Fourteen Years of Time Difference

I felt like laughing and crying at the same time. This article has become a god in my heart. After reading it last night, this article was all over my mind in my dreams, in my hazy consciousness, and when I couldn't sleep. It was a mess, so I'm going to ramble on. This article is different from the love described in various Lily articles I have read: they all love themselves more than their lovers, but they can't let go of each other. Or to be more precise: lovers and ideals are their left atrium and right atrium. If love conflicts with ideals and life paths, some of them find the balance between flying and returning in time and space travel, some are entangled in love and hate for their entire lives, and some bury their youthful confusion deep in their hearts, hiding their courageless love under the great friendship. Yes, this is not what is called "traditional" love: true love is to love others more than yourself, to balance your life for love, to abandon some of the things you originally wanted, or even to simply regard love as an ideal. Or you are mine and I am yours, giving myself to you, etc. Nonono, the bird said: "No, you belong to yourself." After reading this, I thought that the two people separated in 2008 and abandoned each other for their own lives. The reality is very cruel, and I can't bear the cruelty. But then I thought, wouldn't I do this? If love blocks the way of ideals, I will choose my own life. The women of the new era in this article, who are successful or frustrated in love, have struggled in society, experienced the misfortunes of their original families and the cruel baptism of life, have always grasped that one thing - there must be one thing that cannot be let go in this life. The abandoned things - their sparkling selves: the independent bird who makes money, the sun who has a hard time at first, the young lady who escapes from marriage, the running whirlwind, the little flower who gets married and divorces, Wen Jing who dares to divorce, the reed who insists on music, and the vast ocean who builds the country. The youth group is consciously or unconsciously contrasting with their mothers' generation, between women who are trapped in marriages and unable to escape, and women who dare to pursue new emotional relationships, love and leave, respect women! We share the cold wave, the wind and thunder, the thunderbolt; We share mist, liulan, and hauni. As if separated forever, But they are dependent on each other for life. Speaking of emotions, I have to mention an important theme of this article, "redemption". This is different from the bad redemption in various Lily articles I have read: intervention by external forces always leads to the same goal in different ways, and the role of love in it is to make the lover become a better self, and only oneself can save oneself: Bird got a script for Taiyang but was still rejected. Bird's arrival made Taiyang redder, but it also planted the thunder of fate and made her fall into a trough. But the bird always changed something, planting seeds of beauty and bitterness at the same time. They made an appointment to meet again in the future, which gave her a life thought that she could not give up on the snow-capped mountains. Nothing can stop the wind of destiny on the snow-capped mountains, but the real destiny lies in Siren's hands. Although the living heart was eroded by the cold heart, it was still beautiful and original, and it was not frozen. This time, love made her self warmer and stronger. Looking at the other side, the sun's rays penetrate through the thick clouds, warming the cold-eyed bird, but this is not a traditional story that allows the avoidant to slowly open up his guard. The warmth of the sun makes Bird fall in love with her and soothes those dead tears, but Bird is not a traditional avoidant. She is inherently cool, and she dares to love and hate. Even though she expected Siren to discover that they were aunt and nephew, she still took the initiative to kiss him. Since she decided to love, she went forward without hesitation. She questioned, made trouble, and prepared to travel again. To be honest, I personally like Miss Bird very much. I like Siren very much but I like Miss Bird even more. She is super cool! A person who works hard to escape the control of DS always has that kind of fierceness and vigor in her body. The workplace has not smoothed her edge, and love has not made her lose herself. She still sticks to herself in the adult world. So, bird 0 is an immortal product hahahahahahahahahahahaha who doesn't want to see the cold and sonorous being taxed in the new year. Back to the topic, this is not one of those cliche stories about using love to influence a cold sister, or using words or actions to help lovers grow. Growth is one's own subject, and the only one who can save oneself is oneself. Love makes us a better version of ourselves. Life is full of seas, the only way to save yourself is to love yourself. Let me digress a bit: After reading this article, I really want to travel back in time and go back to junior high school to wake up and watch "Your Name". "Hey, you have grown up. Stop reading fairy tales about heterosexual princes saving princesses. It's time to watch "Fourteen Years of Time Difference"!" In fact, I have also come into contact with the so-called "children of second parents" in real life, and the people who grew up in different encounters are also very different. Some have been independent since childhood because of the "finance father", and some have become soft-bodied women who depend on men. There are also those whose "finance father" went to prison and was abandoned by the second mother and was fostered in a small mountain village but passed the exam. Birds are really rare. In my opinion, the best Les novels should not only describe same-sex feelings well, but also criticize reality. The exposure of bad patriarchy is one of the depths of this article.

The narrative timeline is a little confusing to read, but I was deeply moved after reading it. I admire this view of love. If it were me, I would definitely put everything aside and stay.

I'm still curious, apart from that house, what is the opportunity for time travel? As long as two people are in that house, can they meet each other through time?

Finish scattering flowers [fireworks][fireworks][fireworks] It's so beautiful [crying] [crying] [crying] Birdman wants to live a long life

I like this story, I like birds, I like the sun [kiss][kiss][kiss]

I feel so happy after watching it. I was very moved by the protagonists' views on love😭Miss Bird and Siren from all time and space are both 99.

The author writes about realism in a very sci-fi way. Everyone is very vivid, and they live like a record of life. If it weren't for time travel, it would not be possible. This novel is like recording the stories of relatives and friends. The ending haunted me like a ghost and left me frustrated. Life is full of seas, and we always want to pursue certainty. This story is cruelly realistic. Different variables have brought many changes to life. People in parallel worlds seem to be heading in the same direction... After thinking about it, this ending is the most appropriate. Without dreams, there is no absolute beauty. The birds and the sun may be the only pair in this world.

Does it mean that Xiaoniao and Xiaodu will meet again in every parallel time and space, but the results will be different in this way because of their current experiences?

I must have read it two years ago, and I started looking for articles again this year, so I revisited it again. Wow, really well written! The language is so lacking that I can only say good good, very good! ! 6

Oh my God, thank you for meeting me! I read three books in three days and I loved them all. Wish the bird and the sun happiness! [Purple Sugar]kswl