The Wedding

I have read a foreign novel before, and it was very thin. It made me confused and I didn't understand it. I just remember being confused, like I am now. Honestly, I'm confused about what do people want? It seems that love is always blocked by something in tragedy. This is the case in that novel. It is very "inexplicable". It is the lack of spiritual love or our love that prevents us from reaching the highest spiritual point. In short, I don't understand it. As for reality, secular restrictions and the like are called "reality". I wonder if we have imprisoned ourselves. Society or the world has created "I", and "I" cannot be "born" without it. ". In other words, what I deeply believe in is based on it, family, society, country or worldly. Without the help of my family and the recognition of society, I was unable to gain a foothold materially and spiritually and realize my plans. Why? What is most important? Career, money, status, identity, love, or just ordinary days? Or even spiritual progress? Is there a big difference between one hundred years or seventy years? Where again? How can I build a new spiritual structure when I am free from the confinement of my existence? Some people say that love is the resonance of the soul. Why be sad when you give up something? Grieving the loss? Since it is lost, why should we deceive ourselves and others that it once existed? If you can live a normal life after grief, it means that the resonance is not that important. Since there are many resonances and almost the same importance, why do people grieve in vain? Is it really necessary to believe that one person for life is necessary? Since love is just a need for a period of time, and after it is over, each of us will be happy, or even defeated by the world (actually by ourselves), then there is no need to be sad, right? If you are miserable for the rest of your life, then this choice is not worth the gain. In this way, I can understand the idea of ​​staying with you after divorce, although I still feel that this kind of momentary compromise is giving up my persistence, and this kind of giving up sometimes lasts a lifetime. So if you wait until you are 35, it is most likely a lie. So why is tragedy more likely to resonate with people? Although it actually doesn't matter anymore, because if a person chooses to give up for whatever reason, he can only move forward, because regret will only destroy the current hope unless new hope is built.

Does everyone experience/cry like this. . .

In this remote town, most people are A Ze and Liang Xia. The people here are stubborn and follow the rules. They don't know what love is. They just think that you have to be like a normal person, like everyone else, have children, husband and children, and everything else is a different kind. Not getting married is a different kind, not having children is a different kind. And these will become shackles in the name of family love, and you can't break free from the cuffs. I thought, if I had money, I would not be afraid of being said, "Will you come with me?" But no, still no. My family will bear the gossip and strange looks on my behalf, and they will be unable to hold their heads high for the rest of their lives. Your family will object, get angry, and cannot escape the gossip from others. In this small town, our roots have been deeply rooted and cannot be pulled out. Then let's compromise, let's stop here, listen to them, live like ordinary people, don't dare to ask for love, live the agreed life, and then grow old here. But it's already 2021, why is it still so difficult for us!

Is it worth it to regret it for the rest of your life?

We are helpless and have no choice. We need the persistence of both parties to see the light.

At least they were together, and I could only keep my love to myself. I didn't even have the courage to say it out loud. I was such a coward.

My current employer will also ask me if she gets married or divorced in the future, can I still be with her? This is obviously not possible for me.

There are often differences between those who entrust their feelings and those who live their lives. Emm, just have fun and have fun. Don't be unhappy if you can be happy. There should be many possibilities if you are still here.

It was good, at least we walked a while and saw the scenery together. After this stop, there may be another stop to look forward to.

Maybe, this is the ending