
What Gives You the Right to Ignore What I Want?
你凭什么忽视我的意愿
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Explore more →Your No-CP Novel Top Pick on Tomato
Any Novels That Feel Really Realistic?
For example, the male and female leads could have common, everyday jobs like teaching or medicine.
Which Books Have Made You Rethink Your Values?
Everyone’s welcome to join the discussion.
Hand Them Over: Share the Lines That Blew You Away
Include the book title.
Seriously, I Just Want a Romance-Free Story, but Every “No Romance” List Has Couples
I hope you don't push Neptune, a strategy article
Looking for Good Wasteland Novels, Recent Ones Have All Been Boring
The wasteland novels people recommend are all boring. The golden fingers are way too powerful, or else the stories are about being reborn or transmigrating. Not for me. I want something about people scavenging out in the wasteland, not stories where they can't even make the main plot clear.
Novels Every Strong Woman Should Read
Looking for books like My 26 Male Roommates. I want a strong female lead, no misogynistic slurs, someone who loves women, and no CP. Female ensemble casts are fine too, like She Was Tired of This.
Realistic Romance Novels, No CEOs or the Like
Angsty youth novels are fine too, like Fu Shouer's *Youth Is a Hasty Book*.
Looking for Inspirational Novels to Snap Me Out of Not Studying 😭
Looking for Growth-Oriented, Study-Grind Novels That Make You Want to Hit the Books
Please, no golden finger that lets the protagonist get perfect scores without trying. It can be about a poor student turning things around, or a top student from the start. I want a hardworking, determined, inspiring female lead. The male lead can be there or not, I don't mind. Please!
Any Books That Can Help Women? Please Recommend Some
Are there any stories about improving your looks, cultivating your personal style, and getting help with your studies? Something that inspires you to love life, with a gentle, healing feel? Please, I’m begging!
Books That Make Learning Effortless
Things like math, Chinese, and so on are all fine.
Any Books That Make You Want to Study Like Crazy?
Please help the kids who don't want to study 😭
Really Want to Read About an Average-Looking Woman Who’s Everyone’s Favorite, with Forced Love. Male Lead Must Be a Virgin
Looking for Stories Set in a World of Gender Equality, with an Independent, Strong Heroine Who Doesn't Compete with Other Women
I'd prefer better writing. It would be even better if the story had supernatural powers, food, or farming, even just one of those. I'm not really interested in stories where women have to struggle against the rules and build a career in a patriarchal society. I'd rather the world already be gender-equal.
Looking for a Beloved-by-Everyone Story With an Ordinary Female Lead, But She's Not Socially Anxious
Looking for books similar to "Quick Transmigration: She Won't Touch Men, Only Money." Any recent stories with more original premises? Among the ordinary-looking, universally adored female leads, are there any who aren't socially anxious, timid, or weak? Preferably no male lead, with the female lead staying single and everyone else having an unrequited crush on her.
I Need a Motivational Book to Get Me Back Into Studying
Which Book Is This? It's About a Top Student and Explains Study Methods
Give Me More Books for Grown Women! Dad's Were So Good
Looking for books like My 26 Male Housemates.
Any Stories With an Average-Looking, Everyone-Loves-Her Heroine, Loved by Both Men and Women, Not Just Every Man?
Uplifting Novels
Looking for books like The Village's Top Little Doctor.
Please Recommend Novels With Solid Values!
Looking for books like The World of Film and TV: Jiu Xi. I want novels with sound values and a patriotic protagonist. The protagonist doesn't have to be a good person, but their values must be right. For example, especially in the Young Blood world, you can't just judge people by their looks. My bottom line is that the nation and its people come before everything else. The protagonist...
Youth and School Life
Any sweet campus romances?
For Example, the Innocent Cockroach Is Hot, and the Literature About the Mischievous Father and Mother-In-Law Is Sought.
Want to watch something similar to "Innocent Cockroach is Hot!" Book.
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Teacher, you are so awesome. I knew it was a high-quality article after just reading a few chapters. The life of an ordinary girl is the same as that of the heroine, but the heroine is very lucky and met her cousin. It feels so inspiring.
