Every Great Love Is a Lie

How should I put it? In many novels, this story may be a bit cliché, but these are exactly what many of us ordinary people will experience. In terms of relationships, the heroine and I have similar experiences. My first love is a bit like Lu Huainian. To me, he is a light in my life. But I am a little luckier than the heroine, because we have not experienced life and death, or been forgotten by the one we love deeply. Because we only fell in love online, we never met in person, had no voice or video calls, and never contacted by phone. We only communicated through text. He means to me what Lu Huainian means to the heroine, beautiful but regretful. I have had three relationships, except for my first love, the other two were deceived and betrayed. The third relationship was only together for a year, and half of the time was spent away from home. There is nothing to mention. It was just that we were not together because of the epidemic, and then the other party cheated and got together with a colleague in the company. In this regard, the heroine is luckier than me, at least she did not experience a second betrayal. I feel that the male protagonist makes me feel too much like the second ex I dated when I first started working in society. We have been together for more than three years. During this time, I have been disconnected and entangled with my first love and ex-girlfriend. When faced with a choice, I will always be the one left behind. I protect her overtly and covertly, and even warn me not to provoke her. There are too many to remember, and I don't want to go into details. Maybe I feel the same way, I couldn't help but put myself into the perspective of the heroine. The more I watched, the angrier I became, and the hatred that had been dormant in my heart for a long time gradually revived. I became more and more disgusted with the male protagonist. When I saw him waiting downstairs for the female protagonist, I was so angry that my heart exploded. I don't know if all men are like this. When you love him, he can't see you. After you give up, he clings to you eagerly. At that time, I made up my mind to end it. After breaking up with my ex, almost two months later, he came to wait for me downstairs in the house where I lived, wanting to get back together with me. Oh, if I had known this, why would he bother me at the beginning? When I loved him and held him, he didn't take me seriously. I gave up and came to provoke me again. No one will wait for someone else forever. The period after the breakup was the easiest time I had in those years. As the saying goes, without love, I feel light. Although the story of this book is a foregone conclusion, I personally still feel that the male protagonist is the biggest flaw of the entire book. The story should have come to an end at Chapter 149 without interfering with each other. The heroine is very smart and free-spirited, and I was also very free and easy when I ended my relationship of more than three years. Maybe my sense of agency is too strong. I hate the male protagonist, and I also hate those characters who pop up to speak for the male protagonist when the female protagonist is free and unrestrained by herself. In fact, there is no real empathy in this world. If the needle can't prick someone else's body, they won't know how painful it is for you. I hate those bystanders who say things that appear anxious and concerned but are actually innocuous. Only they know how much pain and hurt they have endured, and others cannot understand it at all. However, when I saw that the male protagonist suffered from mental illness like me, I couldn't help but feel soft. Standing in the position of a reader, I still chose to forgive him. Maybe I was too involved in the drama, and seeing that the male protagonist was suffering from the same mental illness as me, I thought this was probably the greatest torture and revenge for him. At the same time, I also found a bit of comfort. At least, the male protagonist had a heart, so he suffered from heart disease, unlike my predecessor, who took it for granted and had peace of mind. In this world, many same or different stories happen every day. The people telling and listening may not necessarily understand the meaning. Only the people involved in the story will understand. Before I experienced love, when I read those literature about youth pain and overbearing presidents, I would feel sad and regretful, or have tears in my eyes, but I still couldn't really empathize with them. I just blindly hoped that the protagonists of the story could be together, thinking that such an ending would be a happy ending. Later, when I was deeply involved in it and became the protagonist in the story, although I felt the same way, I still stubbornly hoped that I could be with the other person. But when I came out of the story and let it go, I realized the true meaning of the story. It doesn't actually matter whether the protagonists are together or not. What matters is the process of the story. It is impossible to make everything perfect in life, there will always be regrets. Those injuries and pains are lessons and experiences that encourage us to grow. Without love, where would the hate come from? If you hate someone, it means that you are still obsessed with that person and have expectations. Some stories don't have to be finished to be considered complete. Sometimes, no ending is the best ending. Many people say that Scorpios are paranoid, vindictive, and vengeful. Yes, as a Scorpio, I did hate those who had betrayed and hurt me with a passion, and I did have the extreme idea of ​​desperately wanting everyone to die together, but I did not act on it. Perhaps in the final analysis, I am still too soft-hearted, and I will destroy myself if I can't get it. After all, the other person was once someone I truly loved, and I couldn't do anything so ruthless as to destroy everything in the past. Being soft-hearted is a disease, but letting go is the right choice for yourself. Perhaps before the story ends, my unwillingness stems from the fact that my efforts have not received the rewards I deserve. I am not a saint, and I cannot give without asking for anything in return. After letting it go, looking back at the past, the feelings, youth, time, and materials I gave, the hurt, betrayal, sadness, and anger I received, all have disappeared. It is precisely because I have experienced and felt that when I read these stories now, I hate the characters in the stories. I don't want them to repeat themselves, and I don't want them to have a happy ending. In fact, I just want to go back to the past and prevent all harm from happening. I just want to give myself a hug while hiding in the corner, silently licking my wounds. I just sympathize with my former self who fought hard to love, but in the end ended up bruised and bruised.

I didn't understand before why I still choose to forgive after being hurt so much. Only when you have experienced love will you know that no matter how deeply you are hurt, as long as the other person bows his head, you will eventually compromise.

The story is okay, the writing is okay, but really, in life, you open your mouth to speak. You have to say everything and communicate well.

I personally think this book is okay. I like the heroine's personality. She is very straightforward emotionally, not coquettish or pretentious, or pushing or pulling. But the logic of the story is a bit unclear. For example, why did the male protagonist and his ex-girlfriend break up? Since I liked him so much at the time, I felt guilty for him. Another example is why the male protagonist planned to destroy the Ling family of his ex-girlfriend 4 years ago? Their family has been friends with the Ling family for generations, and the Ling family is still kind to his family. His respected uncle also hopes that his ex-girlfriend will be his niece-in-law. A lot of these narrative logic things are far-fetched. But overall, I like the story and the characters. I would like to remind other friends who want to read it. Non-Shuangjie has a past. If you are very concerned about it, please don't read it.

I was very touched and had a lot of feelings. Wen Ying dared to love and hate. She was principled and had an independent personality, which impressed me. I also admired her rationality. The male protagonist didn't understand love at first, and thought that dignity was often more important than love, but in the end he realized it, and the ending was a happy one! ! Brothers, this is awesome! ! !

The heroine has such a strong obsession with Pinyuan... But I don't understand how two people who don't love each other fall in love with each other inexplicably. It's a bit sudden... But the author's writing is very good and the plot is quite compact and exciting. It's beautiful to watch. The heroine also has a very good character. I will not offend others unless they offend me. If someone offends me, I will offend them. She has a clear distinction between love and hate. Anyway, I can't stand the kind of stupid heroine who is bullied all the time. Overall: nice looking 👌

The plot is a bit slow, and many plot arrangements are very illogical. Also, please, the authors of Qimao, please stop writing in the first person. You really don't have the slightest grasp of the skills of first-person writing!

The plot of the heroine risking her life for the male partner should have 100 chapters, but it took 150 chapters because the hero bought and sold his ex-girlfriend. Taking the idea of ​​a strong woman and following the path of the White Lotus, as expected, in the end the male protagonist is still devoted to the seductive female protagonist.

This is the first time I see such a clear-minded, fierce and capable heroine. I like

The plot is very good. It is written in the first person. It is a bit unique. I like it very much.