A Friend of Mine

The so-called destiny At first I thought this article was about a mistake, but later I found out that this article was actually more about fate, whether it is fate or evil, it is not up to anyone. Ma Jinghong's bitter love is destined. For him, Ding Ruowang is not so much his destiny as his sin. Ding Ruowang in the article is a typical temperamental man. For him, brothers are brothers for life, and lovers are for life. Therefore, Ma Jinghong lost to Su Fangyi with just one look, the look when he first met Ding. This one glance determined that one could only be a brother, while the other would be held in his heart for the rest of his life. And Ma Jinghong is an extremely clear-minded master. He will never do useless work. He understands Ding Ruowang, so he understands that he is destined to be bound to the identity of a brother in this life and cannot take another step beyond the limit. Romantic things are often cruel, especially to smart people. Therefore, the romantic Ding Ruowang is destined to become Ma Jinghong's sin in this life. For Ding Ruowang, Su Fangyi's appearance was not only not a sin, but also a fate for which he had to thank God. Ding Ruowang is just a romantic creature with extraordinary talents. At first, I thought he was a great hero who regarded fame and wealth as rubbish, but later I found out that in fact, all he cared about was personal pleasure and revenge. A chivalrous person has the world at heart, and a sense of responsibility is a must. Whether it is the real family, country, martial arts, or the illusory moral rights and wrongs, this man does not care too much. What he wants most is his own happiness. According to his words, he is the immortal in the sky, and everything is beyond his sight. Of course, he does have the ability to banish the immortal, so he deserves to be happy for the rest of his life. But the banished immortals are just looking at the scenery, and their hearts may not be as carefree as they appear. Otherwise, why would so many gods be vying to come down to earth? Just for love. The romantic Ding Ruowang was simply born for this word, so the happiest and least regretful thing in Ding Ruowang's life was undoubtedly meeting Su Fangyi. At first, I thought Ding Kuliansu was really pitiful, but as I read on, I thought, what is the point of asking for benevolence and getting benevolence? After all, for a romantic like him, love is destined to be love at first sight, and love at first sight is destined to be rare, so it is really a blessing for him to meet Su Fangyi. Being able to find him and stay with him is already a blessing for three lifetimes. As for the other things, it is completely unimportant. Therefore, in Ding Ruowang's life, he has a close brother and an unforgettable lover. For a person like him, it is really a kind of perfection. Although this kind of perfection can only be called perfection, because he is not Su Fangyi's only one. But Su Fangyi's only one will never exist. Because Su Fangyi actually only has himself in his heart, and he is a ruthless person. In fact, I have a good impression of Su Fangyi, because in the world of mortals, among those crazy men and resentful women, one more Ding Ruowang is not much, and one less Su Fanyi is not much. Su Fangyi is a sober and ruthless person, but you can't say he is a bad person. After all, it is not possible to say in just a few words whether a violent machine that is easily instigated is a blessing or a curse to a country. Therefore, I personally do not think that Su Fangyi's plan to plot against Wulin and make him submit to the imperial court is a treacherous and evil act. Although Su Fangyi planned his whole life, he only contributed to the country (of course, it can also be said to be for the court), so he can be regarded as a pillar, although he was a bit unscrupulous. Therefore, what Ma Jinghong never forgot until the end was Su's plan for Ding Ruowang's life, and other things, to be honest, were just different ways. For this, Ma, as a sensible person, knew that he had no position to blame. So Ding Ruowang met Su Fangyi, which was definitely Ding Ruowang's fate. And Su Fanyi's encounter with Ding Ruowang will not be Su Fanyi's fault. Because for a ruthless person, no one can be his fault, and of course, no one can be his destiny. But a life without emotion may not be a perfect life. Whether the next person is perfect depends on whether you get what you asked for. Obviously, Su Fangyi has got what he asked for. The treacherous ministers who should be punished have been punished, the martial arts world that should be conquered has also surrendered, and the court has favored him, so his life is quite complete. (However, I am still a little surprised by Su Fangyi's numerous emotional puppets, because he is a bit suspected of being a heartthrob, but fortunately the author did not write much about it, so I will just ignore it XD.) The most imperfect one is undoubtedly Ma Jinghong. Romantic and reckless Ding Ruowang met Su Fangyi, and his life was fulfilled. Su Fangyi, who was sober and ruthless, worked hard every step of the way to seek what he could, and his life was fulfilled. Only Ma Jinghong, who is equally sober but affectionate, realizes that what he wants in life is nothing more than unavailability, so he is destined to never be fulfilled. Everything in the world cannot escape the word "destiny", so the sad Ma Jinghong is also destined to become the tragic protagonist of the tragic novel, and has received tears of sympathy from countless readers. I wonder if this is a small consolation for his incomplete life~^ ^ Because I read this article with emotion, it was a bit sloppy at first, so please forgive me for any mistakes or omissions. --Moving from the post, this is a book review that is more in line with my personal feelings. As a side note, Hanaomi Kuni is also one of my favorite books. Rather than defining Su with simple words like "scumbag", "Jack Su" and "heartthrob", I quite understand his charm. "Seeing the light of the sun, the world is sunny." Such a sour saying that laments the brightness of the world and is loved by literati, was very touching when he recited it. Because the brightness of this world is exactly what he tried his best to shape.

