The Everyday Life of Saving Up Time

I come from a single-parent family. My father chose to divorce my mother because I was a girl. At that time, family planning in my hometown was very strict. His job also prevented him from having a second child. Although my mother later got married again, she divorced my stepfather when I was in junior high school for various reasons. From then on, I lived with my mother. My family was not in a big city, just a small third-tier county. My studies were not very good. I had almost never been to a city outside the county. Of course, after I was 25 years old, I was urged to get married in various ways, and I went through various blind dates. Even after I broke my leg in a car accident when I was 28 years old, my mother's first reaction was: What should I do, you will not be able to get married. Of course, I got married in the end, three months after a blind date when I was 30 years old. It's hard to imagine what I was thinking at the time. I might have given up on myself and thought that the worst possible outcome would be a divorce soon. My feelings towards humans are really weak. He doesn't even need emotional responses from others, including his own mother. But I am still afraid, after all, I have to live with another person from now on. Fortunately, he is indeed a good person. A while before I got married, one of my sister online friends told me that life is your own business, don't care what other people's marriages are like, even if that person is your mother, the most important thing is how you want to live your life, take your own actions, and make your life the way you want in the future. This seemingly trivial statement really inspired me at that time. Although I am not sure whether the life I am living now is what I want, it has indeed made me better. Of course, the other person is a good person, which is really a lucky thing. I believe you can also have this luck. Try to live your own life well. Even in the space of two people, you can live as comfortably as when you are alone. You don't have to cater to another person and have a sense of belonging that belongs to you.

I'm so envious. I also want to go out and play, but I spend the National Day holiday at home with my baby. The baby is indeed very cute, but I want to go on a trip, the kind that is just for relaxation, without shopping or special forces, and maybe even without any purpose. But it won't work in the short term. Your text is very suitable for vlog narration. It would be great if jj could put pictures. I want to see the scenery you have seen.

I feel healed, thank you author

When I usually feel a little powerless about studying, I will unconsciously stop writing my homework and start to think about life negatively and carefully, but always to no avail.

Very interesting, come on and hit the workers

The teacher's writing style is very good. Maybe you can try publishing? The physical experience is really not like reading a book casually or passionately on a mobile phone, but printed on paper, whether it is a thick book or a magazine, sitting at the desk in the afternoon, drinking tea and reading slowly

Happy New Year. I was so busy at the end of the year that I hardly opened jj. I didn't expect there would be an update. Although I didn't see this article until today, it doesn't stop me from saying to you: Happy New Year. It feels like days are accumulated from little things, and a little bit of happiness in life can warm the whole year. I also like the time when I work hard to gain a sense of accomplishment, such as unlocking a puzzle without reading the guide, immersed myself in editing a video to repeatedly adjust the data for a connecting special effect, and finally see the finished product, such as meditating hard on a picture and finally making a design that fits the idea, such as insisting on watching a movie or TV series without reading spoilers, fast forwarding, and not being disturbed by external objects. Spending time for a goal is also a feeling of slowly savoring time. I hope that in the new year, I can still encounter all kinds of wonderful, warm and delicious times. Again: Happy New Year!

It makes me want to cry. I was also anxious about the actual work, worried about the collection that would not increase no matter how much I wrote, I didn't dare to relax and have fun, and I struggled to force myself to write out the results. I'm so hungry for positive feedback, even just a little bit. I never knew how to describe my state until I saw what you wrote: I am still living in the past thinking mode and used to setting KPIs for myself. A sudden realization. May we not lock ourselves in a dark office building.

How nice. I was pregnant and vomited every day. . . Weak, eh...

The last few paragraphs are very touching, and I wish you a happy life in 2023~