This is a healing novel, because the author is too fragile to withstand any emotional devastation.
This is an overpowered-protagonist novel. By the setting, the protagonist, Lan Xiaobai, has reached the peak of power, though it will come at a certain cost.
This is a slice-of-life novel. Fighting and killing is no fun.
This is a gender-bender novel... There's not much to say about that. Gender doesn't matter in this story, and Lan Xiaobai never gives it a thought from beginning to end.
As for the pairing, I haven't decided yet. It will either be a single pairing or a yuri pairing. I can't write a female protagonist marrying a man. There's no particular reason; I just can't write it. If I think about it more deeply, it may be due to both psychological and writing-related reasons. In short... this story won't have a female protagonist marrying a man.