The Fierce Wife of the 1980S

This book gave me a feeling after reading it Quiet frustration Why do you feel this way? Calm because this is the ordinary life of a family, honoring the elders, working hard, and teaching the children. It can be said that Zhou Chengning, the female teacher in middle school, and the snobbish teacher in college are the villains and the biggest troubles. Such days look calm and warm, trivial and warm. Why do you say frustrated? After reading this story, I think it is a redemption. In this rebirth, Xu Xiangjuan regained love. She paid attention to her husband's inner world, was more patient and peaceful with her children, and was in a dominant position in the family relationship. Although she had a very good life in her previous life, because of her husband's presence in this life, she felt that she had something to rely on, and she was even more indomitable. Guagua has always been excellent, but she seemed more impatient during her adolescence in her previous life. This time she grew up in a peaceful environment with loving parents, a patient and gentle mother, and her father's academic guidance helped her to be among the best. She became more calm, confident, and considerate of her family. As for Niu Niu, it is not difficult to see from Xu Xiangjuan's education method this time and previous memories. Under the guidance of her strong and independent mother and sister, Niu Niu appears weak, and may also be a little unsure because of the lack of male elders or being inferior to her sister and mother in many aspects. However, this time Xu Xiangjuan educated Niu Niu with patient communication and constant encouragement. Niu Niu appears confident, has her own ideas, is very considerate and filial to her parents, and is generous and courteous to others. Judging from the way he gets along with Zhou Chengning, Niu Niu and Zhou Chengning are like friends of the same generation. He recognizes his father's physical superiority, but his wisdom still recognizes his sister and mother. When he has psychological needs, he longs for his mother more. This is also the psychological state of most children of this age, but this is not that he does not love his father. With the help of his sister and mother, he will understand his father's behavior and make concessions considerately, and will also consider his father's psychological feelings. But the only one who is stubborn and unwilling to be rescued, unwilling to open his heart to let others understand, and understand the hearts of others is Zhou Chengning. Everyone loves him, but he trapped himself in a childhood and youth that lacked love, money, and security. Because he lacked the love of his parents during his childhood, he longs for double or triple the love from his wife to make up for what he lacks. When he does good things, he will especially want his wife to praise him. If his wife pays more attention to the children than him, he will be jealous and angry. If he fails in an activity, he will be particularly disappointed. He must always confirm his wife's love. This is also the reason why I feel that he does not look like a husband, but looks like Xu Xiangjuan's eldest son. Many times he will be extremely possessive, just like every child is possessive of his mother. Regarding the issue of money, I cannot criticize him from a God's perspective for trying to prevent Xu Xiangjuan from buying a house. He did not know that housing prices would rise like this, so I cannot say that he has low vision. Let me talk about the real small problems, the New Year's pocket money. My mother was born in 1970, and the New Year's money given to my mother by my great-grandfather is two yuan a year. My grandmother was stingy and would buy processed fruits until 2010. Even though she was so stingy, she never confiscated my mother's New Year's money. Why? Because my mother would never spend money recklessly. What about Zhou Chengning? Because he was once poor, he was unhappy with every penny the children had, really every penny of pocket money. He couldn't see the children spending any money at the canteen. In his opinion, this was unnecessary, so he would be unhappy every time Guagua Niuniu got lucky money. What is the actual situation? The actual situation is that Guagua Niuniu has never spent money arbitrarily, and they don't finish the snacks they buy right away. They also think about saving money to give their mother gifts that she likes. And after their mother's reminder, they understand their father's psychology and avoid spending money on him. But Zhou Chengning has never really understood that his children have different consumption concepts from his, and he has double standards. The gifts he bought for his wife were expensive and he thought they were practical. In fact, Xu Xiangjuan didn't think they were very satisfactory, so they were not practical. In order to maintain her husband's self-esteem and not to forcefully point out where her husband spends money, Xu Xiangjuan did not say which gifts she did not need. Zhou Chengning did not discover this until the end. Even when he thought his gift was better than the gifts given by the children. What I can't stand the most about Zhou Chengning is his hidden inferiority complex. He will classify people into three, six or nine classes. He thinks that his wife is the highest class. He will be unhappy because he is not as powerful as his mother in Niu Niu's heart. It is not because he is not as good as his wife, but because he feels that Niu Niu's class is not high and he has no right to feel that way. He is obviously a teacher, but he always hits Niu Niu in a weird way. Why? Because winning a blow can give him a sense of superiority. Niu Niu, who is three or four years old, can be happy when he wins a quarrel. Why not hit his wife and daughter, because he really can't beat Guagua and Juan, and they will not pay attention to his blows. Who else belongs to the higher class in Zhou Chengning's heart? Ping An. Niu Niu said he wanted to be as tall as Ping An instead of like him when he grew up, and he would be sour. Niu Niu said he wanted to stay at Ping An's house for a few days, and he would be sour. Niu Niu wanted Ping An to play at home, so he had to prepare chairs, but he had to emphasize to Niu Niu that Ping An was a relative, not a friend. Then, I personally believe that Zhou Chengning is very selfish. There are two reasons. One is that he basically has to be coaxed into conflicts with everyone; the second is that he never takes the initiative to understand the hearts of his family members. He just wants to lie down and be forcefully arranged. He doesn't know that Xu Xiangjuan doesn't like watching martial arts movies. He doesn't know that Xu Xiangjuan just prefers to receive flowers. He doesn't know why Guagua is obsessed with giving mom small leather shoes. He doesn't know why Niu Niu thinks that his father is inferior to his mother. Mom is trustworthy. As a father and a teacher, he has never mentioned any future study plans for Guagua Niuniu. As a grandson, his filial piety to his grandfather is also very limited. In his previous life, his grandfather passed away and he did not live a good life. In this life, Xu Xiangjuan is mostly mentioned. Since he was able to study and grow up under the care of his grandfather, his cooking skills also speak for themselves. So, I feel aggrieved. But being able to see so many problems with the male protagonist shows that this character is still three-dimensional, but I personally don't like the character. Overall, this is still a bland novel suitable for passing time. The characters are not only stunning and colorful, but they are also real and warm enough.

