Wen Ci doesn't understand why Qin Yu stopped loving him.
Qin Yu is just as surprised that he no longer loves Wen Ci.
Love is the surrender of free will. Anyone who has heard this phrase should agree, but the truth is that only when you fall in love do you realize how extraordinary it is.
Love can change, becoming stronger or weaker.
When love is intense, people believe it comes from the heart, and that it is natural and within their control.
But when love slowly fades, the feelings that follow are usually disgust and denial.
An amicable breakup often conceals one person's reluctance to let go and their generosity.
Qin Yu is an exception to the usual pattern. He had imagined many possible futures, and Wen Ci was part of every one. So when he realized that he no longer loved Wen Ci, he was terrified and panicked. He had even looked at his lover's sleeping face in the middle of the night and asked himself over and over: How can you not love him? What gives you the right not to love him?
He was the one who found this truth hardest to accept.
Why should love be beyond our control?
While he tried to defy this truth, Wen Ci made his choice first. And for the rest of his life, Qin Yu tasted nothing but loneliness.
Theme: Whether we love or don't love, neither is up to us.
I understand but don't accept it. I understand but it's very uncomfortable. It shouldn't feel like this. At least it shouldn't be Wen Ci who dies. But if it's Gong who dies, I feel like I can't live with Shou. It's hard to judge. I hope Shou can have a good ending in the next life. I have a good partner and a beautiful life.
I feel that Wen Ci is really a pity. He feels that even if it is not an accident, he might not be able to survive. He can't change the fact that Qin doesn't love him and will never love him again. He can't let Qin go. Wen Ci, who was abandoned in the same place during this love, will burn himself to death. In the end, he will probably be depressed. I never doubt my sincerity, but my sincerity changes rapidly, which is too realistic, but it is better than watching Qin fall in love with someone else. Qin feels that he just doesn't love him anymore, but he really hurt Wen Ci, so let Qin live in guilt for the rest of his life, and never come out.