Yaoyao

2026.3.18 Finished spreading flowers! ! I was so happy to encounter "Yaoyao". It must be some kind of special fate that allowed me to open this book in the midst of a tired and busy life and in the mood of self-loathing. So I began to resonate with them, discuss with Tudousi, and feel warmth while being inspired. I am able to look at things that have formed my inherent cognition from a broader perspective. I am very lucky and grateful. It was like sitting in a room surrounded by floor-to-ceiling glass, with heavy rain pouring and lightning and thunder outside the window. But with a cup of hot tea in hand, when I pick it up and take a sip, the refreshing fragrance flows through my body together with my blood, and I feel my presence in the world. Destiny is such a grand concept. Looking up from the glass house, we cannot find the original source of the downpour. It is difficult for 60% of things in life to be completely determined by ourselves, but fortunately there are still 40% that can use subjective initiative to construct safe boundaries and experience the appropriate comfort brought by the change of heart. Sip hot tea, enjoy the thousands of views, and feel calm and relaxed. The street opposite the hospital is like a necklace, strung together with the complex and warm friendship between the neighbors, and the kindness and beauty of human nature. It is the pearls on it that sparkle and dazzle. There are the conflicts and frictions in a small family, as well as the tenacity of each unique individual to live a tenacious life. Jiang Xiyuan is divorced and has a baby. She falls in love with Ren Meng, but there are conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. But is the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law really a war between two women? Not really. Separated by one person, the judgment and criticism that have been ingrained in their thoughts for a long time have separated them, who are already good people. Kindness makes their relationship sincere, but their identities make them tense. It is a seemingly contradictory but thought-provoking situation. Qian Ben and Li Fengzhi, one is disabled and the other is old, one suffers from congenital suffering and the other suffers from acquired hard work, but they use their hands to support themselves and maintain their self-esteem. The neighbors respect them enough, build bridges with goodwill, and provide care with attention and concern. Liu Zijun and Liu Weiyong have classic adolescent family conflicts, with a powerless father and a "rebellious" woman. However, through their respective reflections and common growth across age groups, they have gradually reached balance and harmony. Zijun's choice of funeral management and technology surprised me even more, but I also felt that this was not the inheritance and perseverance of generations of undertakers. Such group portraits full of life make people's hearts melt. I also like the detailed description of female relationships, which is very vivid and beautiful. After closing the book, you can still see west Yuan and Yaoyao sitting on the pony, eating and discussing life, future, planning and business. And loving yourself is the growth of Xiyuan. It is never too late to restart your life and pursue career progress and development again. The emotional process between Wen Liao and Yaoyao was light and smooth. It was a kind of happiness and stability that came naturally. But it's deep enough, rising to the level of soul mates' mutual companionship, knowing each other and loving each other. Very moving. An unexpected disaster pushed the seventeen or eighteen-year-olds forward. They had no time to say goodbye, and the ignorant thoughts that quietly sprouted were submerged in the dust of the accident. Before they could gather enough courage to face the departure of their loved ones, they escaped each other. Staggering toward the future and looking back is tantamount to self-inflicted harm. Wen Liaoyuan went to a foreign country to isolate himself from the pain in the physical sense, while Zhang Ruoyao wandered in confusion and buried the scars in the psychological sense. When they met again in Rongcheng, their relationship gradually deepened. In addition to building a healthy emotional flow system, they finally untied the past knots in self-healing and supported each other hand in hand. For eleven years, they are old people and new people to each other. The trust rooted in the bones of childhood sweethearts will not be easily erased, and the common vision of pursuing the realization of the highest ideals and values ​​in life after a long separation also makes the foundation of this love even stronger. The shaping of the changing and unchanging control groups is also very interesting. Yaoyao, who used to be strong, grew up indifferent, while Wen Liao seemed to have always pursued new ideas and loved adventure. They have the same sensitive background, but externally show different personalities. This is the result of being polished by the world and gradually forming their own "strong" pedigree and survival principles. It is a pity not to be able to participate in part of each other's growing up time, which means not being present to know the subtle changes that have occurred over the years, but love has the ability to tolerate everything, just like pessimism and optimism, although they are completely opposite, can transform into each other. Perhaps the hard skeleton that supported me along the way should not be discarded, otherwise it would be like losing my memory and wondering why I could get here. However, mutual interaction in an intimate relationship can deliver a steady stream of energy to each other and correct some distorted or painful bones. As a result, the body will be stronger and tougher, able to withstand greater risks, and the ideological world will also have an additional pair of eyes for the other person to see the outside world. There will be all kinds of real quarrels between Yaoyao and Wen Liao. The sharp knife stabbing each other's heart is to hide the pain that they dare not reveal easily. With the trauma, they have their own weaknesses and hard thorns outside the armor. During the running-in process, guilt, fear, and anger are intertwined, and it is not calm. In the pursuit of love, this vast but unknown sea, they are brave captains, and of course they will reap the reward of staying together in the end. I also like the way they get along. They can make jokes and pinch each other, but they can also comfort each other and share their emotions. It makes people happy and gratified to watch. We are all afraid of separation, and death is the heaviest and longest form of separation. "Thinking about how hard it is to see you again in this long life, I can't help but choke up." Death is very mysterious, but it is also like a taboo. We can't help but imagine which world we will go to when we say goodbye to the world and after we say goodbye. According to materialism, when people die, there is nothing, they come and go without leaving traces, or there is Naihe Bridge Mengpo Tang, and there is a world outside the world in heaven and hell. If it is too arbitrary to believe in one way, then I really like their interpretation of death at the end of the book. Humans come from nature, and millions of years of evolution have made us what we are now. Birth, aging, and death are the laws of natural succession. Generation after generation, we are in a cycle. After death, we no longer exist in human form, and perhaps our thoughts and souls have dissipated, but we are still in the world, like a wisp of wind, a flower, a cloud, endless, endless, nature is me, and I am nature. I remembered a book I read many years ago called "Poetic Atoms". The ashes dropped by volcanoes thousands of miles away and the great people who achieved great achievements thousands of years ago are all related to me. The person who left just changes his form to accompany the person who is still alive, which is simply the gentlest interpretation of death. If I used to follow the trend and have prejudice against people who work in the funeral industry for free, I have completely changed my mind after reading this book. When Tuoshui described the details of funeral practitioners with an equal eye and writing style, compared with the secular evaluation, I saw the real them without colored glasses. The traditional concept of "death is like life" has been passed down from ancient times to the present. Sending the departing people on their last journey is not only the inheritance of folk customs, the comfort to the living, but also the reverence for life. No different from any other profession, funeral is indeed just a profession, a business that also needs to consider profits and losses; it is also different from any other profession in that it carries a noble and solemn meaning and treats a person's life seriously and rigorously when he comes to this world, whether it is long or short. Really touched. Tudoushui is amazing. It integrates many issues that I want to discuss into a short 210,000 words. It also gives me personal experience and opinions on the main line of female and male careers. It influenced me to look at funerals from a new perspective. I also look forward to learning more about it in the future. I am also very interested in the description of new funeral models in the article. I also want to try cycling! ! I imagine it would be great to pedal hard while admiring the scenery in the evening breeze, hahaha! When I was writing this long review, I kept deleting and revising it and felt that my writing was not good enough. I even gave up for a while () but the shock in my heart was still too intense, so I kept grinding on the keyboard and finally finished it. Many outpouring emotions seem to be unable to be fully expressed, so I will reward myself by reading it a few more times and continue to taste and experience between the lines! ! Who are you, Potato Shreds! ! I'm really going to fall in love with you! ! ! The physical book of Girls' Waiting for Yaoyao is being published...[Red Heart][Red Heart][Rainbow Fart]