Ordinary life, real and beautiful, everyone has a good ending, there is no too bloody plot, I like it

Today my grandpa passed away, and I thought of the hero and heroine in this book again, and I felt that they were very similar to my grandparents. After my grandpa died, he was reluctant to leave my grandma alone. He didn't want any of his sons. He only wanted a son-in-law to accompany him. He said a lot that he would take good care of grandma. Grandma cried and said don't miss her and let him go. Finally, he whispered a few words, "Don't worry, I don't worry, I don't worry," and then left this world.

Fortunately, the extra story stops here. Thinking about what happened in the past life and the following life makes me feel distressed. This is a really rare book. It doesn't have so many golden fingers. It relies entirely on the heroine's own efforts. The only cooking skill that can be regarded as a "gold finger" is the heroine's hard work in her previous life. , So the golden finger can only refer to the male and female protagonist's relatively outstanding appearance. The male protagonist is not a domineering president, not a big shot who stomps his feet and shakes the world, he is just an ordinary person. There is not so much hatred or slap in the face, the whole book is very warm, just like a cup of warm tea. At first, I still hated Guagua, but under the author's writing, Guagua's image gradually became fuller. She has her own selfish side, but she also has a smart and sensible side. Not everyone is absolutely perfect, everything is just right. The happiness of ordinary people is also beautiful.

I love this ordinary life so much

I have to read it again. After reading the novel for so many years, the male protagonists that make me most fond of are Sangen and Aning. It can be said that Aning is my ideal one. From the beginning when I thought about what kind of boyfriend I would look for in the future, it has always been my favorite until now. In the past, I wanted to attack several colleagues because I started to feel that the other person was shy. I really like this kind of person.

I really like Juan like this. She is very straightforward. I will go to Bushi if I like it. I really find that I can't get enough~ I also want to see Guagua and Niu Niu grow up. Juan and Aning grow old together, but in fact, both of them made mistakes in their previous lives. Aning was too miserable when he was a child and could not express anything when he grew up. Juan also has a center shift after having a child, but it is really inevitable for a mother to pay more attention to the child after giving birth. Okay, in my heart The whole family has lived with He Meimei all their lives~

When I saw the ABO chapter and the modern chapter, I felt that the writing style was very different from the main text. After reading it carefully, I found that the article was written in 19 years. This is progress

Ahhhhhhhhhhh, and after-sales service! ! ! ! ! !

Why did I only see Zuo Hua after reading it?