Many men are like this. They are reluctant to let go of their wives and indulge in extramarital affairs at the same time. It is absolutely impossible to ask them to divorce.
It's shameless. If the male protagonist has "love", just let go of his "life"
As society progresses, why do people's sense of morality become more reversed?
You damn scumbag, you have the nerve to say it out loud for one life and one love. Ugh.
Clouds of Never Forgive
Splash ink small freehand
Like I said at the end, it's just an attitude, and I think it's probably my own attitude. This attitude is not unique to women's economic independence today, but has existed since ancient times. It's just that we have been confused by the male-dominated society. Believe that what they call love is "a woman's soul". In fact, how noble the soul is, this primitive attraction between men and women may just be the direction of the body. What I want to say is that I never think that love is one-sided sacrifice and tolerance, nor that love is one-sided humility, nor that love can compete with moral principles and be forgiven by the world. I insist that people can make mistakes, be selfish, and be cowardly, but they cannot make excuses to cover it up. …
Because it's my own post, I can do whatever I want with it, which is really nice.
When I met Xianxian, she was still a girl who had just graduated from college.
At that time, everyone knew that she admired Yu Qie, and she never tried to hide it.
I looked at her who was curiously looking into the office - her sparkling eyes, her smooth forehead, her slightly curly temples - oh, I was actually envious of such a youthful and unbridled face, and an age where she could squander things wantonly.
I smiled at her, and she quickly stuck out her tongue, made a face, and retracted her head.
I chuckled softly.
"What are you laughing at?"
"Ah, that girl who admires you..."
"Aren't you worried?" Yu Qie looked at me half-jokingly.
I smiled, pondered for a moment, and finally didn't answer him.
My name is Zhan Yunduan, and I just celebrated my thirtieth birthday last year.
That day, I was lamenting the loss of my youth in front of the candle. My father came over and hugged me. He said, "Yunzuan, you will always be our little princess."
My life is anything but exciting. It can be summed up in three sentences: After graduating from college, I became the financial director of a family business. Marry the only man I love, Yu Qie. My daughter is the treasure of my life.
In the eyes of others, I live in the clouds, but I, perhaps too aware of my own happiness, always feel that this happiness is a bit unreal.
No one can live in the cloud forever, and neither can I.
Yu Che became silent day by day, occasionally sitting on the sofa and watching TV, with a dreamy smile on his lips, and he didn't know where his thoughts were going.
That day, I had no change, so I opened his wallet to look for it, and saw a small painting. Snoopy was typing. A long piece of paper hung down from the typewriter. On the paper, there were small words written on it: "There are gangsters and gentlemen, and they are like friends."
I was stunned on the spot, unable to move.
I first met him more than ten years ago, and I said the same thing, and now, more than ten years later, this man is tempted by the same words again. Oh, is it that Xianxian?
I carefully put the paper back. After dinner, I said to Yu Che, "You stay at home and stay with me while I go out."
I had to start the car before I burst into tears and my vision was blurred, but I didn't care.
I opened the car window, increased the speed to the maximum, and said to myself over and over again: He doesn't love you anymore.
At that moment I really hoped that a car would come towards me and put an end to this.
Yes, I forgot that I was a mother. At that moment, I only knew that the man I loved deeply, the man who swore love and loyalty in front of God for the rest of his life, had changed his heart.
Yu Che was shocked when I filed for divorce.
I said calmly: "Yu Qie, I don't think it's suitable for us to live together anymore. I'm applying for divorce. This is an agreement. If you don't accept it, I will ask a lawyer to come and talk to you."
"You?! Why?"
I smiled slightly and said, "No, Yu Qie, I love you, but that doesn't mean I don't have wisdom. Please don't insult my wisdom."
He suddenly blushed and felt a little embarrassed. "Me and..."
"It doesn't matter to me what happened with whom. What matters is that the problems between us make our marriage unable to continue."