The last time I read this book was 10 years ago. I still remember the feeling I had when I read it 10 years ago. I was so shocked and tortured that I couldn't help myself. When I read it again 10 years later, I can only say that experience is a good thing. It has made me more mature and see things more comprehensively. I will not comment on the emotional entanglements of the characters in the article. I am not the audience. What I admire again is the author's exquisite conception and unique writing style. Onlookers don't have to be sad for Ma Xiaoshe's unrequited love. It's his own choice. When a person clearly knows that he loves others more than himself, the choice he makes for this love is what he deserves. Ma Xiaoshe can see clearly, but if he can't get out of this relationship, then he should taste the bitterness and sweetness of his choice. Bystanders are not qualified and do not need to pity him. Just respect him. This is the greatest kindness to Ma Xiaoshe. Ding Ruowang also loves thoroughly. This person has abandoned his self and dignity and is willing to be a dog or a slave. In the eyes of the person he loves, he can only be defined in this way. Love is okay, but when love goes against his own moral insistence, if he chooses to be blind and only see love and ignore everything, then he cannot be regarded as an independent personality. He is just a tool and a plaything. This person is really incomprehensible and puts himself in this position. Finally, let's talk about Su. Su conquered Ding Ruowang like an eagle. I don't know if he is sincere (I feel like he may not). I can only say that he is a skilled man and bold. The various methods and pain in the process became the bargaining chip for his success. Then he got a useful licking dog, and that was also him. If Su Ganzhi Ruyi was really just using the medal during the process, we can only say that he is a hunter who is proficient in human nature. If during the process, he was also in a trance and did not distinguish between true and false feelings and suffered for Ding, then it can only be said that it was like a training falcon being pecked in the eye, and he was blind to see whether he was blind or not, and whether he could bear the consequences. In short, love is a good thing, but it is by no means the best thing. The most precious thing for people is self-respect. When pursuing love, you should retain your own bottom line and principles. How can someone who doesn't even love himself be responded to by the one he loves? Love is a healthy emotion. It will make you better. If it makes you worse, you have to believe that it is shackles and deception. Not being loved is not terrible. What is terrible is losing yourself in order to be loved. I hope that every partner who pursues love will have a strong enough inner self-consistency and self-love. Love is good, but it is just the icing on the cake. You can live your own wonderful life without love.

