Desire and Love: to You Who Have Been Injured

You obviously want to love well, but you always push the other person further away? You know you shouldn't lose your temper, but you just can't control yourself? This is a book that grows out of life. Like you, I have been confused, hurt in relationships, and out of control in the face of desire. Finally, I discovered that all these dilemmas have a common underlying logic behind them—— We are kidnapped by our "first desire". This book does not talk about big principles, but only shares a real growth path: From the primitive instinct of "making me comfortable is loving me", To understand that everyone loves differently, Then to truly connect with others and the world. Written for everyone who no longer wants to be driven by instinct and wants to live a clear life.