It's very real, like looking in the mirror, but the heroine is much better than me. I haven't been able to read novels for a long time. I thought it was because I have grown old and don't like reading anymore. Now I realize that I can't read the same mindless articles. For the first time, I understand that only those who are close to life can truly win. It's touching. I've seen many sensational clips before that felt too fake and exaggerated. After watching too much, I even suspected that I didn't have the ability to empathize. But this book is really empathic. I will never doubt myself again. I just deserve to watch some small pieces like this! What about the love line? I have some doubts that Mr. Jiang is the male protagonist, but no matter who it is, I hope that when writing the love line, the author can find some different angles and create some unusual beauty like the heroine's thoughts on study and life. I have read a fan before. CP is a character in a drama that I like very much. The author wrote it very well in the early stage. Trust and suspicion, acquaintance and persistence are very delicate and touching. Move me, but after we get together, it's all the same, just like a fairy tale. The beginning and development of the story are colorful, but the ending is only a grand wedding, with every step arranged, and then having children, "a happy life", as if it is not a wedding at all, but a grave that cuts off all possibilities for her. I hope that our heroine's feelings can be different from those worldly happiness. Finally, I hope that all confused and frustrated girls can defeat themselves like the heroine, grow wildly, and shine brightly.
Regarding this book, I can only say that my simple words cannot describe its excellence. The heroine Song Shiwei is like me in the real world, weak and timid, but she realizes this problem and is changing herself Sister Huang Yutong is like a grown-up and mature Song Shiwei. She is open-minded, transparent, careful, and seems to be omnipotent. She guides Song Shiwei to grow up little by little. As for the other characters, whether they are Huang Yan or Lin Jueyu, Xia Zhiqing or Han Wenqi, the differences in their original families have created differences in their conduct and personalities. The excellence of the author's character creation is that if you do not act as a modern-educated young man of the new era, but act as an unconscious object, you can understand everyone. "A channel is like a hidden road behind bushes. If you explore when you don't know anything, you will often hit a wall. But as long as someone leads the way, you can get a glimpse of a new world." "Trees will eventually reach the sky and cover the earth's surface. We should be proud of our vitality in the world, desperately absorb nutrients, protect ourselves when we are young, break out of the ground silently, cut branches and leaves in the fire, join the group for warmth when the wind and sand come, and grow freely when the sun is shining. Our vision will be realized, and our future will be blue sea and blue sky."
I am used to reading many cool novels, heroines, and harem novels. The introduction of this book caught my eyes at once. I am a freshman and have just passed the college entrance examination. Such crazy-like literature that goes from calm to gradually vivid and vivid makes me feel the same. I really think the author writes well and is close to life. Slightly higher than life, the heroine chose a better way of life than me in a similar environment to mine. Seeing her not succumbing to life, not complaining about life, but reflecting on her own hard work, I just wish I had read this novel at that time. Such novels should be read by many people, I think it is meaningful. Big cheers to the author.
This novel will really encourage me a lot. In reality, I am a timid person who dare not let go and do anything. This novel appears very timely. Some of the things in the novel have also been experienced by me in real life. It's very annoying every time I encounter this kind of thing. In addition, I will be a senior in high school next semester, which makes me very stressed. My friend and I are not in the same class, we only have meals together. The rest of the time I am alone. I want to say that it is not that difficult to be alone. Instead of participating in the intrigues in the class, I would rather be alone. It seems like saying too much. Finally, I wish everyone a happy high school time, and I also wish the author's novels will be seen and loved by more people! [Sending Hearts]
The writing is particularly good. After staying up late and seeing it now, I often regret that there were not one or two people who guided me in my youth, and I spent my entire youth in a muddle. There is no bullying. It is normal youth. There is also the perception. I am already a mother, so I think I will take better care of my child and be his strongest backing. I can't speak well either, and I feel like I haven't performed well every time I quarrel. So, I'm going to have a debate tomorrow. I also want to become a sharper person. Come on, author [shy]
It's so real, so real that I dare not read it. It is simply a microcosm of my school for more than ten years. It's too sweaty to slow down after reading a few chapters. It's just a pity that I haven't met a lighthouse like Huang Yutong, nor a noble person like Wan Li. I have walked on the road that I thought was free and became narrower and narrower. There were really a lot of paranoid and crazy things when I was a student. It wasn't until much later that I discovered by chance that I had been harmed maliciously. It's really too heavy. What's heavy is not the words but the past youth between the lines. It's so real that people dare not touch it. I'm afraid that after reading it, I will realize that I was really stupid and cowardly at the beginning, so I just got over it by fooling around.
