Dream of the Red Chamber: Xuan Qing

For those who hate Jia Min and say that Jia Min failed to teach Dai Yu well, here is a review article by Guan Da's Red Mansions. It is really insightful. Let me explain first, it is not mine. It is caused by caring. Please don't misunderstand me. Should you marry Daiyu or Baochai? The day before yesterday, I read a Bagua post, which unexpectedly brought up some of Guan Guan's thoughts about Chai Dai over the years, so I had a few words with the rigidly nerdy science guy from my family. Unexpectedly, upon questioning, I discovered that Guan Gong's whimsical thoughts about Chai Dai were completely beyond Guan Guan's previous understanding of men. I am listing them in detail here to make all my brothers and sisters laugh. A certain level: Well, I have liked Daiyu since I was a child, and I still like it when I grow up, but I also think Baochai is pitiful and respectable. It's a pity that there is only one Baoyu. Today the Yongdai faction and the Yongchai faction are quarreling again online. By the way, what about you? Which side to support. Guan Gong (very simply): I belong to the Yongdai faction. A certain level: Huh? ! How could it be? It is said that among those who have done a survey on men, nine-and-a-half out of ten men like Baochai, saying that she is thoughtful, capable, good at running a household, and kind-hearted and easy to get along with. In short, she is easy to marry and has endless benefits as a wife. Daiyu, on the other hand, said she was sick, petty, and difficult to take care of. Guan Gong (serious): This is a very serious misunderstanding. I always feel that Daiyu is better than Baochai. Even if a modern man marries a wife, he should marry Daiyu. A certain level: What do you mean by Mr. Xianggong's words? Guan Gong: Madam, please clean the melon seed shells from your mouth first. Okay, you have a very correct attitude. Put down the plums and chicken wings, but you can eat toffee... That's fine. First, it is character. Whether you are looking for friends or becoming a couple, the most important thing is your heart. No matter how smart and capable a person is, if he has a bad heart, can you rest assured sleeping next to him? If you are a couple or friends with Daiyu, even if your relationship goes bad or you have disagreements, you don't have to worry about her doing evil behind your back. She will only quarrel with you openly and openly. If it's Baochai, if the couple breaks up or has a serious conflict with a friend, even if she doesn't show it on her face, there might be something going on behind her back. No matter how good others say about Baochai, the incident of "Dicui Pavilion fluttering at butterflies" is enough to chill people's hearts. Even a thousand words and ten thousand words can't turn her back. On weekdays, I would be very affectionate with Sister Lin, but who would have thought that I would stab her whenever I got the chance. For such a woman to be your wife, if the couple is good, that's all. If not, she will not leave a pin behind your back to plot against you! What about being friends? If you want to compete for a position, you can believe that Daiyu will show up and rely on her professional skills to fight for it. What if it is Baochai? Is it hard to say? A certain level: Just say that men like silly bitches who are straightforward and have no calculations. Guan Gong: I won't say anything about your personal attacks. A certain level: No, no, no, I'm wrong, go on. Guan Gong: The second thing is the heart. This is the mistress question that you gossip girls love to talk about. Don't you think Baochai is a mistress? A certain level: Where is it? Don't talk nonsense! Beware of being slapped to death. Guan Gong: Baoyu and Daiyu have been close to each other for a long time. Don't tell me that someone as perceptive as Baochai wouldn't be able to tell. Even if she couldn't be sure on ordinary days, didn't she still understand that time when she went to Yihongyuan and heard Baoyu talking in his sleep while taking a nap? Although Baoyu calls her Sister Bao and is very affectionate and polite, she is not even remotely interested in a good match! If Daiyu had heard such words, she would have walked away long ago, marrying another man. But Baochai didn't, this woman could bear to pretend, and had no idea of ​​retreating, but continued to compete. But the goal of her competition is not to win Baoyu's love, but to gain the approval of those around her as much as possible. She is not going for Baoyu at all. What she wants is the status of 'Second Mistress Bao', a kind-hearted husband, and a wealthy marriage. As a man, I am Baoyu and I don't want Baochai but Daiyu. A certain level: You are too extreme. Maybe this marriage was not Baochai's own idea, but the idea shared by Mrs. Wang and Aunt Xue. How could children not listen to the elders' wishes. Guan Gong: Pull him down. I think Ms. Baochai herself is very active when it comes to the issue of pursuing a better future. Do you still remember why she came to Jia's house in the first place? It's a draft. Half of the Jia family's wealth is due to Yuanchun. With such a glorious example in front of you, how can you know that Baochai can't revive the Xue family and help the Wang family by the way? Mother and daughter first lived in Jia's house because they wanted to take advantage of Yuanchun's power in the palace. As the saying goes, 'The good wind will send me to the