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55 黑 Black and White Official Road One Leaf Hurts AutumnUrban3.0M WordsCompleted 865Reads8.8Score275Shelves

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The road to officialdom//

56 光 Light Meets All Living Beings The Quiet Prince971k WordsOngoing 92Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Book famine savior! I dug up a top-notch IQ online group portrait adventure article! The male protagonist received a "noble" mission at the beginning and formed a team of partners, each with their own unique skills. Everyone in the protagonist group, especially the male protagonist, is so smart that every move is like playing an invisible game of chess. You think they are fighting side by side, but in fact everyone is looking at the world and each other in their own way. The plot progresses layer by layer, and the reversals are all within logic, but the emotional impact is unexpected. After reading it, I was very excited, and all I could think about was, "So that's what he meant when he said that..." If you like to see smart people doing business, playing psychological warfare, and being able to accept being stabbed, watch it with your eyes closed!

57 此 This Heart Is Clear Zhou Jun Who Likes Red BeautyHistorical87k WordsCompleted 1Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Very good, useful, Xinxue Shuangfeng

59 天 Secret Decoding Xuanyuan DomineeringUrban919k WordsCompleted 1Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Higher-level thinking: Seeing the shape of light in the folds of life. Looking back from the high ground of consciousness, life is like a long scroll slowly unfolding. Those folds that once made us sleepless and heartbreaking will eventually stretch out into light-transmitting lines over time - this may be the secret of high-level thinking: it is never a bird's-eye view from the clouds, but after sinking into the fabric of life, we can still identify the light hidden in every fold. The first secret of high-level thinking is the dissolution of "dual opposition". We always weigh repeatedly on the scale of "gain and loss", and anxiously score under the scale of "good and bad": promotion is success, unemployment is failure; getting together is perfection, separation is shortcoming. But the moonlight and the broken candle in "Love is Young" have already told the truth: when the moonlight shines brightly, the broken candle is gathering warmth on the desk; when the broken candle is swaying, the moonlight is gathering warmth on the eaves. They are never opposite lights and shadows, but two sides given by time - just like the fall and the sweet candy. The former teaches us the strength to stand firm, and the latter reminds us of the soft temperature. Together they are complete growth. Higher-order thinking never uses "absolutes" to define situations. It knows that the heavy rain is not a punishment, but a infiltration of the soil before taking root; separation is not the final chapter, but an opportunity for longing to sprout in the heart. Just like the spring mud protecting the begonia, the three-dimensional perspective is "sacrifice", and the high-dimensional perspective is "transformation": the soil never disappears, it just keeps the beauty in a lifting posture; those missed people and lost roads never really leave, they just turn into calcium in our bones and blood, making our subsequent steps more stable. The second secret is the transforming power that turns "experience" into "crystals". The density of life is often hidden in difficulties: the grievance when being misunderstood does not require us to learn to defend, but to see clearly that "understanding is accidental, perseverance is inevitable"; the pain when being let down does not require us to close our hearts, but to understand that "the essence of relationship is to reflect, not to demand." These high-density moments are like an autoclave, in which loose emotions will condense into crystals of cognition - just like two trees entangled in a storm. The branches on the surface may be broken, but the roots underground are being pulled into a network, which is a stronger connection than the wind, flowers, snow and moon. Higher-order thinking never wastes an experience. When it is sweet, do not indulge, because you know that the flowers will eventually fall, so you turn the fragrance into the honey of memories; when it is bitter, do not indulge, because you know that dead branches can sprout, so you boil the astringency into medicine for moving forward. It is like a silent craftsman who forges teardrops into pearls, polishes scars into medals, and makes every experience a mark of recognition - not to prove to anyone, but so that when you look back, you can clearly see the trajectory of your growth. The third secret is the smooth switching between "in" and "out". Higher-order thinkers are never indifferent bystanders, but "awake players" who can sink into the folds of life to feel the warmth and jump out to see the whole picture. Just like watching a movie, they will cry for the joys and sorrows of the characters, but always remember that they are the audience; they will go all out for the current gains and losses, but they will never be trapped in the immediate wins and losses. This switching hides insight into the nature of life: we are not only actors in the script of life, but also authors who write the script, and even more so, audiences who watch the script. The so-called "love is still young" is not to be obsessed with the ups and downs of the plot, but to understand that separation is a temporary manifestation. In essence, every sincerity never really leaves; the so-called "cultivation" is not to deliberately pursue a state, but to play the role seriously in every moment, and always remember that one is a spectator standing on a high ground. In the final analysis, the ultimate secret of higher-order thinking is trust in "existence itself." It knows that life is never a straight line, but a spiral dance: those circles that seem to return to the starting point are actually reunited at a higher place; those dilemmas that were once thought to be unsolvable will eventually become clear one morning. Just like the darker the night, the brighter the stars. When we no longer resist the folds of life, we can instead see the shape of light inside - that is the most authentic appearance reflected after cognition passes through chaos. So there is no need to rush to climb to some "high ground", life has already hidden all the answers in experience. When we learn to see balance in gains and losses, completeness in bitterness and sweetness, and eternity in joys and sorrows, we have already stood on the high ground of cognition - there is no arrogance from overlooking, only transparent tenderness: knowing that everything that happens in life is for us to slowly recognize our true self in the folds.

