
A Guide to Calming Your Obsessive Boyfriend
偏执男友安抚指南
- Status
- Completed
- Length
- 386k Words
- Genre
- Danmei (BL)
- Era
- Modern Era
- Updated
- 2y ago
- Source
- JJWXC
Synopsis
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In booklists 30
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For Personal Use: Protagonist-Top Edition
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For Personal Use: BL With Top Moms + Recommendations
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Top-Bottom Stories: Top-Lover Focus, Top-Idolization, Bottom-Torture
No abusing the top; the bottom dotes on the top. Top fans welcome. I love bottoms with intense crushes. Includes self-indulgent tops and weak tops. I avoid weak bottoms, bottom-moms, and gender dysphoria.
Weak Top in Bed (1), Including Fake Strong Tops
Carefully selected stories with a bottom-leaning gong (I’ll specifically label stories with a more or mixed bottom-leaning gong). I’ll try to note any secondary pairings. I don’t really like stories that are angsty just for the sake of it.
I Guess I Just Prefer Seme!
Okay, these are some books I like too. I prefer emotionally restrained stories.
So, You Can't Hide a Reading List?
For personal use
Weak Tops
Top-leaning stories without an overpowered top. This is just a record, so there may not be many. Stories with fake-strong tops are included too.
Finding Good Gong-Protagonist Novels on Jinjiang Is Like Plucking a Chestnut from the Fire
Keeping track of some pursuing-male-lead stories I’ve read and liked. Both BL and GB, and a doting pursued male lead is a bonus.
(All-Top / Male-Protagonist Romance) Adorable and Alluring Top Leads
Top-focused, tops doted on by their bottoms, and strong-bottom/weak-top pairings. No top protagonists. Basically, this is my personal reading log. (The star ratings are totally random.)
A Niche Treat for Those Who Like Playing with Top Characters [Top POV]
If you don't play as the top, what are you even playing for? If you don't like it, you're not the target audience, so don't ruin it for everyone else. A list of stories for those whose tastes include playing the top and some mild top angst.
Top-Gong
Just an ordinary gong-centric reading list.
A Mixed Bag of Top Male Leads
These are all ones I've read and thought were pretty good. It's hard to say how picky I am, but honestly, if you're really picky, there's nothing to read on JJ. TAT
Top-Dom-Leaning Double Male Leads
I’m getting more and more hooked. I’m doing my best to dig up good reads on Jinjiang. Four stars means they’re all great, but JJ won’t let me give everything five stars (middle finger).
Mostly Completed Stories (Top-Dom Leaning)
These are all attack-top stories that left a strong impression on me and that I thought were pretty good. I especially like tops who are much weaker in bed and total heartthrobs.
Top-Love and Switch Pairings
Gong-favorers, this one's for you. I'm not very good at putting my thoughts into words, so give it a look if you're interested.
Quick Transmigration
My bookshelf is full
You’re Not Reading This?
Mostly top-focused, with some versatile tops at the softest. I care a little more about the writing than the top/bottom dynamic.
Top-Lover-Centric 2
I’m into these to varying degrees. I have more reading lists on my profile, so feel free to check them out if you’re stuck for something to read.
For Personal Use 6
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I've finished spreading the flowers. I forgot where I saw it because of the intermittent updates. I'll catch it up when I have time. But I really like World One. Brother Qin is a complex and pure person. He is beautiful and cruel and likes to run away after teasing, but he is also easy to be soft-hearted and coaxed. He is a noble and arrogant kitten, and he is also a cute cat. A little bird that likes freedom, free and easy, unfettered. If you look closely, it actually behaves like this in front of familiar people. It is awkward and cute. You want to keep it in captivity but you are willing to be tamed. I think you enjoy it. The one who is favored has no fear. Xiangxiang, those who get it are blessed~
... Blanch, attack the princess and hold her in the arms... But I can't stand this.
I really want to watch the second part, it's almost become my obsession
The pursuit is over, from the first year of high school to now. Finished with flowers!
It is indeed the Chinese New Year, both wives are back and updated a chapter, touching China
After reading it, I still want to encourage the teacher, it is very well written! ! But what should I say? The content of the article is completely inconsistent with the title. It is a guide to appeasing a paranoid boyfriend. In fact, it is more like Brother Qin's travel diary? There are too few emotional scenes between Qin Maomao and Lao Shou. There are probably only 20 emotional scenes out of 100 chapters. The relationship between the two develops without any friction. All the turns and changes are very abrupt. A lot of pen and ink are used to describe the background setting, supporting characters, and a lot of environmental descriptions, psychological descriptions, plus a lot of Riddlers. There are very few descriptions of the two people really getting along, which made me very tired. Especially the second world, there are too many elements, including campus, infinite flow, monsters, gods and everything else. It is simply a hodgepodge, too messy. Next, let's talk about the character design. Qin Maomao is very cute, but a bit contradictory. The teacher seems to want to write him to be very strong, but he is always injured and deflated in the plot. It's not that it's impossible. The teacher has not found that degree. Strong people occasionally show vulnerability and injury. That is delicious, and he is always vulnerable and injured. It's very strange. Another problem is that every time the teacher writes about Qin Maomao knowing that something is wrong, he still steps into the trap. I thought there was some countermeasure, but it turned out that there was no one at all. It was always the old shou who came to save him. This was the case when he was tied up in the first world, and it was the same when he was lured into falling into the abyss in the second world. Finally, I would like to talk about the overall feeling. The whole article seems bland, too bland, like drinking a glass of boiled water. I am a relatively emotional person and can easily be aroused, but this book did not pull me in at all. This is also my first time to leave a long review. I write so many because I think the teacher's writing style is very good and has great potential. It will definitely get better if you continue to polish it. Come on, teacher! [Shy]
I really like it. It's beautiful. [Heartbroken] [Purple Heart]
Stuck here, won't your conscience hurt? QAQ
Is there another world? I thought Brother Qin had finally decided to stay, but he didn't expect to go to the next world. But the author's writing is quite nice, I'm looking forward to the second part
It's Gabriel, you two will be together forever