blue clouds with its power' - this is Baochai's heartfelt voice! . It's a pity that the Qing Dynasty was not the Ming Dynasty. The Ming Dynasty's draft wanted to find commoner women with ordinary family backgrounds, but not the daughters of powerful men. The Manchu Qing Dynasty was not selected for the draft. Let's look at the families of her father and brother first. Baochai was very sad... After her father died, the Xue family only had a stupid overlord who caused trouble everywhere, so he was not selected. A certain level: It's not all Baochai's fault. Is it wrong to enter the palace in order to revive the family? Guan Gong: Okay, that's not wrong. But during the draft, did you hear the saying 'a good match' in the whole book? As soon as the draft was hopeless, Aunt Xue and Mrs. Wang immediately adjusted their strategy, so Baochai and Ying'er, the master and servant, immediately got into the mood and sang a good double act. Baochai wanted to see Baoyu's jade, rubbed the words on the jade, and read it twice lovingly. Then Ying'er was immediately 'surprised' to find that 'these words are a pair of words on the girl's gold medal'. For fear that these were not strong enough, she had to add, 'this gold one must be matched with a jade one in the future' - this was really Sima Zhao's heart. It's so disgusting that even a grown-up girl can say this. During this process, can you see any trace of Baochai's reluctance? This is not love, this is cold calculation. A certain level: I'm already taking Lengxiang Pills, so what's wrong with it being a little colder? Maybe Baochai already likes Baoyu and is just looking for a chance to express it. Don't you guys really like girls to express their feelings? Guan Gong: ... To be honest, men prefer those they have worked so hard to pursue. A certain level: Stop pretending! Daiyu is not in good health and has to take medicine every day. You men can be happy and marry a wife, but she can't work and is sick all day long. Baochai is so neat. Guan Gong: If you want to compare, you have to make an average comparison. You can't use the Jia family's level to compare common people. Daiyu's medical expenses have never constituted an economic problem for the Jia family and the Lin family. What's more, in addition to taking ginseng Yangrong pills and bird's nest porridge, Daiyu also took some expensive medicines, which are common health care medicines in the same powerful family. The cold-flavored pills that Baochai took were so expensive, so much manpower and material resources were wasted on them. In real life, Daiyu just takes more vitamin C and calcium tablets, but if it were Baochai, where could a man get her a magical medicine similar to Lengxiang Pills? A certain level: What if Daiyu cannot give birth to a child? Guan Gong: Isn't there a concubine and a common roommate? A certain level: Idiot, I mean for modern times! Guan Gong: Isn't there Beijing Xinxing Hospital? A certain level:… Guan Gong: Cao Xueqin wrote these two women very well. One used the word "clearly denounced but actually praised" and the other used "clearly praised but actually denounced". Before Baochai appeared, there were various rumors saying that she was good in this way, good-tempered, good-tempered, good-looking, everything was good, from head to toe... The young lady said it, the mother-in-law said it, and the maids said it for several years. But Daiyu was just the opposite. Xiangyun said she was petty, her mother-in-law said she had a bad mouth, the maids secretly commented that she was difficult to take care of, and they even vaguely said that she was not in good health and would not be able to make a living, etc. But what about the facts? Just the opposite. As Xiangyun grew up, he became more attuned to Daiyu. The conversation on the Mid-Autumn Night had never happened with Baochai. Xiangling was more willing to ask Daiyu for poetry advice than Baochai who was right in front of her. Zicuckoo had never seen Ying'er's heartfelt loyalty and love for Daiyu that went beyond the care of a master and servant. When Jin Chuan'er died, Baochai was so detached and indifferent that he even persuaded Mrs. Wang to give her two more coins. If a classmate jumped off the building because the teacher was making trouble for his grades, would you at least sympathize with him instead of rushing to pat the teacher on and comfort him? A certain level: If that classmate is caught for cheating and the teacher refuses to let him go, then I will go and comfort the teacher. Guan Gong:… A certain level: Okay. But Daiyu is indeed very sharp-tongued and often scolds people. Guan Gong: Daiyu's sharp tongue is mostly what she says but she doesn't mean it. She is mean and forgetful once she says it. She often secretly regrets it after saying it, just like the incident with Caiyun and Osmanthus Oil, but her sincerity towards others is true. To Zicuckoo, to Xiangling, to Baoyu, even if it was Baochai, after giving him bird's nests and rock candy twice, she immediately treated him with sincerity and opened his heart. Everyone said that Baochai was good, but she was too petty in the past. As for Baochai, she is too elusive. The front foot gave Daiyu bird's nest rock candy, while the hind foot discussed with her mother that Daiyu should be married to Xue Pan. You can say that she just wanted Daiyu to be her sister-in-law and had no other bad intentions, but I think she knew very well what kind of thing