Miss Ren, the Golden Girl

After reading this article and the comments, I suddenly realized that if Linghu Chong and Ren Yingying had a different sex, it would look very familiar, the rhythm of the overbearing leader falling in love with me.

Yingying is my favorite Jin Yong heroine. I think she is not necessarily a well-intentioned person, but she must be a somewhat evil person - the little princess of a cult has experienced the death of her parents since she was a child, was raised by a psychologically twisted uncle (the leader of the cult is the highest), and is held up by a group of evil people to tell the truth. Can such a (bear) child stop being evil when he grows up? Some people's lives must not be worth mentioning to her. When Wu Ba came down from the post, she raised her hand to kill. I didn't feel the need to defend her. In her world, this was normal. I can especially understand the moment when she fell in love with Linghu Chong. That is falling in love with a beautiful story, a profound love, and a deeply affectionate man - who among us Danmei readers has not experienced this? My reading of Yingying is on the contrary. She is not a overthinker. She will give if she likes her, kill if she is annoyed, and just follow the chicken if she marries her. Bai Fumei, whose pride and sense of superiority are engraved in her bones, actually has nothing to do with humble calculations at every step. When encountering something, just devote yourself to it and not be afraid of compensation - because you have been able to get everything effortlessly since you were a child, and there is never anything to be regretful about. You don't have the mentality of being afraid of not being able to compensate, so you can work hard regardless of your own life. It's just that this person who is desperate for his own life still has to take into account the sense of balance and beauty. "Making things beautiful" is a noble instinct. No matter how low he puts himself, he still has to bypass Yue Lingshan. He has never had a head-on conflict with Yue Lingshan, and he still has to take the initiative to save her, which invisibly creates a distinction between superior and inferior. ——She is simply a model main wife, born to be the protagonist. I think Linghu Chong's feelings for the two women represent the two stages of a man's love: impulsive and profound first love, and a rational and wealthy partner. You need to be with someone for a long time, and you can also form positive energy in your life. You need more bonds besides hormones. Responsibility and friendship are naturally the big ones. The story of Linghu Chong and Yingying is just a metaphor for marriage. But is a wife inferior to first love? Life will slowly reveal the answer.

I also like Linghu Chong, but Yingying, I don't think it's worth it. For such a strange woman to set up such a trap all over the sky, she must have thought it over carefully. To say that love is irrational, as long as she is in the trap, but she has arranged it before the trap, then she will not fall into it later, because she has set up a dead trap. As strong-willed and ruthless as she is, she will not be knocked down by bruises. Of course she will be hurt in love, let alone unrequited love and pursuit of love. Precisely because Linghu Chong is a man of temperament, Yingying hits his weak spot. It can be said that the ending is seen from the beginning. Because there is no one in the world who can love Linghu Chong so much, so Linghu Chong will definitely reciprocate with the same feelings. Even if it is not love, what is the difference between love and love? Linghu Chong could only bow his head. He was the only one in this life.

Yingying is the holy aunt of the Sun and Moon God Sect, and her father is imprisoned at the bottom of the West Lake. No one in the sect is a vegetarian, and it doesn't matter if the methods are not ruthless and scheming~! Disregarding human life is also a problem for the educational environment...

The comments downstairs have cleared up the last bit of confusion in my mind~~ Speaking of Chong Ying, as one of the CPs with the deepest love and obsession in my golden book, it has always been rare for others to say that Linghu Chong's feelings for Miss Ren were calculated by Miss Ren, and I also don't like to hear others say that Linghu Chong's feelings for Ren are only gratitude and not love~~ Miss Ren is a girl who falls in love with a man she likes. She is very affectionate and willing to do everything for him. The girl is so powerful that all the stars are admiring her. If she accidentally leaks her children's thoughts to others, it must be a ploy to consolidate the plot? Miss Ren is considerate, ladylike, and disdainful of old jealousy. I think this is an example of her maturity and rationality, understanding and trusting Linghu enough, and she is worthy of being his soul mate. She has such a personality, and she is sincere and wholehearted in protecting her relationship. How come she is always interpreted by others as being deeply scheming and powerful with such pretentious calculations? Could it be that only those who are constantly jealous like Xia Qingqing and Huang Rong can be called the true temperament of a girl in love? Or are only the Lingsu girls who are affectionate and unrequited and risk their own lives in vain to be loved? Because Miss Ren has successfully harvested her love, all the deep affection, all kinds of sacrifices, and all kinds of generosity are inevitably clouded by speculations of calculation? In addition, how many people's first love is the last one? How many people actually hanged themselves from the tree after their first love? Because of the beauty of the first love, first love will always have a special corner in my heart because of its unforgettable memories and nostalgia. Linghu's affectionate character may amplify the emotional pain of first love, but the above does not prevent him from starting a new relationship after the first love ends. Linghu Chong's emotional pain for Yue Lingshan is real, but I don't think it will affect his feelings towards anyone else. The eldest lady's emotion is love. With Linghu's character, he will be grateful to those who are good to him and make sacrifices through fire and water. But it is unimaginable to me to use so-called love to compensate for kindness. If his love for Miss Ren is not more than that for his junior sister, how could he give up the freedom he values most and marry Miss Ren? How could Linghu not understand that marrying Miss Ren, who was most in love with his junior sister, would be the greatest disrespect and betrayal to Miss Ren, who was so kind to him? How could he be such a scumbag and such a truly negative person? Listening to misinterpretations in the city of Luoyang, is it possible that there is no sense of mutual understanding, mutual respect, and mutual respect? An involuntary kiss by the river outside Wuba Gang, could it be that there is no hint of a crush on the opposite sex? Due to fate, Linghu was addicted to love and sadness at that time, and was decadent without realizing it. I have no energy to elaborate on all the subsequent events~~ The long-lasting love based on knowing and cherishing each other and supporting each other has always been something that I appreciate. Even though I know that everyone has different experiences and thoughts, and the same views and interpretations are very demanding, I still can't help but come out to argue. . .

