For Tuoba Zhao, I married into the Xianbei in the northern deserts and helped him rise to the position of Great Chanyu. But he despised me for being frail and unable to bear children, so he brought home his widowed sister-in-law and demanded that I raise her child as my own. When I refused, he threatened to divorce me. I would rather give up my place. As the entire Tuoba clan migrated, I faked my death and returned to my father and brothers. But Tuoba Zhao regretted everything. He clung to my corpse and refused to bury it. When he discovered that I had only pretended to die, he traveled countless miles to the Central Plains, hoping to take me back. I turned him down, and he returned to Xianbei in a daze, only to be hacked to death in the street by rebels.