60 妻 My Wife Pursues True Love, but She Still Wants to Occupy Me Valley of the Kings11k WordsCompleted 8.7kReads9.8Score100Shelves

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64 玄 Fantasy: the Evil Shota Is Actually Master Dongmozun! Fish TableEastern Fantasy718k WordsCompleted 1.5kReads8.2Score200Shelves

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Fantasy contrast.

65 易 Yilu Plum Blossom Plug Opens in the North Yuan YiEastern Fantasy393k WordsCompleted 6Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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This book explains the profound philosophy of life in an easy-to-understand manner in detail, helping you to understand the true meaning of life faster and reaching a state of sudden enlightenment in your life as soon as possible! Through vivid cases and apt metaphors, it not only allows you to understand the complexity and diversity of life, but also points the way to inner peace and wisdom.

66 四 Romance of the Four Beauties The Eunuch MasterHistorical104k WordsCompleted 108Reads8.7Score—Shelves

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📚 Open the classics and meet a better version of yourself!

69 思 Siwo Wen HuanzhangSci-Fi & Apocalypse175k WordsOngoing 14Reads—Score—Shelves

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Philosophical and humanistic science fiction novels

70 我 I Am the Number One Poet in the Tang Dynasty Drunk Third MasterHistorical176k WordsCompleted 6Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Can you understand what Li Bai is thinking?

71 百 Useless LiuliujiangUrban138k WordsCompleted 13Reads—Score—Shelves

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All knowledge and understanding of the world

72 从 From a Rural Dropout to a Writer Pursuing Dreams Set Off Towards the LightUrban111k WordsCompleted 15Reads—Score—Shelves

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Ordinary people's coming-of-age documentary novels

73 千 Thousand Years of War Arithmetic Square RootSci-Fi & Apocalypse187k WordsOngoing 5Reads—Score—Shelves

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Magical realism, you know Mo Yan, you know the Nobel Prize, it has nothing to do with me

74 末 Apocalypse: The Whole Company Denies the Existence of the 18Th Floor On Jiufeng MountainSci-Fi & Apocalypse783k WordsCompleted 2.6kReads8.8Score245Shelves

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This doomsday novel is different! Rebirth, revenge and high IQ game, the foreshadowing is buried deep, and the opening up of the pattern is all about the struggle of human nature. The more you look at it, the more you get confused.

