The Gravity of Rainbows

After reading it, I really felt that the male and female protagonists in the book were sick. The male protagonist said that the female protagonist was unwilling to leave her parents because she couldn't live without a stable and comfortable life. He thought that the female protagonist valued money, but he was willing to cut off contact with his mother. Why should he ask the female protagonist to do something that he couldn't do? Not to mention how long ago they were in a relationship, and the male protagonist asked the female protagonist to leave her parents. This is inappropriate pua. The heroine is even more self-righteous and has no self-respect at all. She has never seen a master's degree student who claims to be a feminist using her reputation to vouch for others. She has also never seen a feminist support the two of them when they see women around them experiencing domestic violence. I have also never seen a female master's degree indiscriminately sever ties with her parents for the sake of love, even knowing that she is an adopted child. As for Han Qing, he is also confused, but it can be said that he was deeply affected by Qin Feng's PUA. Not to mention Qin Feng, Li Mingzhu's mother was absolutely right. Phoenix man + machismo + violent man + a stinky man with no ability. Alas, after talking so much, I remembered the time when this article was written. In fact, I can understand that the feminism of about 10 years ago was indeed not as profound as it is now, and the thinking at that time was not as open as it is now. Plus Reading this article, the heroine really feels like Xu Qin and Xu Qin. I wonder what the female authors thought at that time. Is the heroine who leaves the parents of her beloved children really so attractive for love?

One more thing, I actually still don't understand why this book is called Rainbow's Gravity. The rainbow hangs in mid-air, higher than the tree and lower than the bright moon. It is colorful, gorgeous and dreamy. Does it mean that the heroine was too well protected by her family before and was ignorant of worldly affairs and too naive? And gravity refers to the various life changes in the article. Is this innocent girl falling to the ground and seeing the true face of life?

Although this article is nearly 20 years old, it is still valuable today. When I watched it 10 years ago, I thought the heroine was a rainbow best friend and the supporting actress. In fact, the heroine was a rainbow mother and the male protagonist's mother was the supporting actress. Now that my daughter has grown up, I can better sympathize with Rainbow's mother's situation. Every mother who feels that she can control the direction of her daughter's life and future destiny will feel disappointed and fearful when she sees that her excellent daughter will repeat her own old path and go the way she came. In the end, she has no choice but to accept her fate. This book is a great work of realism. It is "The Moon and Sixpence" for women in marriage and love. Highly recommend the TV adaptation.

The sad ending is hard to say whether this is a he or a be. Caihong and Han Qing are the two extreme endings of the combination of a girl with a high status and a boy with a low status. The male protagonist still has the blessing of many male protagonists, but the mother of the heroine still strongly opposes it. In real life, it is more likely that Han Qing's husband is a noble son from a poor family. The ending of Han Qing's pairing was both expected and unexpected. Just ten minutes before I wrote this comment, I just saw #Woman Wanted to Break Up and Her Boyfriend Cut Her Throat in Revenge# on Weibo (this title is useless for complaining, revenge? It's so deliberately offensive!)

After reading it, I let out a long sigh and looked up to the sky and screamed. Why? Maybe this is life, always full of sudden ups and downs.

I'm really speechless. What's the ending?

You have to ask Su Donglin to support you. What do you want to do, author? There is no clear explanation between Su Donglin, Qin, and the heroine.

I always thought that Dingrou was that kind of girl: she was born in the middle class, her parents were teachers or civil servants, she had a good environment since she was a child, she excelled in her studies, she had a smooth journey, followed the steps, and went abroad to study as a graduate student in middle school and university. . . Absolutely artistic young man + petty bourgeois sentiment + a little bit of mysophobia, a little obsessed with appearance, the marriage partner is also like-minded and well-matched. In short, according to the values ​​​​we accept, it seems that people do no wrong and live in the middle and upper classes of society. After reading the book Caihong today, I can't help but wonder how someone who has not received any education in the life of ordinary people can write such a life-oriented novel, and he really wrote Caihong Ma so well. Rainbow Mom's remarks are true life. There is no talent in life. Academic level is nothing but daily necessities. Dingrou has convinced you! ! !

It took me two days to read it. My heart is very heavy. This ending is so unfair to Caihong's parents. Her mother's methods may be questionable, but there is no lack of love for Caihong. Can Caihong turn a blind eye to her parents because of a so-called guilt? Has she spent her whole life hurting the people who love her while feeling guilty about this and that? What should I say about her? She is here to repay her debt of love to her parents, right? ! Her father is still here, but in her heart F City is already an empty city.

After reading it, I found that the most outstanding thing about this novel is Mingzhu's mother. Her past and present, the profound meaning of her words, and her snobbishness and bitterness are all so real and helpless, which makes people pity.