her brother Xue Pan was. It was a shame she could think of it to let Lin Daiyu marry Xue Pan. A certain level: This... Seems... A bit too much. Guan Gong: And that time when we visited Chunli's house. It was Tanchun who came up with the method of creating advantages and eliminating disadvantages, but in the end all the good guys were let Baochai do the job. Tanchun was so angry that he cried, while Baochai was praised by his subordinates for his kindness and kindness. What I hate the most is this kind of guy who doesn't say anything when we work together, but then follows behind and just acts like a good person! A certain level (observation and gaze): Is there something unpleasant in the unit? Guan Gong: No. Please stay focused and don't ramble. To sum up, if you were asked to choose a roommate, which one would you want? Although Daiyu may make you angry every three days and make you unable to eat with her harsh words three times a day, as long as you treat her sincerely, she will definitely treat you sincerely. She will not play tricks on you behind your back, or use unfair means to covet your things. When you ask her for advice, she will not look down on you because your family is poor and humble, but will give you serious advice. As for Baochai, she is indeed very thoughtful and meticulous. When there is no conflict of interest, she can also help you organize a banquet and get paints - but she always wins a good reputation. And once there is a conflict of interest, you have to be on guard against whether she will sneak up on you while swatting flies or grasshoppers one day. Especially when you are competing for something together, even if your supervisor or department chair thinks you are more suitable, Baochai will continue to compete through various overt and covert peripheral relationships. Tell me, which roommate do you want? . A certain level: Well... Well... Actually, any roommate who doesn't throw thallium is a good roommate. Guan Gong: Only after marrying a wife like Baochai will a man die from exhaustion. So to strive for progress, if a man becomes a county magistrate, she will encourage her husband to continue to strive for the state magistrate, and if he becomes a state magistrate, he will strive for the magistrate. In modern times, it would be the section chief, director, director, mayor, etc. It is endless, and the man is exhausted to death. If it were Daiyu, as long as you and she were in love, she would probably spread her hands and say, "That's it." In fact, a man who is willing to struggle will naturally continue to struggle without the urging of his wife. For a man who is content with a plain and stable life, no matter how much his wife encourages him, it will either have the opposite effect. There will be more economic criminals in the world, or even if he succeeds, his relationship will also break down. A certain level: It's not that exaggerated. Forget it, let's just focus on ancient times. In ancient times, marriage was about love, but it was about being able to manage a household. Baochai was really good at running a household! It can not only take care of so many relatives and friends thoughtfully and properly, but also manage everything from top to bottom. Guan Gong: Wrong, very wrong. Without confiscation of the house, Baoyu would lose his family quickly if he married Baochai. If he married Daiyu, he would be able to support two more generations. A certain level: Are we reading the same Red Mansion? Guan Gong: Baochai knows how to run a house. That is only praised by others. In fact, when has she ever managed a house? Her own natal family? As the eldest girl in the family, has she ever accomplished anything? Even under many layers of restrictions, Tanchun took some measures to improve the economic situation of the Jia family. Where's Baochai? I didn't see it. In essence, she lacks Tanchun's brave and enterprising strong personality. In front of Xia Jingui, she could only cry in anger. If Tanchun had been in Baochai's position, he would have ordered his mother-in-law and maids to fight in return! But Baochai could only watch the Xue family lose faster and faster. As for Daiyu, Daiyu has expressed concern about the financial situation of Jia's family more than once. She has secretly calculated that according to Jia's way of life, it is simply impossible to make ends meet, and she has given ideas to increase revenue and reduce expenditure. This shows that she actually understands general affairs very well. It's a pity that Mrs. Wang has no intention of asking her to manage it, so she doesn't have a chance to show off. Daiyu is not aloof from the world, she understands the ways of the world very well. When the maids from outside come to report the news, she will grab two handfuls of money to reward the mother-in-law. It's just that no one promoted her as being 'intelligent, harmonious and kind', or in other words, some people liked to promote her being aloof, cold, arrogant and unsophisticated. Let's look at management personnel. Needless to say, Yingchun had a lot of troubles with her maid and wet nurse. Xichun's maid was found to be transmitting property inside and outside. Xing Xiuyan wanted to use her robe to pawn wine for her mother-in-law, even if it was Baochai and Ying'er also had a quarrel with the mothers-in-law over picking flowers - in the entire Grand View Garden, only Tanchun and Daiyu's maids had not had any trouble. Tanchun was