What is the heaviest thing about a relationship? After her partner leaves, she cannot physically accompany her. Instead, she continues to complete the things she cares about most for her partner, taking care of her underage children and grandchildren. Feng Liao went on missions to various countries to spread Han culture, and Princess Jieyou worked diligently to stabilize Wusun's political situation. Qing Shi wrote a marriage certificate and shared a happy life with you. They really did it, and this deep love of staying with them despite all kinds of humiliation and torture also moved me in my heart and burst into tears.
A very profound article. Coming from this impetuous era, this is an article that is "full of surprises", but it is also a true literary work.
I have read almost all the big articles, except for this one, which I have never dared to read because I heard about it. Recently, I went to the Prosecution Court and mentioned "Qing Shi's Marriage Book" in it, so I decided to read it. Unexpectedly, although the historical facts are really rough and difficult, I always felt warm in the whole text. It is sweeter than sadistic. Probably because from the beginning to the end, these two people have always been absolutely sure of each other and their relationship, and never doubted it. Compared with some abuses such as misunderstandings, betrayals, etc. Between two people, this story is very sweet. I hope that the submerged history can be picked up and seen by more future generations. Thank you for being this pearl picker and letting us know about these two amazing women, Jie You and Feng Liao, and a love that is better than thousands of oaths.
Sorry, I don't know whether it's a be or a he. The three words "have to" are really the biggest abuse point of this article.
I can't tell whether it's he or be. The process was brutal, but the ending is pretty he, the kind of he that makes people burst into tears.
It's been over a year since I finished writing, so it seems a little inappropriate to write a long review, but after reading it, I really want to express some of my thoughts. In the process of reading the article, in addition to reading the small green characters of Chang Ningjun, I also read the comments of Wen Zhujun, and found that there were many people who shouted abuse. Maybe it's because I have a weird physique. Just like I didn't find Teacher Mu's "Weak Water" to be abusive at all back then, after reading "Snow on the Pillow" in its entirety, I didn't find it particularly abusive. There are eight sufferings in life: birth, old age, illness, death, separation from love, meeting of resentments and hatred, not being able to get what you want, and the five yin being strong. Which one is the most painful? Everyone's answer will probably be different. For example, my answer at this moment is consistent with the result I made in this article that the two people explained in this article did not torture me. The answer is probably the situation that everyone has encountered that goes against your expectations. When I first started writing this article, I wrote a long review and talked about marriage. In ancient times, European countries also entered into marriages. Marriage was a form of diplomacy. Today's diplomatic methods include throwing money at people, beating them with sticks, and some are not diplomatic at all. I am studying firecrackers at home and blow one up from time to time to let you know by the sound that I am ruthless. In your country as well as ours, the method of marriage has withdrawn from the stage of history, but it does not mean that women's status is higher than the marriage period and there is no need for marriage. Now they can use money to support it and "serious negotiations" with words. Jieyou was born in a declining clan, in an era when marriage was still a means of diplomacy, and in an era when there was no money or force for strong diplomacy, which was her fate. Are the people on the border who died tragically at the hands of the Huns and the people in the Central Plains struggling to live under exorbitant taxes and miscellaneous taxes miserable? Sometimes, we can't choose our destiny, but we can never accept the suffering of fate and strive to earn some sweetness. She and Xijun had different fates in Wusun. She had Feng Liao and the sweetness she earned through hard work. The real cruelty is the pain of fate that no one can help and has no ability to refuse. I grew up in a land of fish and rice. I have never seen the vast Gobi desert or the sky full of yellow sand. Maybe if I occasionally travel and pass by, I will be amazed by the savagery and magnificence of nature, but I don't have the courage to stay and live there. From the Han Dynasty to Wusun, the deterioration of the geographical environment alone is a great hardship. The savage nomads who were slaves to Wusun and their backward customs and culture were another big pain. I have been away from my hometown for many years, and I have long considered my place of work to be my