My Thirty Values

I do not agree with the orthodox ideological view: when a man reaches his thirties, he should establish himself, build a career, and build a family. I would rather ask myself: What is the pursuit of life? What are the criteria for a partner? What kind of life do you want. I'm 30, I like reading novels, I like animation, is that wrong? I respect my own heart more, start from the heart, and find the right position.