I think this actually has something to do with a person's positioning of themselves in a relationship. In this relationship, Ren Yingying actually positioned herself on the strong side, rather than the weak side who "loves you to the dust", so she can give firmly. In fact, this is more like a handsome and rich male protagonist infinitely pampering a novice female protagonist, rather than a weak female protagonist who sacrifices everything for the male protagonist miserably. This is very different. In fact, I always feel that love is just a feeling, which gives people the motivation to fall in love, but the process and ending of love are determined by things other than love - including people's personality, IQ, behavior patterns, etc. How you love someone has little to do with the depth of your love, but has a lot to do with your own outlook on life and worldview. If you feel in your heart that you are the weak one and need the love of the other party, then the slightest mistake of the other party will make you complain endlessly; if you are firm-minded, have a full meaning in life, and have the consciousness of taking responsibility, then you will have enough heart to accept the imperfections in love - so Linghu Chong's feelings for Yue Lingshan will not become a thorn in Yingying's heart. She has enough, and she doesn't care about losing a little bit. So I want to say that I like gentle and tough strong women. I like "To the Oak". There are so many women in Jin Yong's novels and I like Ren Yingying the best, none of them.

Linghu Chong is also my favorite Jin Yong male protagonist. But I also like Yingying very much. Although I have read "Swordsman" many times, I didn't think too much when I read it. I just felt that these two, one crazy and the other stupid, were born to be a pair. I don't agree with the interpretation of Yingying's love as clever means. Let us assume that there are many paparazzi in the arena. Especially the rumors about a young woman with a noble status spread faster and faster. And Yingying is not a love expert. Maybe she accidentally inquired about the news about Hu Chong, so she has the discernment to know how to please the superior. Is it aggrieved to fall in love with Linghu Chong? I don't think so. Because the other person values ​​feelings, only true love can impress the other person. The holy aunt's status, power, young and beautiful appearance meant nothing to Linghu Chong. Similarly, for the holy aunt who has had everything in the world since she was very young, only true love is what she wants. I believe that there will be no young talents in the Holy Church who would like to show their love to her. But she met Linghu Chong. Maybe it was just pity at first, then envy, why can't I meet such a real person? Although it's a little late, but since... Little junior sister doesn't want you, then why don't you look at me? The junior sister is a wound that cannot be erased from Linghu Chong's heart. It took more than 10 years to engrave. So why not spend a lifetime forgetting it. Ren Yingying will eventually leave a deeper mark in his heart than his junior sister.

People with high IQ may not necessarily have high emotional intelligence. People with high emotional intelligence may not necessarily be so-called scheming. The most loved women in Jin Yong's books are Ren Yingying and Huang Rong. Ren Yingying grew up in a place like Heimuya, and there is no doubt about her decisiveness and resourcefulness in killing. However, as a young girl with no older women around her, it is normal for her to be emotionally shy. The two plots that I like the most about Ren Yingying are that when Linghu Chong and Yue Buqun were fighting in the Shaolin Temple, Ren Woxing was worried that Linghu Chong would not try his best, so he asked Yingying to stand over and remind him. Yingying thought to herself: If he has me in his heart, he will do his best. If not, why make it difficult for him. Refuse to go. This kind of aboveboard character is not what someone who deliberately manipulates emotions would do. First, Linghu Chong was worried about Yue Lingshan, but he was concerned about Ren Yingying and did not dare to offer rescue. Ren Yingying took the initiative. Even though Linghu Chong never forgot about his little junior sister on the cliff, he really loved Ren Yingying. In the beginning, be grateful that the fear is real. But later, when I was joking with Ren Yingying, I couldn't say that I really liked her, I could only say that I had a good impression. However, he said to Yingying: "If we continue to have discord, being a human being will be meaningless." Considering Linghu Chong's personality, is this a perfunctory statement? In the black hole of Siguo Cliff, when I couldn't hear Ren Yingying's voice, I thought crazily, "I killed Yingying." Is this just a sign of gratitude? Before having a life-and-death battle with Ren Woxing, I wanted to marry Yingying. I felt that if I died like this, my life would be regret-free. Is this what I want from a person who is mostly grateful? The little junior sister is the first love, not only the person she likes, but also the only daughter of the master and the master, so she admires and protects her even more. And with Ren Yingying, it was a heart-to-heart love after holding hands in the world, and it was the true love of mutual understanding. Ps: Xu Qing's performance as Ren Yingying is hilarious, she is a charming young woman. There is neither the ruthless aura of Ren Yingying's decisive killing nor the feelings of a young girl like Ren Yingying.

I feel that based on Linghu Chong's character and attitude towards his junior sister, he respects and loves him. In his eyes, the junior sister is both the daughter of his benefactor and the junior sister he has taken care of since childhood. In his eyes, there is no such thing as cooked rice. If what he wants to say is that the two of them fell in love before Lin Pingzhi, it is somewhat possible. Unfortunately, the junior sister probably doesn't like Linghu Chong in her heart, and only loves the pretty girl who needs to be cared for by herself. The junior sister and Lin Pingzhi are destined to be together. Even if there is no family feud, they both have demanding personalities, and women love men more. The junior sister needs to be taken emotionally, and Lin Pingzhi, as a rich, rich and handsome man, needs the junior sister to provide for him in all aspects. Sooner or later, the junior sister will be exhausted. I like the junior sister very much. If the junior sister can fall in love with Linghu Chong, she will be very happy, but she loves Lin Pingzhi.

I read the original work, but I didn't get the impression that this woman was scheming. I really like Yingying