Author’s clarification and forum links: Reader Zone IDs 371472 and 371913
Below, I address the main points in the blurb. For more detailed responses, see the main text.
I know nobody is interested in other people’s romantic history, but at least give the person involved a chance to clarify. No woman can endure sexual rumors; they cause devastating harm. (ID: 371913)
① I have never been intimate with a man in my life. When I was 18 and just starting college, a 32-year-old male teacher deceived me emotionally for three years (he didn’t get my body), and swindled me out of tens of thousands of yuan.
(Three years later, I found out that he had also been flirting with another female classmate of mine at the time.)
After graduation, an online man swindled me out of all the savings from four years of work. My mental state was extremely poor, and only then did I decide to go home and write novels full-time. Writing helped me recover. I have a severe psychological aversion to men and serious emotional trauma.
The post claimed that I had shared intimate photos with my husband on the forum. This caused me great mental anguish and trauma, and left me unable to go online. I am deeply sorry.
I don’t have a husband. The person in the photos is a paragliding instructor.
I truly don’t understand why attacks on a girl always end up resorting to sexual rumors, or why one woman would use men to hurt another. I really can’t make sense of it. It’s unbearable.
I’ve said the following countless times, but everyone seems to hear it and still not understand. I’ll say it one last time.
② I was accused of being a GK because, when someone asked if I was a "bed-weak bottom," I said no:
I knew what a "bed-weak top" was, but had never heard of a "bed-weak bottom." I thought the GK was questioning the "power couple" tag, so I replied that I wasn’t a "bed-weak bottom."
In reality, the GK term "bed-weak bottom" means a bottom who doesn’t know how to please a top.
That isn’t an explanation an ordinary person could guess, nor is it a way of thinking an ordinary person could understand.
I think when ordinary people see such an absurd term, they would take it literally and understand it to mean a "soft and delicate bottom."
Not everyone knows GK terminology.
I’ve only been in the Reader Zone for a year, and I’d never seen this term during that time.
You can search the Reader Zone yourself. The term really doesn’t come up.
Besides, it’s not a term an ordinary person would come up with.
I say I’ve never seen it, but you don’t believe me. You insist that since I knew what "bed-weak" meant, I must have known what "bed-weak bottom" meant too.
Maybe you can ask any ordinary reader how they understand "bed-weak bottom."
They’ll all think, just like I did, that it means "soft and delicate."
③ "Wild bottom" comes from the Korean comic My Boss's Little Sweetheart.
I saw someone call a character that and picked up the term. I didn’t know it was GK terminology.
An ordinary person seeing this term would only think it meant a "very masculine bottom," counterpart to a "wild top."
I didn’t know it was GK terminology. I’ve never read GK fiction.
Everyone knows this Korean comic was harshly criticized by GKs. If I were a GK, I wouldn’t have read it.
You can’t prove that something isn’t in your own mind.
Only I know that everything I’ve said is true. I won’t make some excessively obsessive and rude oath.
To those who believe me, thank you.
To those who don’t, I hope we can part ways here and each live well.
When I serialized my first novel, The Washed-Up Movie Emperor Goes Viral on a Marriage Reality Show, I was so excited that I replied to thousands of readers.
When recommending my book in the Reader Zone, I also used a ton of memes, wrote in an over-the-top and rambling way, and bumped my posts too frequently, taking up public space and annoying people.
I apologize for being so noisy, ignorant, and inappropriate in my words.
From now on, all my novels will be fully written in advance and posted automatically. I’ll stay offline in my day-to-day life and won’t reply to anyone in the comments again.
I won’t participate in fandom circles. The forum is hidden. On Weibo, I’ll only post artwork and merchandise. My DMs are closed, I won’t browse Weibo, and I won’t reply on any platform, on or off Jinjiang.
That’s all. I bow to you.
Theme: Those who know me understand my worries; those who don’t ask what I seek. Live to please yourself, not to be bound by others. After wrestling with myself for so long, I’d rather be myself.
After reading it, I just feel that the author is unlucky. Now all the hypocrites are reading the article. What kind of extreme control and extreme mysophobia is so serious? I need to get cured immediately. Why are you reading the article? Every time I read the article and see such comments, I feel unappetized.
