Reborn: The Little Things in Life

After reading it, I cried several times in the middle. It was so realistic. Too many people were struggling in the mud, feeling helpless, sad, angry, unwilling, and unable to escape.

This will probably be a long review. Among all the rebirth and revenge articles, this one was probably the one that touched me the most after reading it. There aren't that many golden fingers, there aren't that many cool spots, there are just careful budgeting, and the trivialities and troubles that we have to face in life. But in my opinion, the more articles like this, the more it touches my heart. Because it is so close to life, the author must be a person who has a lot of feelings about life, otherwise he would not be able to write such a realistic article in such a delicate way. The article records a lot of trivial family matters, but in fact, all these trivial things, taken together over many years, add up to a lot of helplessness in adult life. Partial parents, a younger brother who can never stand up to the wall, and a younger sister who pretends to be deaf and dumb when their parents are sick, these make up most of the lives of many boys who come out of the countryside. While reading the article, I was so angry at Xiang Qingyun's cowardice many times, but he is truly pitiable. The family he grew up in has shaped his character. As the author said, what has been engraved in the bones for more than 20 years is really difficult to change. If he hadn't almost lost his beloved Ye Jiawen, he might have been willing to become Xiang Qingtian's eternal blood bag. Until he was washed clean, he would still have to smile ingratiatingly. Being able to be reborn is not only Ye Jiawen's luck, but also Xiang Qingyun's luck. It has something to do with family. When I read the stories of Ye Jiawen and Xiang Qingyun, it was very much like watching my parents in real life. My dad protects and dotes on my mom, but he is also what everyone calls the "Phoenix Man." His support for his younger brothers and sisters will never end, and he has always felt that they should be taken for granted. It wasn't until he was holding my grandma's coffin that he cried with remorse and his eyes turned red. He spent a year numbing himself in alcohol before finally waking up. But the price of this awakening was too heavy. For the rest of his life, he would always live with self-blame for himself and resentment for his brothers. Maybe this is everyone's life. When you reach a certain age, you will always feel helpless in one way or another. Chickens and dogs are flying, and chicken feathers are everywhere.

There are people like Xiang Qingyun in reality. In the novel, you can barely change, but in reality, change is unlikely, so if you encounter such people, it's better to avoid them.

I bought this article a long time ago and read it again when I was not satisfied. I don't know how many times I read it this time. When I saw the big words and the comments from readers, I would say that this article is very frustrating. Not really. If in reality, someone is nice to you for no reason, it is often followed by a sinkhole rather than a fairy tale. Xiang Tianqing, what should I say about this man? He really scored 90 points and his family scored -50 points, dragging him down to fail. If it's a no-brainer, the standard version of the reborn Xiao Yezi is Mr. Lu, who has money, power, brains, and enough personal charm, but is it really better than Xiaoyun Xiaoyun? Some people also say that you have laid the groundwork for your previous life for too long, and if you look unhappy, you should not take it to heart. The kid who said this is too young. If he hadn't stayed together in front of the hospital bed in his previous life, would Xiao Yezi have been stupid? Being with Xiao Yun, a failure, and this terrible thing, it's really not just love, but also a more prosaic and profound family affection and responsibility. I wonder if you will write some extras or a similar article. We don't have Mary Sue, we just live this ordinary, ordinary life. By the way, Pig Brain is still waiting for you to update it. I'll finish it later, but can it be longer? This article is still very short! ! !

I'm so tired, so tired [picking my head], don't change the other half, choose the other half...

It was really hard to hold back after reading this article, because the character settings of the two people in the article are almost the same as those of my parents. My father is considered a "Phoenix Man" and a relatively respectable member of the family, while my mother's family are from the city. I don't know how other people view love and marriage. In my eyes, these two things are less cost-effective than the other. Except, of course, maybe, true love. But what about true love? My parents were married at the time, and my father was broke. My mother went back to the countryside with him to get married with a big backpack on her back. Isn't this considered true love? But in fact, today, more than 20 years later, they do not want a divorce because one or the other cheated, but because their lives have exhausted all love. I really don't understand why the protagonist chooses to live another life and continue to stay with this person. Can a person, a man, really be changed? At least what I saw, the real Ye Jiawen, my mother, only ended up with a heart filled with despair. I think the only solution is to leave and let him fend for himself and grow on his own. For men like Xiang Qingyun and my father, you should always be their friend, but not their family. That kind of vague pain is hidden under the surface of happiness and peace, just like some wounds without scars. Even if you are injured, you still have to add a sense of grievance and patience. Yes, to get along with this kind of person you have to be selfish, rational and hard-hearted, but after a long time, people will get tired. Ordinary people don't have the luck and wisdom that Xiaoye had after his rebirth, so in the end they just get hurt in a different way. Do you believe it? Even if you manage his money for his own good, and be a bad person for him and reject relatives, he will always blame you bit by bit for a long time, blame you for not trusting him and not giving him face, and blame you for being too cold and not caring about blood ties. Even if you are reborn, why should you use your precious second life to love such a person with all your heart? In the previous dozens of chapters, I saw Xiaoye trying his best to force Shang Qingyun to change, and I felt sad and tired for him. But at the end of the day, you know how warm and cold a relationship is. Some people are afraid of trouble like me, and there are naturally others who are happy with it. As the author said, this is just a fairy tale, but in reality, this kind of infatuation may not exist. It's not that I don't believe in love, I think real love shouldn't be like this. Before you love someone, you must first love yourself, otherwise people will be cheap. If they see that you don't even love yourself and love them, they will feel that you are your heaven and your earth, so all the storms will come to you. Why is this so? There are many things that people cannot live without, but love is never among them.

Think about it carefully, who doesn't have a great relative? In fact, this has nothing to do with rural cities, and it has little to do with Phoenix men or women. When you face your best relatives, you will realize how lucky you are to have a strong heart. Some people may think that the characters in the author's works are a bit exaggerated, but it must be that God is about to give you a big job!

I've finished reading this book. It's a very tiring book. The whole text is full of [rolling eyes] [rolling eyes] [rolling eyes] [cracked] [cracked] [cracked] [cracked] [crying] [crying] [crying] [melted] [melted] [melted] these expressions switch, I can only say that the author's writing is so good, the best. Qi's portrayal is so vivid, don't ask me why I am so angry and still want to watch it, because I really want to be able to be happy and live a good life. [Crying] [Crying] I cried when I saw Shou died of cancer in her previous life. I am a protagonist. No matter how much I hate Gong, as long as he is liked, as long as he is happy, that's fine... Little Couple 99 I hope Jiawen will always be happy and live a long life

Looking forward to Lu Qing and Xiao Liu's extra episode [Dog's Head Holding a Rose]

The writing is solid. After reading it, I just want to say that Jiawen Qingyun and Xiaolong will always be happy!