Crossing Without Wind

Lin Wan, a newcomer to the workplace, is trapped in the most common mental quagmire among adults. Habitually please everyone, habitually hold yourself accountable inwardly, habitually consume yourself in the evaluation of others. The invisible discipline of PUA in the workplace, the anxiety of being crushed by her peers, the deep inferiority caused by her appearance, the huge gap between ideals and reality, and the loneliness of no empathy, all piled up, dragging her into endless mental internal friction. There are no vicious villains around, no villains deliberately making things difficult. The team leader's suppression is a weighing of interests in the workplace, the competition among peers is the survival anxiety of ordinary people, and the indifference of colleagues is the wise self-preservation of adults. Everyone has selfishness, helplessness, and involuntary actions. They are real, three-dimensional, and secular. In the past, Lin Wan was passively involved, catering to others, pulling on herself, exhausting her enthusiasm and losing herself. Until she finally realized: it was never the world that trapped her, but her obsession that refused to let go. She learned to break the shackles of a people-pleasing personality, reject meaningless consumption, strip away the kidnapping of external evaluations, reconcile with mediocrity, coexist with loneliness, and make peace with reality. Get rid of timidity and sensitivity, say goodbye to internal friction and blind obedience. There is no need to chase after others, no need to compare, no need to force yourself to be understood. One day, she breaks away from the siege of the world, accepts her imperfect self, and lives a self-consistent, calm, and determined life. Life is full of hardships, and you can only overcome them by yourself. If there is no one to cross the wind, I will cross myself without the wind.