I'm Right Behind You

I think the chapter "Excessive kindness will turn into resentment" is very well written. Helping the other party repay the debt is very light. However, how the beneficiary can maintain his subjectivity in the future relationship is a problem. On many issues where two originally equals should be considerate of each other, the beneficiary may become the permanent giver, and this equal partnership has been alienated since then. In other words, how should the benefactor balance his/her own psychology so that he will not threaten the other party with this experience of beneficence in the future? Or, because of the act of beneficence, you have very high emotional value expectations for the other party. If the other party does not go your way, you will feel psychologically unbalanced. Be like: "I have paid off your debts, and you still disobey me." Even though the other party is just a normal request as a partner, he will be alienated in this relationship. Human nature is difficult to withstand the test. Future emotional changes are often inseparable from the benefactor. Because the sunk cost is too great, then separation will become a luxury and eventually torture each other. Not to mention such a huge amount of debt repayment, this kind of unpayable kindness, which has been pressed deep in my heart and it is difficult to repay the unequal relationship. The final trend is very likely to turn from gratitude to resentment. When women get married, their father-in-law helps their son-in-law achieve great success, and it is not uncommon for the son-in-law to retaliate for kindness. The story including Siheng's parents is a living example.

It is reasonable to suspect that this Du Ling is determined to deliberately go after Siheng and then report him back, so that he can continue to increase Siheng's window period through the mouth of the human resources department so that Siheng can work as his secretary for a longer period of time. Damn, what a scheming man (here is a compliment) [Eh~]

Hahahahaha, in short, Du Ling was secretly jealous and was "unscrupulously" teased by Si Heng to the point where her heart went crazy... (I didn't expect Du Ling to be such a shy person.) I guess Du Ling would be even more furious if she knew that Si Heng remembered the little situation in Baizhou and didn't mind the Coke he drank from "Baizhou's mouth" [Caidog] By the way, where does the consciousness of the person possessed by Du Ling go? Is it equivalent to falling asleep or does the soul leave the body and go to another place [dog head]

Wow, brother rice bowl is so delicious.

The female protagonist is really strong. Hahaha [covering her face and peeking] Damn, this book is not marked with GB. This book is BG.

Du Ling should know the past of Si Heng and Bai Zhou, so he most likely chose to possess Bai Zhou this time for testing? To test whether Si Heng still cares about Bai Zhou's attitude? But I think Du Ling's purpose is not that simple. In the end, Du Ling asked Siheng to leave after the mission was over. Was it because he was angry? Considering his previous attitude towards the princess, it seemed that he was just shy. His attitude changed after Siheng asked about the perfume. Based on the description of the ending, Du Ling should be a little sad, but I actually don't understand what makes her sad. Are you jealous because of Siheng's attitude? Or do you think she is heartless because of her decisiveness in going out when Siheng is asked to do so? Anyway, looking forward to the follow-up [Sunglasses]

Finally close the window and write it well [hug your thighs][hug your thighs]

If Siheng's emotional development potential for each of his ex-boyfriends is compared to a certain chemical reaction... This Baizhou's △G should not be less than zero (the reaction has the ability to spontaneously proceed forward) (what kind of hell metaphor is this... I went crazy like this after reviewing the principle of reaction [scared])

"She was so shocked that she was about to run out of food and ammunition..." This is a big bug for the author~ "Beautiful and smooth dishes" Ahhh, it looks so good. [Love Eyes] [Love Eyes] [Love Eyes] At first, I was still thinking whether Du Ling could be Baizhou, but then I thought that Du Ling had passed away and Baizhou was still alive, so he shouldn't be alone. After three years of separation and separation, the relationship has been broken. Is it the ex-husband who Siheng gave the most gifts to whom Fang Zhiyi mentioned before? Hahahaha, why is it so touching? I feel very sorry for Si Heng because a huge change occurred in his family and his relationship with the people and things in the past was cut off. . . It takes courage and courage, and she is indeed a woman with great mobility [sunglasses]. Not to mention that from spending money like water to working in any profession later, the story begins with sleeping in a rental house with extremely poor conditions and almost losing his life for 80,000 yuan. Siheng really suffered a lot [please please]. The future will get better and better [Purple Heart][Purple Heart][Purple Heart]

A good one is good at resisting customers, and a good one welcomes you even when you refuse [dog head holding a rose in its mouth] Also, what is the danger of working as Du Ling's secretary for office romance? (Fog)