Ladies, the married life you imagine after a whirlwind wedding is very different from the reality. Whirlwind weddings come with risks, so think carefully before getting married. The heroine, Fang Yu, is a girl who married in haste. She thought marriage was a matter between two people. She knew that two people and two families could have different values, that living together for a long time could lead to conflict, and that couples might argue after getting married. She knew all that, but she overestimated her ability to endure, her place in her partner's heart, and his character. She thought that as long as they both tried, they could have anything. The reality was completely beyond her expectations, and she was miserable. She held on for a long time, saw everything clearly, and chose to let go.
So please, ladies, keep a clear head! Before marriage, you'll face plenty of issues, such as disagreements over the bride price and differences in values between the two families. These things aren't as easy to resolve as you might think. And it's not as though you'll always be able to empathize with each other. You've heard other people's stories before and thought you could handle the same problems yourself. But when it happens to you, you realize just how hard it is. If you haven't spent a long time together getting to know each other and how the other person's family gets along, marrying into that family will be difficult. Be even more careful about marrying far from home. You can't tell if someone has violent tendencies just by looking at them. Enough said. Let's hear about the heroine's own experience instead. I hope every girl finds someone sincere, kind, and worthy of her.