"I will move out starting today. Dian still has all the love from her father and mother, although they do not live together. After the agreement is signed, please send it to this address." God knows that I used all my strength to arrange all this, and Dian fell on my knees and cried bitterly.
I gently stroked her head: "Daughter, this is no one's fault..."
Dian Dian suddenly raised his head with such stubbornness: "Why do some people hurt me and make me sad, and they still say it's not wrong?"
"Oh, who is responsible for making you happy all your life? When you grow up, you will understand that no one can have everything he wants."
"Mom, why can't you settle for the next best thing?"
I was surprised that my daughter would ask such a wise question. I thought about it and answered her, "Even if it's love, I still have my own dignity."
I moved to the company's dormitory and really devoted myself to work.
There are rumors from time to time, but I won't comment.
But in the end, my mother found out and rushed to my office. "Yuntuan, what's wrong with you? Why are there rumors about Yu Che and his subordinates..."
"Mom, that's not a rumor, it's true. I have already agreed to divorce him." I choked up as I spoke: "Mom, why? After so many years of marriage, I cooked his favorite dishes and ironed the shirts one by one by hand. I raised everything by myself and never lied to others. Even, everyone even said I was beautiful, but do you see the result?"
I burst into tears. My mother hugged me tightly: "Son, no matter what you do, your father and I will always support you."
Yu Che did not sign the divorce agreement. I called my lawyer.
He came to my office quickly: "Ms. Zhan, Mr. Yu refused to sign the agreement, but we have enough reasons to apply to the court for divorce."
I called over: "Yu Che, if you don't agree to the agreement, I will apply to the court. And you should know that my lawyer already has enough evidence."
He was suddenly very angry on the other end of the phone: "Yunduan, what are you doing?! Why do you have to break up our beautiful family?"
I think everything is so funny: "Yu Qie, you need the freedom to love who you want to love now, I just give you the freedom. In addition, our definition of home is probably very different."
"Yun Niang, you have always been so proud, but she is different. She admires me and respects me..."
I simply thought I had entered a ninth-rate ethics soap opera in the wrong time and space: "Yu Qie, stop making excuses. Even if you don't want to face it, things still have right and wrong. Moreover, I am not here to discuss your choices with you, I want to leave you."
Lawyer Fang sighed on the side and finally asked: "Ms. Zhan, should we apply to the court? It has been so long and delaying it any longer will not be good for your life."
I was still hesitating when suddenly the office door was slammed open and Yu Che stood outside the door.
He was a little haggard, his chin was blue, and his suit was a little wrinkled, but even this did not affect his handsomeness at all. Now he looked appropriately like a man trapped in love.
He just stood there staring at me, as if he didn't know what to say. Lawyer Fang coughed lightly and said, "I'll go out first."
I said, "No need," and then said to Yu Qie, "Come in and sit down."
I handed each of them a cup of coffee, and suddenly the other party's lawyer smiled bitterly: "Do you think I'm embarrassed now?"
Lawyer Fang is also a wonderful person: "Happiness always has a price, it depends on the client whether it is worth it."
I handed the materials brought by Lawyer Fang to Yu Che and said calmly: "I suggest you accept my agreement. This is a copy of the contract for the house you rented with our common property. This is your parking record. This is your hotel record while traveling... If you don't sign the agreement, I will submit evidence of your adultery to the court and ask for a divorce."
Yu Qileng is there. After a moment of silence, he stood up angrily and slammed my door.
Only then did I break out of my composure.
No, I didn't cry. Every time I heard news about them in the past six months, I didn't know how many times I cried and how many tears I shed. Yes, they never minded my tears or even considered that I was just a woman.
Lawyer Fang said softly: "Actually, if you love him, you don't have to embarrass yourself like this. Try to forgive, maybe it will be better. Besides, you have children."
"No, I also have my life to go. As a mother, I will try my best to give her all the maternal love, but I don't intend to sacrifice myself for her happy childhood."
