Family of Origin Has Profound Influence

The author is an ordinary person who was born and raised in the countryside. His family was poor since he was a child. During his studies, he could not eat at noon every day, suffered from hunger, braved the rain in summer, and suffered from severe stomach problems in middle and high school; The author's mother suffers from severe tracheitis and is deeply tortured by the illness. The author has been worried about her condition and is unable to do anything about it. She is depressed and unhappy all day long; My parents have very different personalities and often have cold wars. The mother shouldered the burden of the family, and the father basically didn't care about anything. Being affected by it for a long time, the author is always depressed when studying. The author suffers from chest tightness whenever he reads a book. This problem repeatedly attacks the author. When the attack occurs, the author is in agony, and even feels like he is suffocating and on the verge of death. Over time, the author developed a character of low self-esteem, lack of confidence, and hesitation when faced with problems. The shortcomings of the original family are exposed from time to time, and the author struggles to break away from the fetters of the original family. Especially when the author got married and had children of his own, the author realized that he had to try to make changes and get rid of the shortcomings of his original family. At the same time, due to the profound influence of his mother, the author's strong, upright and kind character makes the author somewhat "out of tune" with reality. The author's purpose in writing the novel is to use his own story to warn parents to use the author's growth experience as a wake-up call and warning, to handle family and husband-wife relationships well, to provide a pleasant and harmonious family environment for their children, and not to regret it until it is too late when problems arise.