Mother's Dream

The later writing was very frivolous. If it were really based on reality, first of all, Qin Ye, as a husband, could not be so rich, nor could he love Tao Zi so much. There would be such plots as buying murderers to kill people, and heroes saving beauties. As a housewife, Taozi will not break through the barriers to try to manage her own life, but will only guard her husband and daughter, and self-hypnotize herself that she is living a good life, just like at the end of this article. Housewives with no income, although everyone will be polite and say that the other party has contributed a lot to the family, but in fact they have no say. Why do women have a lower voice? It's because women always seem to have the option of becoming housewives. They don't have to enter a cruel society to struggle and fight for survival. After all, it's the husband who makes the money and endures the pressure from many people in society. As a wife, she only needs to endure her husband, or a few people like her mother-in-law. These women have little connection with society, so how can they have a say? It is very simple to give the initiative in life to others, without thinking or effort. But if one day the husband is gone, for example, becomes a gambling dog and runs away, or cheats on his mistress and runs away, or dies in an accident, then the housewife with the child will still have to face the problem of survival? Can you find the next man to take on your life at this time? Or should I go into social work to support myself and my children? The greater possibility is the latter. In fact, housewives have such a sword of Damocles hanging over their heads and they don't know when it will fall. Want to bet on luck? There will never be a moment of falling? You have to face the hardships of life and survival by yourself. To avoid being unprepared for such hardships, try not to let yourself become a housewife. Although some sisters in plq mentioned that they have seen many families that do not want to break up, it is true because they have already lost their way in the early stages and have lost the ability and courage to stand up on their own. There is no need to push them out of their comfort zone unless they are truly pushed into a corner where they don't know if they will be able to stand up. But there are many young girls who are still reading the article. There are still many choices now. Don't let yourself lose the courage to live independently, and don't let yourself lose the ability to live independently. Choosing to become a housewife is not a choice, it is just an excuse not to endure hardship. But what is not bitter? If you don't suffer the hardships of survival, you will have to suffer the hardships brought by your husband.

Real crematorium. What was burned was Tao Zi's newly awakened female consciousness and the so-called "dream power" What was ruined was the independent personality and self-awareness that countless married women had or never had.

It's so touching. After all the hard work, I came home again. Women, you must find your own meaning in the family. No matter how well you live outside, family is the most important. You see your husband treats you better, and your mother-in-law doesn't dare to say anything. It's great. Your status at home has been greatly improved. It's extremely touching. This is what women should be like, home is the only meaning! The only drawback is that I didn't get the name well. 90% Of it is done at home. How can I call it my mother's dream? It should be called "mother's life value—family."

I didn't feel much about Housewife, I just felt it was an anticlimax. It started with a big banner of "dream", but towards the end there was no description of the dream. The theme of the whole text can be said to have a beginning and an end, intermittently, until it is silent at the end. Let me say another thing, the contradictory turning point was not foreshadowed and too sudden. In the full text, the daughter is actually more hateful than her mother-in-law Qin Ye. She completely doesn't understand her mother's love for her, and she bullies the weak. She looks down on Taozi, who has no family status, and cheats on her father (suspected). Her grandmother made several attempts to find a second marriage partner for her father, without any psychological reaction. She only has a faint pity for her mother, not even sympathy! In this way, the author downplays the conflict between the daughter and her mother in a few short chapters. The title of the article is "Mother's Dream", which is to explore the connection between mother and daughter from the perspective of the daughter. At least in the first half of the chapter, the author focuses more on the relationship between Taozi and her daughter than Qin Ye. But in the later part, it is not the same. The writing is messy and several lines are not handled well. The plot twist is so abrupt, I think it has something to do with the author's way of updating the article. I hope it will stop teasing readers' love for the article. No one can bear the consumption!

I thought it was going to be a story about the heroine starting a new life, but I didn't expect that she went back to being a nanny after just a few words of coaxing, respect and blessings

Awesome, this article is really awesome, I'm convinced, it's a waste of my time, don't read it, just talk too much and have nothing to say.

Seeing that so many people are against the author, I will give my own opinion. If I had read this article a year or two ago, I would indeed have scolded it along with most of the plq sisters, feeling that it was not "femalely awakened" enough. . But since I started to provide social services and come into contact with more real women and families, I have discovered that many things cannot be solved by what you call "awakening". . The most important thing is to make the final result meet the needs of the parties involved, not the needs of bystanders. You are a "new woman" with a liberated mind, but you also have to accept that some people are not. What they want is a family life, but there is no way. Can you encourage them to divorce? You see they are divorced and you are happy, but what will they do? This is just a novel, and many places are turned into fairy tales. Everyone who reads the book is a student party and has been exposed to more ideological people. But it will be difficult to solve real-life problems with this kind of thinking, because reality is not that you can get a perfect answer just by saying "Don't be a housewife."

So many people in the comments agree with the author's views, and so do I. The writing is really good. In 2023, I still feel that whether a woman is a housewife or works outside the home is a personal choice. Women cannot be deprived of their right to happiness as a housewife. They can also find personal value and meaning in the family. I am as happy and happy as Taozi's daughter. Women must also learn from Taozi, go home and be housewives, and give their husbands and children a happy home! Let them work outside and have the right to speak, and let us have children at home and be their solid backing and warm harbor! And it's so difficult to find a job outside now, with all kinds of discrimination against women. It's better to stay at home and take care of the family, where your husband loves you and your children!

I have read a sentence before and I think it is very good: I hope that the illusory world of novels can bring me the possibility of women reaching the pinnacle of power, instead of becoming more tolerant of men and feeling sorry for themselves in the past sufferings.

So, what is your mother's dream?