I Went to the Wrong Table on a Blind Date, and the Real Goddess Asked Me to Take It

In today's world of materialistic desires, too many people can't help but have their views on love subtly influenced by the objects and people around them, and reshaped by the torrent of capital and individualism. I don't know when "mutual support" was replaced by "equivalent exchange". Everyone's initial pursuit and yearning for love has changed to some extent. Reading this book actually reflects the sadness of love in the modern era. Mu Xin said, "In the past, the carriages and horses were very slow, and there was only enough time to love one person in a lifetime." I think this is probably love in the traditional sense. Love should be limited to and loyal to this person, rather than an attempt made with replaceable concepts from the beginning. As the times go by, love has become more and more self-centered. Love means "being loved" rather than "loving": everyone often longs to be loved, cared for, and understood, but lacks the ability and patience to actively love, tolerate, and give. When the other person cannot meet their emotional needs, it is easily defined as "no longer in love." This view of love is inherently selfish and self-centered. Professor Chen Guo from Fudan University said, "What love is, it turns me into us." I think this is the best explanation of the meaning of love. A partner is not a tool for us to satisfy ourselves, but a lifelong lover who holds our hands and grows old with us. The ideal love I imagine may be to find a balance between "I" and "us". It is not only the ultimate bloom of individual emotions, but also a solemn epic about commitment, growth and meaning written by two souls in the long river of time. It should not be a fast food of consumerism, nor should it be a complete return to the burden of tradition, but a modern intimacy that is sober, responsible, and full of creativity. The word love is inherently sacred and represents all the beauty and the responsibilities that come with it. Ask what love is in the world, and teach you the promise of life and death. ——Yuan Haowen's "Moyu'er·Yanqiu Ci" I wish you all can find your true love and the true meaning of love. Two monthly tickets presented

Coffee ☕ + catering. "Returning to Shanghai and Shiguang"

Share it in the group and come here because of it. After a quick glance, I venture to suggest. In Chapters 1 and 3, don't create any bromance. Get rid of it and continue with Chapter 4. Second, I personally don't recommend smoking or drinking. Third, when you go to the coffee shop again, you should not let the waiter girl appear first, and delete the reception area.

The writing is good, and I can give ten points to the chapter before the relationship is established. It always reminds me of that girl, so I voted for three monthly votes without even thinking about it before I saw the online part. The first few dates after the relationship was confirmed were a bit awkward, sometimes even to the point of being awkward. The shortcoming is that it is not natural enough. The author looks like Xiao Chunan who has never been in love. In reality, people don't have so many direct and explicit language expressions when they are in love. Chinese people are still relatively reserved in most cases. It is better to be more reserved and tacitly understanding like posting on Moments without accompanying text. In addition, I personally feel that there is no need to repeatedly highlight the three views of the heroine. The couple quarreling in the snail noodle shop and then commenting on it is a bit deliberate. I see a lot of batches on the Internet because it is the Internet. In reality, most people are normal and will hide themselves even if there are batches. It would feel better to advance the plot more and have more daily activities. Let's talk about it as a family.

They say it's fantasy, am I the only one who feels sad? It's a normal love, but does the author's subconscious also require the male protagonist to have a system to be worthy of it? It seems that the author should also know that if there is no system in reality, he will probably be defeated by life.

I was defrauded of the betrothal gift and had to pay a temporary increase. It was just my last fantasy before I jumped into the river.

The crowd came here to see the new era fantasy masterpiece

After the novelty wears off, the female protagonist says that the male protagonist is nothing but the system. After the divorce, the system belongs to her and the male protagonist can clean up and leave the house. The male protagonist cannot stop the female protagonist from running for a better life.

1. There is a system, and I can accept this 2. The male protagonist smokes, but I don't accept this. How can the female protagonist continue to kiss her when her mouth smells like cigarettes? Do you really think tobacco smells better than a cesspit?

I would like to advise everyone in the book circle here not to go on a blind date under any circumstances. A blind date means you pick up other people's leftovers. Do you think it's possible to make money out of shit?

If you plan to continue writing sweet stories in the next book, you should write less pretense and slap-in-the-face plots. This book is a typical high-end and low-end, and problems started from the first update. The characters of the heroine and the heroine's best friend are very lovable. However, the combination of a chain-smoking male protagonist + brotherly love + the inexplicable taunts of the male supporting actor cannot be saved by the lovable female protagonist.

Your novel has the potential to become the latest sci-fi masterpiece from Qidian. You voted in the wrong channel. It should have been voted in the science fiction section.

Are all blind dates really like this? I've never been on a blind date, but I'm very scared. I feel very scared of women now. After all, the Douyin posts on Station B are always leaking news about the benefits of not getting married, ugh

I just said that you shouldn't be greedy for cheap, eat the national trend and fight for the good food, and you will be hallucinating after eating it😭

I chose the wrong category. This novel should be classified as science fiction.

😁😁😁 Just reading the introduction makes me laugh. Sure enough, the book review area is the essence of a book.

After all, the author had the courage to write this setting. Can a goddess go on a blind date?

Bro There was a dog who saw a lump of black and brown on the roadside and was ecstatic and thought it was chocolate. However, he took a big bite and found that it was chocolate. He fell on the roadside and twitched, but he couldn't help but shed tears of happiness. He had a complicated mood.