strong and invulnerable to all poisons, but what about Daiyu? The maids in Xiaoxiang Pavilion are lively and cheerful, yet peaceful and kind, and have never had any bad incidents. It can be said that if Daiyu were the mistress, she would never be worse than Baochai in managing the servants. A certain level: Okay, I understand, Daiyu is really better than Baochai. Guan Gong: In essence, Baochai and Wang Xifeng have the same old-school management thinking, which is to try their best to maintain the appearance and save face. Even if the inside is empty, even if the dowry is spent, face must be maintained. Baochai helped Xiangyun organize such a beautiful and elegant crab banquet. I don't believe she didn't put any money into it? ! A typical person who spends money to earn money, don't tell me she is helpful. This attitude towards life is consistent, whether she is a girl or a mistress. The problem of the Jia family is very clear. They just have no money and need to increase revenue and reduce expenditure. Since men can't make money and can't increase revenue, they can only reduce expenditure. Like Xue Baochai, once Jia Zheng's house was divided, he still had to maintain the original dignity and pomp, treat his servants leniently, and give out four to five hundred taels of silver to the servants at the first move - the Baoyu family had long since fallen apart. A certain level: Stop talking, I'm convinced. Guan Gong: I haven't finished speaking yet. Daiyu is the material for life, she is the kind of person who can fall out with her at any time. That time at Aunt Xue's house for dinner, Li's mother, relying on her status as a wet nurse, kept relying on her old man to stop Baoyu from drinking. Aunt Xue could only giggle and smooth things over, Baochai could only say a few words that were neither salty nor bland, and only Daiyu could kill Mother Li in just two sentences! If we talk about identity, it is more difficult for Daiyu than the Xue mother and daughter. She should be more afraid of offending people than the Xue mother and daughter, but she will speak out when it is time to speak out and will never shirk. In the future, when Baoyu and his wife separate, if they continue to maintain the scene like Baochai did, this relative will receive a heavy gift for drinking, that friend will give a big red envelope for a banquet, and the servants and women at home will not be in a bad mood, wouldn't they die quickly? But Daiyu can live a small life behind closed doors. She can close the Grand View Garden and disperse most of the servants, women and servants, and live as long as she has money. Cao Xueqin made it very clear that if you are rich in the mountains, you have distant relatives, but if you are poor in the city, no one cares about you. If you are really willing to help, even if the Jia family doesn't have a good gift, they will help. If you are not willing, it will be useless if you send big red envelopes. A certain level: I am truly convinced. Can you please stop making reports that seem endless? Guan Gong: Don't interrupt. As long as the house is not ransacked, Mrs. Wang should not cause trouble. Daiyu and Baoyu will have no problem living in a small family. On the contrary, they will be able to live for a few more generations without worrying about food and clothing. At least they will not have to pawn or borrow money, or find money to settle the trouble for their troubled brother-in-law. If you are lucky, in the future you will give birth to a son who will be like your grandfather, who will take the initiative to love reading and pursue an official career, and will also be a prostitute, then the Jia family will have hope for revival. What if you marry Baochai and have a son, and his nephew looks like your uncle? Could it be that he followed Xue Pan's example and was beaten to death for loving a male actor, or that he beat others to death when they competed for a girl? Genes are still very important. . A certain level (impatient): Then why do we find that every time we do a survey, there are overwhelmingly many men willing to marry Baochai? ! Guan Gong (very calm): There are relatively few smart people in the world. If I weren't smart, would you be able to eat so fat and go around the gossip forum without any worries? A certain level:… Look, Bao Dai's advantages and disadvantages are listed here. Does anyone else think that Daiyu's education is poor?

Huang Sangtongzi was tricked by his younger brother and son, so his younger brother was a scammer and his son was a scammer. . . . . .

The male protagonist's stupidity and realism saved my life, I'm speechless.

. . . No matter how the author explains it, I feel that he is too holy in his treatment of Lin Daiyu.

Please... Extra: The Adventures of Baoyu (Part 2) Where is it?

It's so unfair to Brother Xiang. I hope there will be a side story that allows Xuan Qing to experience the feeling of not being able to love someone.

Can you write a side story about Lin Ruhai? It's best to torture him to death.

( ><.) ~ Wuwuwu... I actually didn't know it was over until I watched it. I also said to wait for more updates.

Only after reading this chapter did I realize that he was wearing it, and Xuan Qing had not shown it before. Xuanqing is still very much like the Emperor of West Lake

In various Red Mansions fan fiction, Zhongshun is always a hard-working guy, and Wannian soy sauce is comparable to Prince Hong Zhou's tube! ! ! ! !