I don't expect you to remain a virgin for your whole life. I'm no devil.
But what was that about refusing to marry anyone but me, in front of a crowd? Where did your upbringing go? You've only just come of age, haven't you?
At this rate, you'll hold hands at twenty, kiss at twenty-one, and try to seduce your master at twenty-two, becoming a rebellious disciple who makes a move on his master.
As your master, I may have to set you straight. I really might.
Excerpt from Chancellor Zhuge An of Ji Han's discourse on Emperor Liu Shan's marriage prospects