Really sci-fi. I have only met such a girl on a scam dating app. In that app, girls can get paid for chatting with boys by registering their real names. It is full of money transactions. I was young at the time, and I didn't know that I was tricked. I chatted with a younger sister in the chat room to gain emotional value, competed with the best in online dating, and paid money to get married online with special effects 🙂. Later, I was reminded by a well-meaning big brother that the end result was that my online dating partner and I lost our accounts and ran away. I was really confused at that time. The girl's voice chat was full of all kinds of emotional value, and the picture chat could last until midnight. The games were not that fun. I just came out of society and had a slight social fear. I had never seen such a fairy girl. I didn't even know what she looked like, so I thought it was true love. But looking back now, I don't really regret the money spent. The key is that I really like that girl and she's so good at it. You can't find this feeling now, and you can't get that effect even if you spend money to find someone to play with you.

Do you believe that girls will fall in love with such a boy, or do you believe that I am Qin Shi Huang?

Really, if you invest in the science fiction area, you will definitely surpass Liu Cixin

I used to know a worker from a rural area near Nanchang and his two sons. I asked them if the starting price of the bride price is 300,000 yuan? He answered: 500,000. . But his eldest son lived up to his expectations and got into the best university in Jiangxi. I took the master's degree exam again. My girlfriend is from a wealthy family in Nanchang. She has a fortune of tens of millions. She doesn't have to pay a bride price at all and can also subsidize the family income.

It's so beautiful and the ending is so beautiful.

The first one hundred chapters are actually the most successful part of this book. Sweetness does not rely on forcing the plot, but is slowly revealed through details: daily interactions, subconscious preferences, and the heroine's almost 100% trust in the hero. This kind of trust is not a line of dialogue, but is built up through repeated choices, so readers will naturally assume that the relationship is "stable". But here's the problem – there were obvious gaps in the character's character in the later period. As soon as her classmates appeared, the heroine began to be suspicious and hesitant. This change may be explained by the setting, such as external pressure and information asymmetry, but it is fragmented in terms of reading experience. Because the first hundred chapters portray a person who gradually opens up his heart and firmly trusts the male protagonist, but the later chapters seem to be "reset" into a person who is easily influenced and insecure. This is not growth, but regression. Readers will feel that all the foreshadowing emotions are weakened and even a bit "sweet". The real poisonous point is the kidnapping plot. The first is a logical problem. The phone and bag fell to the ground. Where does the positioning come from? Then why not use it before? . In fact, you can use more natural methods, such as burying shared positioning and device tracking in advance, or even simply using real-world technology, which is more reasonable than adding abrupt settings. The second is the inconsistency between the villain's motives and behavior. Now that it has developed to such extreme behavior as kidnapping, the villain's purpose cannot be just to "scare." But the plot didn't dare to really let things happen, so it became a very embarrassing state: the danger was written out, but the consequences were avoided. This will cause readers to feel intense discomfort, because once they enter this scene, everyone will naturally think the worst, but the author does not bear the logical consequences of this setting. The core issue is actually how to use the system. In the early stage, there is almost no reliance on the system, and it relies on character relationships to advance. This is originally an advantage. But at the critical moment, the system suddenly comes to the rescue, which will make people feel that this is a "plug-in that only exists when needed." The setting of the system is essentially part of the rules of the world. It must be used from the beginning or not used at all. The current method of "not using it at ordinary times but only using it at critical moments" will directly destroy the sense of immersion. If we change it, the direction is actually very clear. Or follow the reality flow: bury the details of safety and trust in the early stage, and rely on the male protagonist's judgment, action and preparation to save people at critical moments. This way the logic is closed and it is more realistic. Either follow the system flow: completely integrate the system into the plot, such as turning it into a guardian or dog food mechanism, providing early warning, providing positioning, and assisting decision-making, so that the male protagonist can be prepared before the crisis comes, instead of temporarily cheating. As for the emotional line, if there is enough intimacy and interaction in the front, then the heroine should not be easily shaken later. A truly mature relationship is not that there are no misunderstandings, but that when misunderstandings arise, the first reaction is still "I believe you." If this point can be maintained, the tone of the entire book will not collapse. Generally speaking, the problem with this book is not that I am not good at writing, but that I did not handle the balance between "creating conflict" and "maintaining character consistency" well in the later period. The result is that there is a knife mixed in the sugar, but the knife is not sharp enough, which makes people feel awkward. As long as logic, system and characters are unified, it can actually transform from an ordinary sweet novel into a work with a more stable structure and stronger substitution.

Why are there so many xxns boxing in a male video?

I listened to a few chapters of the book and couldn't stand it anymore. I felt a little too self-indulgent. I also didn't dare to be so obscene about the plot 🤫

I glanced at the title and saw it was written by a female author.

Sorry, I don't know what to say? The description of emotions is too sparse. I suggest you read more about how other people write about emotions.

I was deceived by the introduction and thought it was a treasure, but it was actually a piece of shit. I regret not reading the comment section earlier. The writing is boring as hell. I am totally enjoying myself and getting coffee out of nowhere. All I can say is run quickly

The front and rear styles are separated to an unbearable degree