Some feelings only reveal their true flavor after time has worked its magic. "I'm glad I found you again before I turned into an old woman," Shen Yi said to Lin Mutang.
In Lin Mutang's childhood memories, there was a girl a few years older than her who often came over to play. Lin Mutang liked her, but the girl didn't seem to like her back. She even scolded Lin Mutang for picking their grandfather's camellias. Later, the girl stopped coming over, and Lin Mutang thought she must hate her...
A child should quickly forget such things, but Lin Mutang could never forget that older girl. She kept those childhood feelings hidden in her heart, never telling anyone, until many years later, when her family arranged for her to move into that very girl's home...
At least the other person seemed to have forgotten her, forgotten the way she had scolded Lin Mutang for doing something wrong as a child... It was such a shame that she had forgotten her, forgotten the grapes Lin Mutang had picked for her, and the way Lin Mutang had smiled and said hello...
Theme: Cherish life, love yourself, and treasure the person by your side
I found the copywriting interesting. The emotions fermented over time may only be felt deeply if you own them, but they are beautiful and full of hope. So in my opinion, although it is an abusive article, the whole idea is positive and beautiful. (But I feel like I really can't read more realistic novels, which crush my heart and maybe make me stronger in the end...) There are always problems in the world/people, and those who dare to solve problems and lead others to solve them are very admirable. There is a movie called Detachment, and there is also a book I like called The Elegance of the Hedgehog. When I think of this, I want to say that the spirit that exists beyond oneself is great. It makes you forget the suffering and struggle in the world and treat all thoughts with an open attitude. However, we often cannot transcend our own weaknesses, but if we think about it from another perspective, perhaps we should be grateful for these objective things. Even if they are weaknesses, flaws and shortcomings, they are real. The spirit is their reflection but is made freer by imagination. So can we say that the combination of the two creates greatness.
There is only one sentence: I really envy those who have girlfriends (you have to work hard woo woo woo)
I still saw what I least wanted to see.
Lin Mutang shouldn't go back to get married. It's okay to find another girlfriend.
Mu Mu, don't get married without thinking about it. Even if you are single for the rest of your life, it is better than being with a man. Marriage is not good for women at all.
Many people who are so called forced to separate are because of cowardice and selfishness. They love themselves the most, so they can easily compromise. Just like Lu You, he says he loves his cousin more, but he still marries others and lets women give him children. It's normal for his cousin to be forced. In a male-dominated society, a man is a master. Being forced is just an excuse to give up his cousin for a better future.
The same goes for Shen Yi. He didn't even reply to a message for so long. Everyone would be angry. Mu Mu should be with another woman.
Why do you want to put an annoying man in the middle of them? Mu Mu also, why do you want to travel with that man?
Girls should also be careful when going to mountain villages to teach. In fact, mountain villages are not as simple and kind-hearted as they want. They are more populated by unruly people. The poorer the place, the less friendly it is to women. It is very dangerous to go to such a place.
What does it mean that being with a woman is not the right way? Have you seen less of the news about domestic violence and wife killing? Shen Yi's thoughts are still stuck in the Qing Dynasty. Being with a man is the beginning of disaster, okay? Most of the suffering a woman has suffered in this life comes from men.