"You have been a lawyer for so many years, have you seen this kind of thing too often?"
"Yes, I have a fear of marriage - but you are the strongest and proudest person I have ever seen."
"Why do you men think that if a person is strong enough, then she deserves to be hurt?!"
Lawyer Fang sighed softly: "I'm not defending anyone. With so many people and all kinds of temptations, Mr. Yu is just a man. Why does society require men to be as solid as a rock but yet their loyalty is tested again and again - who do you think can withstand such a test, and how many times can he withstand it?"
Marriage is probably the kind of thing that cannot be tested. Some people are lucky, but some are not.
Yu Qie finally signed the agreement, he was free and I was relieved. She became calmer because of this incident, and she said: "I understand that although you can't be together, you will always be my parents."
The story between me and Yu Che ended miserably, even though when I was eighteen, I thought he would be my life and my world.
(Let's end it like this. What I wrote is just an attitude, not life. Life may be even more unbearable)
- I am the dividing line of HLL
I saw it in the author's column. I really couldn't bear that such a wonderful article was buried, so I reposted it in the name of the author (please forgive me, Mr. Pomo), to treasure and share it. . .
№19 Netizen: lhh020108 Comment: "Slim and Happy" Rating: 2 Published on 11: 2008-06-04 22:16:37 Chapters reviewed: 15
After reaching thirty-five, I understand such a man, he is not the worst. But what I hate the most
When I was young, I thought this kind of man should be shot. Only when I got older did I realize this was reality!! You don't have to accept it. But the real existence cannot be eliminated. People preach the Dharma without blaming everyone. So there are many such people. Men also think this is normal. The woman who, like us, thinks he is abnormal has become an abnormal woman in the eyes of men.
Do you like reading this kind of article?
The author of "Life" can describe how to write a scumbag in such a literary and artistic way?
God, men are all lower body animals, are you still careless?
The growth history of a girl is costed by physical and mental suffering. Young girls, when you meet a mature man who makes you excited, you must take a long way around!
Many men are like this. They are reluctant to let go of their wives and indulge in extramarital affairs at the same time. It is absolutely impossible to ask them to divorce.
It's shameless. If the male protagonist has "love", just let go of his "life"
As society progresses, why do people's sense of morality become more reversed?
You damn scumbag, you have the nerve to say it out loud for one life and one love. Ugh.
Clouds of Never Forgive Splash ink small freehand Like I said at the end, it's just an attitude, and I think it's probably my own attitude. This attitude is not unique to women's economic independence today, but has existed since ancient times. It's just that we have been confused by the male-dominated society. Believe that what they call love is "a woman's soul". In fact, how noble the soul is, this primitive attraction between men and women may just be the direction of the body. What I want to say is that I never think that love is one-sided sacrifice and tolerance, nor that love is one-sided humility, nor that love can compete with moral principles and be forgiven by the world. I insist that people can make mistakes, be selfish, and be cowardly, but they cannot make excuses to cover it up. … Because it's my own post, I can do whatever I want with it, which is really nice. When I met Xianxian, she was still a girl who had just graduated from college. At that time, everyone knew that she admired Yu Qie, and she never tried to hide it. I looked at her who was curiously looking into the office - her sparkling eyes, her smooth forehead, her slightly curly temples - oh, I was actually envious of such a youthful and unbridled face, and an age where she could squander things wantonly. I smiled at her, and she quickly stuck out her tongue, made a face, and retracted her head. I chuckled softly. "What are you laughing at?" "Ah, that girl who admires you..." "Aren't you worried?" Yu Qie looked at me half-jokingly. I smiled, pondered for a moment, and finally didn't answer him. My name is Zhan Yunduan, and I just celebrated my thirtieth birthday last year. That day, I was lamenting the loss of my youth in front of the candle. My father came over and hugged me. He said, "Yunzuan, you will always be our little princess." My life is anything