The Meaning of Parting

What a coincidence, it's been a year since my breakup, and I feel like this article is entirely about me. I was in the same pain as you, crying in the rental house, tossing and turning, unable to fall asleep. I went to work with swollen eyes every day, and looked at his profile photo, background, Weibo, Tiktok, and even Zhihu every day. Like you, I was looking for problems in myself. I looked through the chat history and felt that I didn't care about him enough. But that was not the case. I later realized that he had wanted to break up for a long time. He had already made a preset. He left me the pain of the cliff. After meeting other girls, he was seamless. Later, I also went on a trip like you. During the trip, I deleted all the photos of me and him, deleted all his contact information, and slowly found my own peace. He came to see me another month later, and I couldn't help but contact him. I kept trying for a few more months... It was my problem, I shouldn't have ignored him, and I made another mistake. But fortunately, I won't make the same mistake again this year. It has penetrated me and flowed through me as written in the article. Although I occasionally think of those past, it will no longer affect any of my decisions. I feel like I have succeeded. This year I am more focused on myself. My emotions are becoming more and more stable, and I am happy more often. Ding Minyi, you know, you are really brave. Although I am not as brave as you, I think I am not bad. Now that I am traveling again, I have actually wanted to read this article for a long time, but I never dared to click on it. Until today, I clicked on it and I think this article is healing for me. Thanks to the author for writing this story, I feel like I have found a part of myself again. Finally, I wish all Ding Minyi: always happy, always calm, always gentle and powerful, and I also wish myself the best.

I read this novel when I was still in love. At that time, I had no idea that after he and I separated, I would be like this, or even worse. I kept crying and calling him. He blocked all my contact information and couldn't get through to the phone. The idea I had from the beginning was why he separated from me. It was obvious that he was at fault, and it was obviously not all my fault. I just wanted to have a good chat with him, solve the problem together, and have a good talk together. I just wanted to know why his attitude became so cold these days, and he didn't report to me, and he didn't miss me anymore... Until it changed to Did I really do something wrong? Shouldn't I question him, shouldn't I post a short essay, should I have a good phone chat from the beginning, shouldn't I say angry words and agree to break up with him. Idea I can't accept his current attitude and behavior towards me, but at the same time, I miss the days when we were together. I miss him who used to coax me, solve problems together, and talk to him well. I don't like that he is so cold and heartless now, and can scold me casually. I really miss him... It would be great if we could reconcile tomorrow. Maybe he just doesn't love me or like me that much. If I had known it would be so sad to be separated, I wouldn't have stayed together. I hope that babies who read this comment will find a good person from the beginning of their relationship, someone who can abide by the agreement, not focus on games, talk well, and cherish each other. I feel really uncomfortable

I stayed up late to finish reading it, and it felt like I had experienced a love break-up. I'm sorry to say that I haven't experienced a love break-up that is unforgettable and sad. I have been married for ten years and the relationship is very good. I really can't imagine what it would be like if we separated. So when I watched it, I took it for myself and found that I couldn't accept it at all. The more I took it, the more sad and tearful I became. Alas, I don't want to truly understand the meaning of separation. This book gave me an answer to a question that I have been thinking about for a long time. How could a couple who loved each other fall out of love? How could they become like strangers when they were once so sweet. People will change, but this process of change has always made me think and be curious. I really envy and like the author's writing style. He can write emotions so delicately, and he can turn "my" thoughts into beautiful words that flow out, which are powerful and warm.

+1 I just experienced a breakup, and when we first broke up, I thought about him every day, especially hoping that he would come back. After half a month, I couldn't help but send a message, but there was no reply. Within a few days, he unblocked my Xiaohongshu and followed a new girl. In addition, before breaking up, he was picky and said that if it can't be good, he should say goodbye as soon as possible. I guess he has found a new partner by then. Today I found that I have changed my WeChat love! I don't know how they hooked up even though they were in different places. Maybe if a man says "I love you" in the middle of the night, he is ready to cheat on you. I wish the scumbag never gets rich! ! ! A colleague asked me before about the reason for the breakup. I thought the breakup was amicable. What the scumbag said when we broke up. There was no conflict. It was all his problem. He wanted to follow his heart. It turns out that my original intention was to start immediately with the new sister.

In the end, everything becomes indifferent, it doesn't matter whether you love or not, it doesn't matter who is right or wrong, after all, you have found yourself and found yourself. Congratulations, Minmin, a vivid copy of life is waiting for you to explore and crack, and your future will always be bright.

So well written. In just eighteen chapters, Min Yi's emotional problems were explained, whether it was the shadow of his original family or the unknowing loss of himself. I also like the analysis of Minyi's relationship from the perspective of his roommate. Minyi finally saw himself objectively and clearly at different stages, emotions and perspectives after the breakup. The ending paragraph reminded me of the ending of Jia Ling's movie, when she was on her way home alone, she couldn't help but pump her fist. Minmin, I wish you a new life and a strong body and mind.

It's amazing. When I watched it for the first time, I must have just broken up. I didn't seem to be sad at all. I didn't know if I really loved him. When I watched it for the second time, I found that the last chapter had been updated. We are married. I'm still not sure, but it seems that sometimes I lose myself and fail to be suitable. In the new year, I hope that I will always be here.

After reading this, I just want to say that love is just a part of life. Don't love others so much that you forget how to love yourself. Falling out of love is no big deal. Having loved is enough. Isn't it a beautiful memory? [Bixin]

I feel that this article has guided me very well [laughing] We are all great. Time is the amount of transformation. Only when we accept it in the past can we truly achieve qualitative change.

After reading this article, I actually shouldn't be entangled with my ex-boyfriend anymore. I'll let it go as soon as I come back in October.