Farewell, My Love (GL)

The text and comments of this article really complement each other. After reading it late at night, I wanted to briefly summarize the story, and found that I could quote this sentence again: "Eternity requires us to evolve into better people." But in fact, I have more of a bystander mentality. In addition to sighing that the past cannot be rebuked and the past can be pursued, I hope that I can learn to cherish the present at all times, and every step I take is the direction of progress. There is no doubt that people of different ages and experiences will have different perspectives and different levels of emotion, so this article will most likely be revisited in the future (and I can't help but praise Ning Da's early short stories). The Archaeological Party will not comment on the plots and text of the early works. The gain in terms of characters is that we discovered that Teacher Ning Yuan's early works actually contained various "defective" characters such as impulsiveness, stubbornness, inferiority, selfishness, etc. Correspondingly, there are naturally various problematic relationships. But at the end of the story, some of them who made different choices got married, and some parted ways; some bathed in hope and light, while others were mired in despair and darkness; some dusted off the dust and moved towards a new chapter with scars of different shapes, while others clung to the faded and broken past, lingering in the corridor of memory forever. There is some regret. Most of the protagonists in the works I have seen in recent years are either mature enough and lucky enough to meet another worthy person, or they have completed growth and reconciliation in the story, unlocking their respective happy endings. The more intuitive feeling is that the author is much gentler to the characters he writes. In a certain essay, I read that Ning Da said that every time he finished writing a story, he would gain corresponding insights and growth, so suddenly he had some different feelings about the name of the new modern group portrait novel "Rarely Rare" (and I was looking forward to the day when it would be updated again).

Will die of pain, this is my destiny

I read this article a few years ago before we broke up. I cried at night and a large area of ​​my pillowcloth was wet. I always assumed that the protagonist was myself. I felt sad and helpless, but no one shared this feeling. Last year, a 10-year lesbian relationship ended, and I have been unable to get out of it. Today, I relived it, and I am still full of tears. I really cried until I felt like I had a lump in my throat.

Just look at the present and never think about the future.

In the face of life and death, grievances are actually not that important.

After reading it, I can only sigh. It is very true, and this situation is not only between same-sex people, but there are also many things like marriage between men and women in China.

It is a very realistic story. Even if two people loved each other very much at first, when they face pressure from all aspects in middle age, will the feeling of love still exist at that time? It will become weaker and weaker, and they may even hate each other. But if they really lose, they will be very reluctant to let go and suffer all kinds of pain. Is this a hypocritical person? In the end, it is still selfish.

It reminds me of the sentence: "The helplessness of losing to those who are not married, and the fatigue of being ruined by those who are finally married."

Live a good life, no matter what path you choose to take, be kind to yourself and others

Parting is an unavoidable result in this life. Sooner or later, only when you cherish the present moment and the person in front of you will you have no regrets in this life.