but exciting. It can be summed up in three sentences: After graduating from college, I became the financial director of a family business. Marry the only man I love, Yu Qie. My daughter is the treasure of my life. In the eyes of others, I live in the clouds, but I, perhaps too aware of my own happiness, always feel that this happiness is a bit unreal. No one can live in the cloud forever, and neither can I. Yu Che became silent day by day, occasionally sitting on the sofa and watching TV, with a dreamy smile on his lips, and he didn't know where his thoughts were going. That day, I had no change, so I opened his wallet to look for it, and saw a small painting. Snoopy was typing. A long piece of paper hung down from the typewriter. On the paper, there were small words written on it: "There are gangsters and gentlemen, and they are like friends." I was stunned on the spot, unable to move. I first met him more than ten years ago, and I said the same thing, and now, more than ten years later, this man is tempted by the same words again. Oh, is it that Xianxian? I carefully put the paper back. After dinner, I said to Yu Che, "You stay at home and stay with me while I go out." I had to start the car before I burst into tears and my vision was blurred, but I didn't care. I opened the car window, increased the speed to the maximum, and said to myself over and over again: He doesn't love you anymore. At that moment I really hoped that a car would come towards me and put an end to this. Yes, I forgot that I was a mother. At that moment, I only knew that the man I loved deeply, the man who swore love and loyalty in front of God for the rest of his life, had changed his heart. Yu Che was shocked when I filed for divorce. I said calmly: "Yu Qie, I don't think it's suitable for us to live together anymore. I'm applying for divorce. This is an agreement. If you don't accept it, I will ask a lawyer to come and talk to you." "You?! Why?" I smiled slightly and said, "No, Yu Qie, I love you, but that doesn't mean I don't have wisdom. Please don't insult my wisdom." He suddenly blushed and felt a little embarrassed. "Me and..." "It doesn't matter to me what happened with whom. What matters is that the problems between us make our marriage unable to continue." "I will move out starting today. Dian still has all the love from her father and mother, although they do not live together. After the agreement is signed, please send it to this address." God knows that I used all my strength to arrange all this, and Dian fell on my knees and cried bitterly. I gently stroked her head: "Daughter, this is no one's fault..." Dian Dian suddenly raised his head with such stubbornness: "Why do some people hurt me and make me sad, and they still say it's not wrong?" "Oh, who is responsible for making you happy all your life? When you grow up, you will understand that no one can have everything he wants." "Mom, why can't you settle for the next best thing?" I was surprised that my daughter would ask such a wise question. I thought about it and answered her, "Even if it's love, I still have my own dignity." I moved to the company's dormitory and really devoted myself to work. There are rumors from time to time, but I won't comment. But in the end, my mother found out and rushed to my office. "Yuntuan, what's wrong with you? Why are there rumors about Yu Che and his subordinates..." "Mom, that's not a rumor, it's true. I have already agreed to divorce him." I choked up as I spoke: "Mom, why? After so many years of marriage, I cooked his favorite dishes and ironed the shirts one by one by hand. I raised everything by myself and never lied to others. Even, everyone even said I was beautiful, but do you see the result?" I burst into tears. My mother hugged me tightly: "Son, no matter what you do, your father and I will always support you." Yu Che did not sign the divorce agreement. I called my lawyer. He came to my office quickly: "Ms. Zhan, Mr. Yu refused to sign the agreement, but we have enough reasons to apply to the court for divorce." I called over: "Yu Che, if you don't agree to the agreement, I will apply to the court. And you should know that my lawyer already has enough evidence." He was suddenly very angry on the other end of the phone: "Yunduan, what are you doing?! Why do you have to break up our beautiful family?" I think everything is so funny: "Yu Qie, you need the freedom to love who you want to love now, I just give you the freedom. In addition, our definition of home is probably very different." "Yun Niang, you have always been so proud, but she is different. She