77 到 In Another World, I Use Taoist Arts to Empty My Enemy's Warehouse Ling Ling Qi XuanModern Romance913k WordsCompleted 1kReads5.8Score—Shelves

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The little heavenly master who catches ghosts comes to the city and does whatever he wants

80 我 All Those Years When I Treated People with Diseases of Poverty LiuliujiangUrban110k WordsCompleted 22Reads—Score—Shelves

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Humanity on full display

81 女 If a Girl Doesn't Get Married, Everyone Will Betray Her Relatives and Leave Her. The Thousand-Year-Old Fox Descended to EarthModern Romance110k WordsCompleted 4Reads—Score—Shelves

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In a family like China that attaches great importance to "surname inheritance", who is more important in the eyes of parents, daughter or daughter-in-law? Then it depends on whether the daughter-in-law gave birth to a son? If a daughter-in-law gives birth to a daughter, then in the eyes of the parents, their daughter is more important! If the daughter-in-law gives birth to a son, and the mother is more valuable than the son, the parents will think that the daughter-in-law is more important. The daughter-in-law can walk sideways like a crab, even if she drives the sister-in-law out of the house! ! This novel "The first daughter refuses to marry, and everyone betrays her relatives and leaves her relatives" is about a daughter-in-law who gave birth to a grandson for her two parents-in-law, and the mother drove her sister-in-law away from home because of her son's wealth!

82 伊 Year Seven Yi QiqiModern Romance627k WordsOngoing —Reads—Score—Shelves

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"Yi Seven Years" is also known as "Teacher, your medical student is preparing to commit suicide!" [Dream | Academic Overlord | Hospital Darkness | Campus Bullying | Sexual Harassment in the Workplace | Academic Disputes | Rich Second Generation | Female Independence | Social Psychology | Class Crossing] One year, two years, three years... Seven years, seven years later, Yizhi successfully graduated from Changlian University of Chinese Medicine after failing, dropping out, repeating a grade, suspending her studies and even almost delaying her graduation. Normally, it takes five years to study medicine, but Yizhi spent seven years... The year Yizhi graduated, He Yichen, who was in the same class, was in the second year of postgraduate studies at the First Affiliated Hospital of Changlian University of Traditional Chinese Medicine... Yizhi didn't want to care about people's right and wrong, but she had been immersed in right and wrong; right and wrong were full of slander, slander, intimidation, suppression... It was campus bullying! Yizhi is quick to learn and inquiring, but what she experienced was that she failed classes, dropped out of dormitories, repeated grades, and even dropped out of school... It was a muddy teacher! Yizhi was rigorous and self-disciplined, but what awaited her was constant denial and PUA... It was the distortion and darkness of human nature! Yizhi successfully graduated from Changlian University of Traditional Chinese Medicine, but her innocence and kindness were left to her alma mater, which gave her fear, filth, and jealousy... Even if the dream is blown into chaos by the wind, the owner must have the courage to revive!

84 十 Ten Years: from Daze to Awakening StepsUrban105k WordsOngoing —Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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The author's real experiences in the more than ten years since he entered the society after graduating from college, through the big and small things that happened to him, are intended to find resonance with readers, hoping that readers can find their own direction in the dilemma of confusion and involution in today's society!

85 满 Full Level Daiyu: Rectify the Immortal Powerful Family Snail in ShellFantastical Romance1.8M WordsCompleted 1Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Lin Shu, a modern all-round girl, was proficient in arts and sciences and knowledgeable about the past and present, but she died because of a conspiracy. When she opened her eyes again, she turned into a crying Lin Daiyu. Faced with the destiny of "being lonely and dying young" and the "relatives" from all walks of life who are eager to seize her innate body, Lin Daiyu smiled.

86 陆 Lu Ran's Ordinary Life Path Old Wan Who Loves Honey-Aromatic Pork BellyUrban481k WordsOngoing —Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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Start psychological counseling case

87 对 Sorry, I Have the Qingsheng System Wandering LemonUrban104k WordsOngoing —Reads5.8Score—Shelves

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It fits perfectly, you can try it out.