Youth Is Passing Away

Life also conforms to the law of negation of negation. From stability to running, and then from running to a relatively stable life, various internal and external factors interact with each other in a person's life, rushing forward over and over again. Youth is an important node of negation. Effort is the internal cause, and choice is the external cause. Youth is passing away, but the spirit of youth should not disappear.

I rarely follow articles, but this time I was greatly attracted by the author. The opening chapter has smooth writing and simple text, quite in the style of "The Ordinary World". The story of the hero and heroine starts from the beginning of the house price. Thinking about the market in the past twenty years and the profound impact it has had on each of us and each family, it seems that this will not be just a love story... On campus, youth is like a song, flowing freely, running wildly in the happy places, moving forward silently in the low points, and gradually getting better with the pace of growth. It is obvious that Xiao is more scheming and Xiao becomes more involved in this relationship. The differences in their personalities, family atmosphere and communication methods, and relationship with their mother also pave the way for the upcoming conflict. Xiaoxiao and Xiao were sensible and spent their high school years secretly and restrainedly. The first big conflict occurs when Xiao chooses his choice for the college entrance examination. The confrontation between the two families and the confrontation between the two mothers are vividly described. At this point, their college life has just begun. In the article, we can vaguely see the foreshadowing laid by the author. Is it the next burden? Or is it about to introduce the main topic? Looking forward to it... Youth is no longer accessible to me, I can only cherish and envy... Unrestrained and carefree, only exist in ideals. Do the names of the two protagonists in the article hint at anything? Where will their love and destiny go? The author uses the plot of the supporting characters Ren Xiaoxia and Guo Longfei to begin to show the bloody cruel reality and human nature. Ren Xiaoxia's realistic money worship and Guo Longfei's infatuated dedication make the reader feel indignant and helpless, and can't help but feel depressed. Is their love ultimately a so-called moral kidnapping or a sincere exchange for true love? How will the proud people who have just entered the ivory tower face the contradiction between real life, love and personal pursuit after entering a materialistic society? Xiao Xiao and Xiao Xiao are destined to not have smooth sailing, which will be discussed later.

Seeing Guo Xiao reminded me of my experience in junior high school. In junior high school, I had low self-esteem due to various reasons such as my body. This made me often criticized by my classmates, which made me very painful. I was depressed and sentimental every day, and I had the thought of seeking death countless times in my mind. . In my second year of junior high school, my class was changed and I was placed at the same table as a female classmate from the same hometown. Her character and person made me find inner peace, and her appearance was also the class star of the class. I had a secret crush on her at that time, but many people were chasing her, so I kept this secret love in my heart. This secret crush was not lifted until about a year ago. But I found that my previous crush on her, until now, has turned into a kind of motivation. For example, I have been out in society since I graduated from high school. During this period, I worked in factories, worked as a waiter in hotels and restaurants, and also worked as a Taobao bagger. But after get off work, I studied another thing on my own. After graduating in 2014, I started studying foreign exchange. Of course, the process was sad, painful, and torturing. I thought about giving up, and was constantly denied by people around me, so I studied secretly and did not dare to tell outsiders. This also cultivated a low-key and unassuming spirit in me! This motivation and the spirit of not giving up have always been with me. Now, the foreign exchange business is relatively smooth. For example, I can understand the market and know when the trend will occur and when it will end. I have my own system, which is still being continuously optimized. Of course, I have also realized a lot of truths that are difficult to understand in real life. I feel very calm most of the time. Of course, I sometimes fall into it. It can also be said that there are still some things that I have not fully understood. So for students, love is sometimes not a bad thing. For example, for me, it may not have much impact on my studies, but the impact on my life is immeasurable. However, this is exactly what the teacher cannot see. Everything is based on grades and only looks at grades. How your future life will be is none of my business. I only care about the school's mission: grades. In the previous period of national development, this model was very suitable for increasing the illiteracy rate and improving the IQ of the people. Just like the women's volleyball team, in the 1980s, China was still very weak in the world. The fact that the women's volleyball team can win the championship in the world is not only due to the hard work and enterprising spirit of the Chinese people and the spirit of self-improvement, but also from a larger perspective, it is about the face and status of the Chinese people in the world. But now, China's national strength is so strong that it does not need the victory of the women's volleyball team to enhance its national strength. The current women's volleyball team has returned to its essence, the spirit of constant self-improvement, hard work and enterprising, and the spirit of not admitting defeat until the end of the game. And Lang Ping was the driving force in this process. When Lang Ping was the coach of the Chinese women's volleyball team, she wanted to implement reforms. The State Sports General Administration strongly opposed her reforms. Her thoughts were still stuck in the old days when the country was weak, relying on human physical strength and endurance, not daring to stop for a moment, and working hard to win the gold medal in the Olympic Games in the 1980s. This theory is obviously behind the times, so it must be reformed.

