Twenty-One and Blind Dates

I got married at the age of thirty and gave birth to a child at the age of thirty-one. Looking back at my classmates who got married very early, all of them lamented that they had turned from pigeons to ducks early. I don't understand why people get married so early now, but does a woman's life have to be entrusted to her husband and children? What about yourself? What about your life? Is it just for others?

We are both the same~ This is a cup.