Ten Years After My Death

I think this book gave me a good feeling, but I still think the author wrote about the love of the heroine's parents too unfeelingly. I think love can never be compared to family affection. There is another possibility that the heroine's parents transferred the love they originally intended for the heroine to another daughter. I think the author writes about forgetfulness. It's not that I completely forget this person, but I don't think about it deliberately for a certain period of time. I think the heroine's parents will definitely miss her on her death anniversary and various festivals where relatives gather, but they won't cry like when the heroine just passed away, and I don't think her parents will be there either. In the past few years, I have forgotten my daughter who died tragically. The death of the heroine has caused her parents, friends and lovers to fall into the abyss. The little daughter has saved my parents. I think what makes me uncomfortable in this novel is the paragraphs where the parents forget about the heroine. But what makes me most uncomfortable is that the parents changed the photos of themselves and the heroine. , And another one is that the heroine's room is completely gone, and it is said that all the dolls that the heroine likes are thrown away, and the photos are replaced, maybe to prevent the little daughter from having some kind of thoughts, but you can make it clear to the little daughter that she is your sister, and isn't a group photo just a family photo? Even if the heroine has died. But they are still the heroine's family. Even if the little daughter heals them and allows them to get out of the despair of losing their biological daughter, I think the author thinks too lightly of family love. It is impossible for parents to forget their biological daughter in just a few years. I don't know if the heroine's parents have saved things about the heroine as souvenirs and the photo that belongs to them. Maybe, I am not sure. I think the only shortcoming of this book is that the author writes about family love. It's too simple, and the writing is too ruthless. Even if the heroine finally looks at her relatives, lovers and friends, and is happy in the end, I don't know if the heroine's parents left anything of the heroine, but family affection is irreplaceable. Even if the little daughter is not her biological child, she has been raised since she was a child and will definitely have affection and love. However, her parents' longing for the heroine has changed from attachment to longing. I believe that the heroine can be happy when she sees the people she loves, and she will definitely feel happy.

Why did Xu Jingyu not call puppy Yanyan but Song Yan in the end? This is the saddest thing to me.

Everyone will move forward, only Song Yan, she was left behind when she was 19 years old

I accidentally clicked in and read it in the middle of the night. I felt a lot and understood the author's intention. Things are impermanent and time is ruthless. People who stay in time and walk out of the long river of time will gradually fade away. Of course, living people will miss it, but it will not become an obsession. The author's expression here should be a little confusing. Forgetting and obsession are not the same, so there is some ambiguity. The living people will still occasionally think of the lost people, but life will still go on. In fact, life is only a few decades, so what if it is eighty years? In human history, it is fleeting, and in the forgotten years, many people's ups and downs, life and death are buried. Cherish the people in front of you, cherish the moment, and forgive the impermanence of things in the world, because we will meet each other sooner or later, because we will all go to the way home.

But Song Yan died when she loved him most.

I would rather see the setting where the male protagonist dies for love. It's already a novel, so why is it still so painful... Yanyan is so cute, and it's really sad to see her forgotten. I don't want the male protagonist to get married and have a daughter, and I don't want the male protagonist to forget the female protagonist. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Can you arrange a rebirth story? The two people meet again with memories and live a beautiful life together.

I finished reading it in the middle of the night and was really sad. Can't stop crying. What saddens me the most is that after reading this article, I will also forget her. I won't always remember it, and it's depressing.

I really felt depressed when I watched it. Maybe I can't let go. I feel regretful. People who forget are still not obsessed with Song Yan enough. I feel that although everyone needs a new life, I think a new life does not mean forgetting.

Xu Jingyu did not love Song Yan for the rest of his life, but Song Yan did love Xu Jingyu for the rest of his life.

So why should it be forgotten? At least Song Yan's parents shouldn't change the photos...