admires me and respects me..." I simply thought I had entered a ninth-rate ethics soap opera in the wrong time and space: "Yu Qie, stop making excuses. Even if you don't want to face it, things still have right and wrong. Moreover, I am not here to discuss your choices with you, I want to leave you." Lawyer Fang sighed on the side and finally asked: "Ms. Zhan, should we apply to the court? It has been so long and delaying it any longer will not be good for your life." I was still hesitating when suddenly the office door was slammed open and Yu Che stood outside the door. He was a little haggard, his chin was blue, and his suit was a little wrinkled, but even this did not affect his handsomeness at all. Now he looked appropriately like a man trapped in love. He just stood there staring at me, as if he didn't know what to say. Lawyer Fang coughed lightly and said, "I'll go out first." I said, "No need," and then said to Yu Qie, "Come in and sit down." I handed each of them a cup of coffee, and suddenly the other party's lawyer smiled bitterly: "Do you think I'm embarrassed now?" Lawyer Fang is also a wonderful person: "Happiness always has a price, it depends on the client whether it is worth it." I handed the materials brought by Lawyer Fang to Yu Che and said calmly: "I suggest you accept my agreement. This is a copy of the contract for the house you rented with our common property. This is your parking record. This is your hotel record while traveling... If you don't sign the agreement, I will submit evidence of your adultery to the court and ask for a divorce." Yu Qileng is there. After a moment of silence, he stood up angrily and slammed my door. Only then did I break out of my composure. No, I didn't cry. Every time I heard news about them in the past six months, I didn't know how many times I cried and how many tears I shed. Yes, they never minded my tears or even considered that I was just a woman. Lawyer Fang said softly: "Actually, if you love him, you don't have to embarrass yourself like this. Try to forgive, maybe it will be better. Besides, you have children." "No, I also have my life to go. As a mother, I will try my best to give her all the maternal love, but I don't intend to sacrifice myself for her happy childhood." "You have been a lawyer for so many years, have you seen this kind of thing too often?" "Yes, I have a fear of marriage - but you are the strongest and proudest person I have ever seen." "Why do you men think that if a person is strong enough, then she deserves to be hurt?!" Lawyer Fang sighed softly: "I'm not defending anyone. With so many people and all kinds of temptations, Mr. Yu is just a man. Why does society require men to be as solid as a rock but yet their loyalty is tested again and again - who do you think can withstand such a test, and how many times can he withstand it?" Marriage is probably the kind of thing that cannot be tested. Some people are lucky, but some are not. Yu Qie finally signed the agreement, he was free and I was relieved. She became calmer because of this incident, and she said: "I understand that although you can't be together, you will always be my parents." The story between me and Yu Che ended miserably, even though when I was eighteen, I thought he would be my life and my world. (Let's end it like this. What I wrote is just an attitude, not life. Life may be even more unbearable) - I am the dividing line of HLL I saw it in the author's column. I really couldn't bear that such a wonderful article was buried, so I reposted it in the name of the author (please forgive me, Mr. Pomo), to treasure and share it. . .
№19 Netizen: lhh020108 Comment: "Slim and Happy" Rating: 2 Published on 11: 2008-06-04 22:16:37 Chapters reviewed: 15 After reaching thirty-five, I understand such a man, he is not the worst. But what I hate the most When I was young, I thought this kind of man should be shot. Only when I got older did I realize this was reality!! You don't have to accept it. But the real existence cannot be eliminated. People preach the Dharma without blaming everyone. So there are many such people. Men also think this is normal. The woman who, like us, thinks he is abnormal has become an abnormal woman in the eyes of men.
Do you like reading this kind of article?
The author of "Life" can describe how to write a scumbag in such a literary and artistic way?
God, men are all lower body animals, are you still careless?
The growth history of a girl is costed by physical and mental suffering. Young girls, when you meet a mature man who makes you excited, you must take a long way around!