Ten Years After My Death

I think this book gave me a good feeling, but I still think the author wrote about the love of the heroine's parents too unfeelingly. I think love can never be compared to family affection. There is another possibility that the heroine's parents transferred the love they originally intended for the heroine to another daughter. I think the author writes about forgetfulness. It's not that I completely forget this person, but I don't think about it deliberately for a certain period of time. I think the heroine's parents will definitely miss her on her death anniversary and various festivals where relatives gather, but they won't cry like when the heroine just passed away, and I don't think her parents will be there either. In the past few years, I have forgotten my daughter who died tragically. The death of the heroine has caused her parents, friends and lovers to fall into the abyss. The little daughter has saved my parents. I think what makes me uncomfortable in this novel is the paragraphs where the parents forget about the heroine. But what makes me most uncomfortable is that the parents changed the photos of themselves and the heroine. , And another one is that the heroine's room is completely gone, and it is said that all the dolls that the heroine likes are thrown away, and the photos are replaced, maybe to prevent the little daughter from having some kind of thoughts, but you can make it clear to the little daughter that she is your sister, and isn't a group photo just a family photo? Even if the heroine has died. But they are still the heroine's family. Even if the little daughter heals them and allows them to get out of the despair of losing their biological daughter, I think the author thinks too lightly of family love. It is impossible for parents to forget their biological daughter in just a few years. I don't know if the heroine's parents have saved things about the heroine as souvenirs and the photo that belongs to them. Maybe, I am not sure. I think the only shortcoming of this book is that the author writes about family love. It's too simple, and the writing is too ruthless. Even if the heroine finally looks at her relatives, lovers and friends, and is happy in the end, I don't know if the heroine's parents left anything of the heroine, but family affection is irreplaceable. Even if the little daughter is not her biological child, she has been raised since she was a child and will definitely have affection and love. However, her parents' longing for the heroine has changed from attachment to longing. I believe that the heroine can be happy when she sees the people she loves, and she will definitely feel happy.

Everyone will move forward, only Song Yan, she was left behind when she was 19 years old

Why did Xu Jingyu not call puppy Yanyan but Song Yan in the end? This is the saddest thing to me.

I accidentally clicked in and read it in the middle of the night. I felt a lot and understood the author's intention. Things are impermanent and time is ruthless. People who stay in time and walk out of the long river of time will gradually fade away. Of course, living people will miss it, but it will not become an obsession. The author's expression here should be a little confusing. Forgetting and obsession are not the same, so there is some ambiguity. The living people will still occasionally think of the lost people, but life will still go on. In fact, life is only a few decades, so what if it is eighty years? In human history, it is fleeting, and in the forgotten years, many people's ups and downs, life and death are buried. Cherish the people in front of you, cherish the moment, and forgive the impermanence of things in the world, because we will meet each other sooner or later, because we will all go to the way home.

But Song Yan died when she loved him most.

I finished reading it in the middle of the night and was really sad. Can't stop crying. What saddens me the most is that after reading this article, I will also forget her. I won't always remember it, and it's depressing.

I would rather see the setting where the male protagonist dies for love. It's already a novel, so why is it still so painful... Yanyan is so cute, and it's really sad to see her forgotten. I don't want the male protagonist to get married and have a daughter, and I don't want the male protagonist to forget the female protagonist. Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh Can you arrange a rebirth story? The two people meet again with memories and live a beautiful life together.

I really felt depressed when I watched it. Maybe I can't let go. I feel regretful. People who forget are still not obsessed with Song Yan enough. I feel that although everyone needs a new life, I think a new life does not mean forgetting.

So why should it be forgotten? At least Song Yan's parents shouldn't change the photos...

Xu Jingyu did not love Song Yan for the rest of his life, but Song Yan did love Xu Jingyu for the rest of his life.

I was depressed. I was really sad when Yan Yan was forgotten. I seemed to be able to feel the feeling of powerlessness. It was very painful but I had to compromise.

It's uncomfortable, this is the most realistic ending

I have thought 10,000 times that I hope everyone can live a pain-free life, forget everything and move on. For the first time, I realized how painful it must be to be forgotten. Obviously I hope that everyone can forget it, and I obviously hope that everyone can move forward without any burden. How painful it must be when people gradually forget it. Use your own pain in exchange for other people's looking forward. In theory, it can be considered a profit.

So sad. It's been a while since I've seen a story that was so thorough. At first I thought, it would be great if Yanyan could be resurrected for 49 days like the heroine of the Korean drama "Hello, Goodbye Mom". For no other reason than to allow her to say goodbye to her parents. After all, she died so suddenly that she didn't even have time to say "goodbye" to her parents and friends. But think about it carefully, if Yan Yan is really like the heroine of "Hello Goodbye Mom" ​​who was briefly resurrected and died again, her parents will be completely collapsed... Yan Yan is so kind, and she definitely doesn't want to see such a thing, so although the current ending is cruel to her, it is also the best ending.

So nothing is forever

It's so uncomfortable. It made me cry to death when I watched it at night. I feel so sorry for the heroine. She is really the little sun. Wuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu

I feel like I don't know what to say after reading this…

The writing is really good. I am a person who never cries when reading a book, but my eyes still got wet after reading it.

I once read an article where after the female protagonist died, the male protagonist died in love 10 years later, but I feel like this ending is more realistic.

Time is too long, obsession is too short.

It's so annoying, just to torture for the sake of torture.

2023.8.18 20:19 Wish me all my wishes

Woooooooooooooooooo

I think it's quite unfair and unfair to my wife. Besides, we've fallen in love so deeply. How can we just let it go?

Why don't I remember the first time I read this book? Did I remember it wrong? I remember that at the end, the male protagonist pretended to be, but in fact he was not married. Or was it another novel?

A bit cruel! But it looks good

Does liberation mean forgetting? Only one way?

Well. It's so sad to be forgotten, I keep crying

Alas, I don't like the sad ending. Why can't it be he?