It is a very rare subject matter and a very rare protagonist's profession. I was immediately attracted by it. After reading it, I was quite emotional. I thank the author for choosing this subject matter and creating such a good and profound story. Childhood sweethearts separated by life and death reunited in a funeral parlor. They and the people around them had their own troubles in the ups and downs between life and death. It's a very realistic story, and it's even a bit uncomfortable because it's so realistic. The straight-talking male protagonist quarreled with the female protagonist who was thoughtful after an accident, and the pair of deputy CPs made people don't know what to say. In the end, I could only sigh, just live life, that's it. Mrs. Li was the most distressing character, but she got better in the end, and the ending of the story was positive. The tone of the story is rather gloomy, but occasionally uplifting, as calm and indifferent as trickling water. The passing away is like a man, never giving up day and night. Perhaps life is like this long river, with many tributaries converging in one place and then scattering. There is a sentence in the last chapter of the text, "There are too many things that can't be helped in this world. If everyone's difficulties are piled up, there will be no perfect solution. There will always be someone who has to suffer a little for others' difficulties." This sentence can summarize most of the stories in the text. This is the story of a group of ordinary people. Whether they are protagonists or supporting characters, those with names or only one codename, they are the protagonists of their own lives, and they are also all living beings, they are you and me. As said in the last chapter of the extra chapter, they are people who live towards death.

Light, warm, logical, resonant with life

[Crying] It's a very good short article. The author has very rich life experience, and many of the details written are very real. The whole story seems to be about what the world after death is like, but in fact it is about how living people deal with the constant rain of life after the death of their loved ones. The reply to the last chapter was so emotional and relieved that I didn't dare to read it. I like this book very much

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I learned a lot and wrote very philosophically! Will continue to support the author

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The process of watching Xi Yue is very embarrassing I hope to be loved forever, which is also the place where I feel most attached. But no one can love me like this forever Before I saw the extra episode, I was so emotionally stressed that I cried for a week. It's hard to explain complex emotions I don't even have a private plot like wild strawberries Working painfully during the day and crying in bed at night, staring at the ceiling I can only write a diary in the memo every day and force myself to face it. Facing my eternal love, only I love myself I hope everyone can be loved. I hope I can always love myself.

It is indeed a very tender and delicate story.

Finished with flowers~[Rose][Rose][Rose] It's obviously a sweet story, but I kept crying while reading it [crying]