Guo's mother handled the problem very appropriately during this process. Guo's mother saw that Guo Xiao was worried before, and she could generally understand the general situation of his worries. But if Guo Xiao didn't say anything, it would be inconvenient for him to say it. Because sometimes parents' persuasion, if this kind of thing is done too much, can easily turn into manipulating children, and children can easily form an antagonistic relationship with their parents. And the children have grown up, and many things have to be decided by themselves. You will know many things only after you have experienced them. Even if Guo Xiao wants to go with Wang Siming, as Guo's mother, she can only give you suggestions and analyze the stakes. Guo Xiao is the one who really makes the decision. Life cannot be smooth sailing, and every decision you make may be wrong, but isn't that bad? Grow from your mistakes. Think about most parents nowadays, who have carefully arranged their children's birth, old age, illness and death, for fear that their children will make mistakes and have a bad life. The child is just like Yuan Yuan. Her life has grown up under the control of her parents. As long as she wants to go against her parents' ideas, she will be scolded by her parents. Fortunately, Yuan Yuan met Wang Yuhan and broke out of the control he had had from his parents since childhood.

Although it is a realistic novel, for me, a staunch lover of men and women, we have been together for several years, and I thought that we were about to get married, but suddenly the heroine's love affair with someone else was like I was falling out of love, saying that I couldn't accept it 😭😭😭

I think of the past days, very real, as if they happened yesterday: Looking back timidly, I saw the female classmate by the window, smiling shyly, with the afterglow shining on her hair, dotted with stars.

It's really well written, looking forward to the update.

The conversation between He Yingjie and Mr. Yao was amazing. As they talked, the fake divorce was brought out. 👍

From Guo Xiao's change of job, from TV station to real estate sales, we can see the microcosm of society. Most people who come to first-tier cities like Imperial Capital also face the same problem: the problem of housing. Some people who have relied on renting a house their whole life are facing rising rents and the comfort of their houses is getting lower and lower. But those who want to buy a house have to bear huge mortgage pressure, and it takes six treasury + loans to make a down payment. The saddest thing is that some people who can afford to buy a house just hesitate and wait and see, waiting for house prices to drop a little before making a move. As a result, house prices kept rising, one price per day, and in the end, I missed out on the house. I really wanted to die.

Cao Linlin is too persistent in certain things, but unfortunately she is obsessed with the wrong place

Looking forward to it, it is a very good book. The content written in it is very worth recalling and has guiding significance for life.

I hope that if I have time one day, I can read the whole book again. Maybe there are some things in it that I have not paid attention to its meaning.

The writing is quite good, the content is profound, and the characters are well-characterized. Organically combine the fate of ordinary characters with the context of social development. The cruelty of society and the ugliness and beauty of human nature are vividly displayed. Thought-provoking, I recommend everyone to read it!

I have been reading it, it is so well written, the story is exciting, the characters are well described, the real estate industry is very interesting, and the house is explained very thoroughly. Will there be a story about the stock market later?

