In addition to those external things, isn't it good to have vigorous vitality?
Fromm's words: "We always think that we have to meet the right person before we can start a vigorous love. But more important than this is that first of all, you must become a person worthy of others' love. Secondly, you must truly have the ability to love, because love is never just a feeling, but an ability, and a manifestation of vitality. Care, responsibility, respect and understanding constitute the elements of love."
Intention: Gradual Enlightenment