Love in Student Days

Graduation and breakup season? If you really love each other, will you choose to go back to his hometown with him after graduation, or will he go back to your hometown with you? There used to be a saying on the Internet that if a man is willing to give up his city, his family, his friends, and his connections to come to the woman's city for a woman, then the relationship will often end well. On the contrary, if a woman gives up her family, the city where she grew up, and her best friend to marry far away for a man, then the relationship will often end badly. Everyone advises women not to marry far away, but why does no one ever advise men not to marry far away from home?