I read more than ten chapters in a row, and it became more and more exciting. I still didn't want to face the thinning hair, the bulging belly, and the thermos cup in my hand. . . Youth begins with cardamom but ends with wolfberry? No! The beginning of the novel is wonderful, touching the scene. It reminds me of those days, teachers, parents, petty female classmates, class monitors who love to report, school belles and top students have their own dazzling aura, and the stories are full in every gesture. Most of the students are inconspicuous little transparent under the halo, silently becoming a scene that embellishes the story. Each story will eventually become a scene that embellishes the youth of all of them. Youth will eventually pass away. Being witnessed by these stories will have a profound impact. The narration of the article guides thinking, and I feel that the true meaning of the novel is about to unfold. The end of youth, I hope it is not just greasy middle age.

Although in China, one thing that is better than most countries is that class circulation is relatively smooth. A child from a peasant family who wants to be a lawyer or an official and become a person at the top of the pyramid can still make it as long as he works hard enough. But as people at the bottom, especially young people living in small counties, with no funds, no connections, and no ability, it is really not easy to leap to a higher class. In addition to your own efforts, it is also important to meet the noble people in your life. Of course, most people fail to meet noble people, mainly due to their own reasons. Just like in Guo Xiao's case, she has a gorgeous appearance, which is her strength but also her weakness. However, Guo Xiao lives in a reasonable family with a clear distinction between public and private matters. Although her father died young, her mother's education style only gave her a direction in life, allowing Guo Xiao to understand a lot of truths from a young age and be able to maintain her chastity in life. This is also a prerequisite for her to meet noble people in the future. My mother taught me by words and deeds, which is really a blessing for her, because most girls with beautiful appearance, especially those from wealthy families, always have a kind of arrogance deep inside. And another example is Zhang Ting. She lives in a patriarchal, partial and selfish family. Her father has neglected her since she was a child, which has a great impact on her character. So I have felt the indifference of human nature since I was a child. And it is difficult for such people to meet the noble people in life. When she encountered difficulties in her life, such as being sexually assaulted by her leader, her way of dealing with it was completely opposite to Guo Xiao's. She went further and further down the path of the devil, leaving a black spot in her heart that she could never overcome (being a prostitute). So, for a family, education is really important. However, this is something most families don't see.

The author uses the psychological and emotional experiences of several protagonists starting from students, from campus to society, and growing up as clues to profoundly show the beauty and ugliness of human nature and the cruelty of society. Profound meaning, recommended reading

The comment section of a realistic novel is so exaggerated! 🤪🤪🤪

Well written 👍 I gained a lot of experience

The chapter "Self-defeating" is really well written. For love, you must find someone who is well-matched, and don't find someone who is too far apart in class. For example, a rich second generation pairs up with a girl from a relatively ordinary family. I think most rich second generations can be said to be bragging children, and there are very few people like Wang Siming who do not eat, drink, whoring or gamble, and have good conduct. There are many such families around us who are relatively wealthy. Like this first-generation rich family, the early accumulation of wealth was also very sad. Later, when they become rich, they usually make up for their children in the form of material things. Because of the hardships he experienced, he did not want his children to suffer. This is dangerous, giving material but not spirit. As for us, there is a thought that when a girl is looking for her partner, she must find a rich first or second generation. As long as the family has a mine, has been divorced, is over forty years old, or is even lame or crippled, we are not afraid. As long as you have a mine at home, it will make up for all your shortcomings. As long as these people get together, they are destined to never come to an end.

Congratulations to the author for successfully completing it This is a very good realistic-themed novel, which focuses on describing the emotional twists and turns of the main and supporting characters. It also presents an analysis of some of the problems faced by young people in today's society, which has very good reference significance. When I was a child, I always felt that time was too slow and I couldn't wait to grow up. As an adult, I always felt that time was passing by and time flew by. Life lasts only a few decades, and people often ask themselves whether they have wasted their time.