Building a Flourishing Household

I only read Chapter 5, where I saw the heroine confidently explaining herself to the clan leader, but when everyone was getting angry, she bluntly told him to step down because of her own fault? And in this society where men are superior to women and where generations are clearly defined, the reaction of the patriarch who is in the heat of trouble is to be kind to the heroine? Even on campus, when the two sides were about to quarrel with each other, someone told me that my side was at fault and asked me to step back. I didn't say harsh words to him, as it would be a shame for him. The heroine should find a way to trick him into quietly telling him the reason for the matter instead of saying that she was at fault as soon as she opened her mouth.