A good story is one that's worth telling and that the world wants to hear. The author's writing is very powerful, allowing people to resonate and reflect as the characters grow, igniting the upward flame in the readers' hearts. The growth of ordinary people is mostly slow, and the awakening of women is even more so. Living under the discipline of society, it may take us more than 20 or 30 years or more to wake up from the "dullness" in the dull pain and setbacks, and then find that the struggle for the right to speak is inevitably sharp confrontation. Power and strength are the things that make others willing to listen to your appeal. I once saw a statement that when most ordinary parents educate their children, especially girls, they are more cultivating a commodity, and the purpose of training is also to provide them with better employment in the future, that is, the mindset of being selected. "It's better for girls to take it easy. It's best to be a teacher or a nurse." Implicit in this is "you have to marry after all", which is a subordination pushed into family relationships. A lot of expectations are placed on men, hoping that they will gain more social resources. Parents who are cognizant or have more wealth will educate their children, regardless of gender, and encourage their children to go to finance or other places where they have better control of resources in terms of employment, to guide them to become strong and have more room to make their own choices. Song Shiwei is thousands of ordinary people like you and me. She made me look at the sinking and decadence of sobriety in my student days. The easiest path will inevitably not lead to the greatest space to say "no" and be yourself. Just like what the author wrote, I hope everyone can live independently and openly, and be a compassionate lion instead of a kind lamb. I hope everyone can live a self-consistent life as soon as possible. If you happen to pass by this book, I hope you don't miss it.
It's a very interesting book. Maybe my empathy ability is a bit strong. I cried 4 times after reading Chapter 100 [I almost cried] Their epiphany shocked me. The author opened up the behaviors I was accustomed to and the behaviors that seemed vaguely weird before my eyes. Like Weiwei and the others, I suddenly realized that this is what happened. And as a group portrait of daily growth, the characters are all portrayed very delicately, whether it is Song Shiwei, who has slowly transformed from an introvert and dull person, to Xia Zhiqing, who wants to escape from her native family but is carefree and sincere in protecting others' shortcomings. Lin Jueyu who helps the sisters, Han Wenqi who has a lively and cheerful personality but talks a lot but is isolated, Huang Yutong who is considerate and thorough as a young adult, Yan Cancan who is good at showing off and likes to hide soft knives, Tang Xin who knows she is just a follower but is afraid of being lonely and dare not bring it up, everyone has their own characteristics. Everyone's different experiences make them different. The four sisters' different views on the news allowed me to see them vividly. They are no longer flat characters in novels, but real people with flesh and blood and thoughts. At the same time, there is a scene that impressed me deeply. When Fu Junli was domestically abused and wanted to divorce but was blocked by her family, no one cared about her feelings. Weiwei, who should have hated her, saw her shocking wound and the first thing she said was "Why did he hit you like that?" Fu Junli is hateful, but she is not another victim struggling in suffering. The world is not black and white, she is a perpetrator but also a victim of the times. Finally, I wish that everyone can move towards a better future, and that this book will be a big hit and that the author will make a lot of money [flying kiss]
The writing is very good and the intention is better. The title of the book is very attractive to me… We should realize that everyone is his own subject… The author's writing style is also very smooth, silky and comfortable to read. It's a pity that most Tomato readers don't like to read this kind of thought-provoking article. The traffic is not high (crying). Readers are always anxious to define certain plots in the book. Emmm, I can only say that the market is sinking. Occasionally, there are some minor gaps in the character of the heroine. It can be seen that when there are gaps, the author fills in his own strong thoughts [I understand] I have found a treasure, I hope the author will continue to work hard! It's just that some comments left me speechless and too sensitive... The author only mentioned the "difference in strength between men and women" twice. The comment section can be noisy for more than 20 floors, but the author is still too good-tempered... Objectively speaking, men and women have different physiological structures, and there are differences in many aspects, big and small. I don't understand why some people in the comment section are so jumpy and insist on blaming the author. Being too sensitive is actually a potential manifestation of low self-esteem and excessive concern. This is what I want to say [Thinking] I saw two o'clock in the morning in one breath, that's it~