The friend updates were all in 2009, and I wasn't even in elementary school at that time. It was so clean at that time, the air, trees and language were all flourishing. It's the last day of 2024, and I'm still worried about Hua Guo and my friends, and I can't explain why I'm sad. It's clearly confirmed that it's HE, and updates have been stopped long ago. It's time to calm down long ago. I still hate myself for not being born ten years earlier. I hate it so much that I want to scream at night. There is a feeling that the lover I was destined to love ten years ago did not find me, and ten years later he died and was left with only the legend of powerlessness. My 6-year-old friend updated it, and when I was 11, I finished the Flower Kingdom. I was scratching my head for them when I was 21 and wished I could travel back to the millennium. I don't know if I will be able to see the story of the Southland when I was 31, but I hope I will have grown up enough by then to bear all the consequences. I was shocked to realize that after writing this paragraph, I let go of something in my heart - I realized that my great injustice towards the end of the Flower Country was largely due to my inability to accept the sudden end of good things. This was originally a kind of naivety that should not be had by those who have not grown up, and also that the Flower Country has surpassed my writing, even... I can't imagine the boundaries, but it is so similar to the world of desire in my heart when I was a child. I saw that my youth could not come back, and I did not grow into what I once believed I would grow into. So when I saw the flower country, it was like seeing a savior, and I actually gave birth to the fantasy of going back to the past. This kind of emotion, this kind of story, this kind of writing style, even the pen name is wonderful, all these are in line with my subconscious mind. I see it as the person I once dreamed of becoming, so I don't accept it. I don't want to see such a dream shattered. Tomorrow is a new year, and I don't know what maturity looks like yet, but I dare not just convince myself that everything is like this and there is no need to look into it in detail - in that case, I will really no longer be young, and I will completely leave the fertile land of the Flower Country. Am I looking forward to seeing a sequel? It's good to watch the second part once in a while, but I don't seem to be that obsessed with it anymore. This is the sense of loss. This kind of bold and romantic way of asking readers to discuss topics together, you are really a ruthless person who is extremely smart and full of aura. Finally, I take a long breath and wish Cha Cha and readers a happy new year.

Alas, the last chapter was locked, so some of the divine commentaries were no longer available to anyone, which is a pity. But it's really sad that after so many years, the buzz in the comment section is really different from what it is now. Many people at that time were emotional about the "immortal" love between me and Shou, and they were all speaking out for their stories, but no one had a persuasive voice for Ma Xiaoshe. As a result, I was so hurt by his experience that I couldn't let it out, and finally left suddenly. Until later the divine commentary appeared. And now, everyone has finally realized that the love story between the attacker and the receiver is actually an extremely twisted one, alas.

The last chapter is normal, why is it locked? However, what Xiao Snake regrets the most is that he commented too much on Su Zha's Buddhist scriptures. It can be seen that cannon fodder in relationships really all have one characteristic, that is, they can't find the mission target accurately. They think that everything will be fine if they defeat their love rival. In fact, the fundamental problem is that Ding Ruo doesn't love him, otherwise there will be nothing to do with others.

Why is it that little snake has been dead for seventy or eighty years and still asks him if he has forgotten Su Zha? How could he forget, just like you can't forget him. He wished he could be used and driven to death by Su Zha, all he wanted was to be by his side.

Ma Xiaoshe, Ding Ruowang, this is the reason why the 108 cannon fodder attacks of you are not as good as the main attack of Yu Jian. The old man knew Su Fangyi's face, so he didn't hesitate for a second, he just wanted to release Red Eagle quickly to preserve his vitality. [Shut up]

After hearing about the film for a long time, I came to watch it. I have to say that the emotional creation is really top-notch, but I also felt really uncomfortable watching it. I almost got mad to death halfway through. I originally thought that if I were Ding, I couldn't allow such a person who insulted my feelings to coexist with me in the world. Then I thought, yes, I can't be Ding. Ding's ending was ultimately his own choice. He has completely given up, surrendered, and completely given up on himself. Why should he ask others to respect and love him? Maybe he is cheap. So I no longer had any hatred for Su, but just a light feeling that this person and all the events around him had nothing to do with me. They were essentially just a narcissist and a bunch of slaves under his mental control. The entanglement was nothing more than those stories, which were boring. I can't sympathize with horses either, or in other words, I can't sympathize with people who have completely lost their dignity in love, but this book, in just twenty chapters, is full of such "idiots". The character design is very precise, and the writing style is good. It's worth learning, but it's not to your liking. It's mainly because of the different concepts. It's a pity.

Su Fangyi really, really likes you. 😭 😭 What's wrong with Su Zha? These bad and bad feelings are all voluntary. You can't blame Xiao Su for not seizing the opportunity. [Rolling eyes]

I really want to see the relationship between Ning Ning and Shen Ziwan!!! Why is there no relationship line between the two of them in the Flower Kingdom I watched?