Face Reality: Change Yourself

Every time I read a book, it is a nourishment for my soul. Why do I say that? I understand the situation of the child deep in my heart. The reasons and living conditions behind each action are not right or wrong, but the current bad environment and social background determine certain factors. When we were young, we had no way to choose the life we wanted. We need to grow up under the care of our parents. Someone can satisfy our physical and mental health. Some people Growing up under the suppression of parents and facing different situations, we cultivate different people. Now that we have grown up, we have the right to take responsibility for our own lives, confess the bad state of the past, love ourselves well, and satisfy ourselves. You deserve to be loved. This requires long-term cultivation of yourself, not immediate results, and slowly regaining a sense of control over life. It does not matter if it is slower. We need to distinguish between good relationships and our own plans, and live the way we like. To open your horizons is to get in touch with different circles. It's less about words and more about value exchange. You don't have to cater to anything. It's more about establishing a useful value system. There are emotions, careers, money, and information. Not everyone is worthy of opening your heart. It requires time to settle and care. It also requires experience to be grounded. Don't give others the sword to hurt you. , Live a good life, don't have to feel inferior, choose the life you want, rationalize yourself, properly handle relationships, goals, separation of subjects, life planning, self-awareness, etc. Every experience is your precious energy, you don't need to care about the outside world, you return to your heart, there are always many sayings, what is inside you is the best.

I have just read more than ten chapters, and it really makes people understand a lot of truths. In fact, they are all reality. Things that happen around us every day are often obvious to those who are watching. It is very useful. I will continue to read it to the end.

20260515 Finished reading A mature adult must establish his own "constitution" and his own inner order in his heart, learn to separate subjects, learn to be compatible, constantly improve his cognition, and adhere to his own principles gently but firmly.

The whole article is so thorough! People are just a speck of dust in the long river of history. There is no need to force everything. Find your love in the details and work hard for it. It doesn't matter if the result is not good. Time will remember the mark you left on this world for you. Respect human nature, respect flowers as flowers, trees as trees, respect not being loved, respect everything that goes against your wishes, and only by reconciling with everything can you live calmly!

The book has its own golden house. The content in the book is close to reality and uses a unique perspective to describe the deep nature of the matter. This is

It's real, I'm talking about myself

The starlight does not care about the passers-by, and time pays off to those who are willing~

This book is so well written and very practical

I will definitely get better and better in the future, I am already doing this

The writing is profound and clear and worth learning.