Ignore them, extreme control is a group of non-human creatures. SK points at all mutual favor articles and scolds gk, and gk points at all mutual favor articles and scolds SK. They are sick and stressed by reading everything (don't ask me how I know this. I was scared by the protagonist and comments after reading SK's special article and I doubted life. I thought I was gk. After going around the topic of gk, I was frightened into being autistic. Finally I realized that I was a member of the xp niche mutual favor party)
Oh my gosh, I don't understand why an author who simply writes articles has to face so many things that require her to explain and apologize. I don't think she needs to do this to such an extent. Isn't this putting her in a position of accusation? The so-called self-evidence trap is like a disease. Who are you, the readers who are questioning it? How much did you spend on this book? Have you watched the plot? Who do you think you are and what position do you have to ask an author to apologize and explain over and over again? [Lie down] You gathered together to form a small circle for some reason, and you may have collectively acquiesced in some rules, but why should these rules be authoritative to ordinary readers and ordinary authors? Is it wrong to not conform to these? It's outrageous. I have never seen the author and normal readers forced into a scene of accusation because of the two groups. To be honest, I have read the novel for so long, and my eyes have really been opened. Isn't this serious about cyberbullying and bullying? When I read it, I suspected that life had 💔[melted]. I have never seen these two groups confront each other, or a certain group quarreled with the author in a book. I have never understood it. They are so quarrelsome. What are they trying to get? Will you be spiritually victorious if you stop reading books? Do you really think that life is like that when you live in such a stupid world? I have never seen this kind of two groups surrounding an author. It feels like the two PUA parties are followed by other people who want to add insult to injury and enjoy the fun of bullying an author [vomiting blood] I feel mentally polluted when I see it [melted] and exhausted.
People's words are terrible 😭 I feel sorry for the author who has done nothing, and has been blamed one after another. He witnesses the diversity of certain xx species every day 🍉 Baozi! Don't fall into the trap of self-certification [Sanhua Cat Head] Protect yourself in the third dimension. You yourself are the most important. Don't let some xx affect yourself 🙏 Good luck?
Touch the baby, I just read the article, and it can be seen that the baby just likes to kiss the CP of his little couple, so he started writing the article, and he belongs to the CP party. Do I have to define an identity for myself now to be able to access the Internet? I don't agree, but I insist on fighting this. I originally thought that I was a cp sister, but then I realized that cp sister has many meanings. Some of them are just knocking against cp, and some require absolute mutual favor to be called cp sister. You see, just the labels we are most familiar with have several definitions, not to mention the KK fields that we are not familiar with? It's normal not to understand, don't fall into the trap of self-certification, don't feel sad because of KK, that would be such a loss. No matter what kind of identity you define yourself as, you will always have the same identity, but if people with different ideas come to judge you, you will always not meet the requirements of others. You can write out your definition of yourself and let others who think like you join in. Anyway, I have changed many of my attributes and become an omnivore who loves XP and is a CP player. This label should no longer be scolded. As a writer, don't get caught up in the reader's thoughts, as that will defeat your original intention. Every reader has different ideas, and you can't satisfy them. You can only let readers who like your words come to you, instead of you meeting various readers' requirements. Write down the words you want to write, write out your text, that's enough. It's okay to interact with readers, but it's okay not to have KK in the comment area. At first I could check it carefully, but then as the number of readers increased, I couldn't check it at all. I could only say that I would delete it if I saw it. There is no need to check every reader in detail, because it can't be found, and even if it is found, there is no problem, what if this is just one of his accounts, there are other accounts. If the identity of an interactive reader determines your identity, then how many identities should you have? If you like to interact, interact. I can only say that you should avoid interacting with people with obvious KK attributes (such as those shown in comments or nicknames). Those with KK attributes and inappropriate comments will be deleted directly. Or ask readers in the comment section to help. I forgot what else to write next. Anyway, that's the last thing I want to say. Baby, write about your favorite young couple and avoid lightning, then you will feel free from guilt. There is nothing wrong with people being able to do what they cannot do. Never fall into the self-certification trap. And don't search yourself on the Internet, because you will always get scolded.
Boss, I'm very satisfied with your new profile. CPJ must be extreme. Don't be polite to these fake people, just kill them [Compare Heart]
Baby, I haven't read your article, I just happened to read your profile, and then clicked on your column to read the so-called lightning protection. To be honest, I was not feeling well. I thought it would be a debate about the plot, but I didn't expect it to be a criticism of daily life and pornographic rumors. I don't know how they learned about it, but it is indeed a bit bad... I hope my wife can get better soon and recover~~ Ignore what the Internet says, I wish my wife a happy day!!
They can be your protagonist. You can be their author. This is luck rather than misfortune. If they appear in someone else's writing, they are not them anymore.
The control party is a group of people who are suffering from a deep well disease. It is especially serious on Jinjiang. If you are too upset, you can close the comment area. I look forward to your next article.
??? Don't do it, I came back and took a look at the column and the sky fell again. No, making pornographic rumors is very tasteless. It is not only tasteless but also of low quality. A bunch of lunatics, just talking about writing, how come it got involved in the author's personal life? Neuropathy