Fourth Prince, Mind Your Manners

I really don't know what to say. The novel is about the female protagonist adapting to the era as a modern person in order to live a better life. At the same time, isn't she also being domesticated by feudal ethics? From birth to adulthood to marriage, every step is beyond one's control. So much so that I felt a deep sense of resentment and hatred, but in the end, I didn't know who to hate.