hometown. But when I hear the familiar local accents and the familiar hometown delicacies, the long-lost soul of my hometown returns in a trance. The food and clothing of the Han family, the willow trees of the Han family, and the nostalgia left in my memory remind me of the hardship of living in a foreign land. Jieyou is accompanied by Feng Liao, who loves the pain of separation, leaving only the pain of separation from his hometown. If so, Jieyou and Feng Liao escaped smoothly and settled in Loulan? Is it still painful to leave your hometown? It can be seen that their abuse is not the pain of separation. When Chang Ningjun was about to write this story, based on history, I was mentally prepared for Jieyou's commitment to serve as the third king of Wusun, and I accepted it calmly. Most people find it cruel, and it happens to be here. What if you can't stay in love and abuse each other? Or do I love you but you don't love me for being abusive? The whole text, which made my nose sore, is all about the inner monologue of the right general and the last parting. The greatest suffering in my heart is the suffering of not getting what I want. Of all the things in the world, it's fine if you don't love anything, but if you have something you love, you can't get it, and your heart is full of love and happiness, it's like a carrot hanging in front of a donkey's nose. I've reached the end of the world, and it still makes me salivate hanging in front of it. The most painful thing about not being able to ask for something is not not being able to ask for it, but the pain of having to ask for it despite not being able to get it. The loss and sadness of not being able to ask for something has smashed the heart that has become empty because of loving it into an abyss. What General You loves, what General You wants, cannot come true in this life, and will not be allowed in the next life. After three lives, I will not give it any extravagant hope. The despair lies not in Feng Liao's refusal, but in Feng Liao's refusal, but I still want to ask for it, and I still have a heart that can't help myself. There must be someone who understands the sweetness and pain of secret love, but this is far from the pain and suffering of the sharp knife wrapped in honey that cuts out the heart one by one. It's unclear how many people are obsessed with Bingqing Yujie's body. I don't have this obsession. I can understand that some people don't care about the issue of physical chastity, but they just think that possession of the body and mind is the most perfect possession. It is like having a beloved thing taken away by others and cannot be tolerated. The first pain of Jieyou and Feng Liao is that they love each other but cannot completely possess each other. The Han family cannot tolerate it, and Wusun cannot tolerate it either. This is the great pain of every unblessed comrade in the feudal era, including modern times. The general environment is like this, and the knife of reality is held high. This is a universal sense of abuse, not just for them. You can't protect Jieyou from being possessed by barbaric men, you can't protect each other from dangers. Abuse is to accept the humiliation and love that a loved one has to surrender to a barbarian but can't save and replace it. Doesn't it actually have much to do with the purity of the body? So when they have reached an agreement on what should be done and what should not be done, what kind of abuse does Jieyou have if she gives birth to a few children? If the love between two people lasts for a long time, how can it last day and night? The hearts of the two have never been separated or far away. They are always each other's beacon and the person at the top of each other's heart. They have been hand in hand with each other for a lifetime. They have been together through the ups and downs of life. They are never lonely or alone. Seventy years are rare in life, and having each other for such a long time makes my heart warm. Life is so long, so why bother seizing only the day and night, and fighting for that lifetime of entanglement can make this life worth living. Don't you think it's a great abuse for you to be single and not even have a girlfriend? Finally, I would like to say something: With the pattern of Jieyou Feng Liao, with their diplomatic achievements in the history of youth, with the manipulation of absolute elite women, and the slapping of big men in the face, how can the women of Piapia use the petty cruelty of love to grieve their years in Wusun? Maybe they felt sad, indignant and cherished about their fate at the beginning of their marriage, but they supported each other and wrote their fate in Wusun with great colors. This is the key point, and I believe it is also Chang Ning's original intention.
They can be together forever
History is too heavy, and it is precisely the helplessness that brings out the preciousness of this feeling.
The pain and hatred of Jieyou, who can not understand each other, the impure and more helpless heartache!